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So, there's this kid that I've been talking to for a while. We used to be totally into each other, but we weren't dating because of how far we lived from each other (an hour) and the both of us can't drive. He's also sixteen and I'm fourteen.
We used to talk a lot, but he figured out that he liked this other girl who went to his high school, so he just forgot about me and dated her. We stopped talking for a couple months and he still occassionally talks to me. I recently told him I never got over him and it's been about five months since he told me he liked the other girl. Sometimes I ask him if he's completely over me and he goes, "Idk." So, that gives absolutely no help whatsoever. He dated the girl for about a month until they broke up, but I'm pretty sure he's still in love with her. He still tells me he misses me and wishes he could see me more often and when he does, it makes me feel great, but then there are days when I talk to him and I can just tell that he doesn't want to talk to me because he only answers with one word. For example, I would say, "What's up?" and he would just go, "Nothing." And then the conversation would end. Then, there are other days when he's totally hype about talking to me! My friend makes fun of him and calls him bipolar, but I still love him.
My actually question is, Does he still like me? Or does he just feel bad that I still like him and he doesn't feel the same way, so he flirts with me?
And, what can I do to get over this kid? Everytime I hear, see, or someone mentions his name, I cringe. It's really that bad. I can't go through a day without thinking of him.
Help? Please! Thanks in advance to whoever answers.
I apologize for the length. (link)
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well , i understand your situation i think that if he didn't like you anymore he would ethier not talk to you at all , or hardly talk to you period and if your'e really not sure if he is still interested ask him be like i know you said you don't know if you're are over me or not , and that confuses me can you just tell me yes or no cause i still like you alittle bit , and if he says yes thank way to go if he says no , then it's okay theres plenty more guys out there who must be interested in you. & if you still can't get over him fully just remind yourself that you can do better then a guy who doesn't know what he wants that you're smarter then that . hope i've helped
-toriibabeyyx0
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is there any good way to tell someone you like them without straight up saying i like you? i think it would just be random, and i'm 18 and have never told ANYONE ive liked them before but i've decided i need to tell this boy. i've liked him for three years now !! its a confusing situation but i just dont want to be random about it so id like to know how people have told others they've liked them, and how it worked out :) thanks! (link)
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To be compeletely honest ive never ever told a guy ive liked them . I usually am like i i think your kinda cute or your hot . Or something like that or im like do you think you would ever like me ? Hope ive helped alitte bit . - torii babiiee
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okayy i really like this guy and he knows i liek him but some people say that he does liek me and some people say he doesnt.... and i reaaly want to find out if he doesn or dosent i know everyone thinks that i should just go up to him in person and ask him but i cant do that...... what do i do?
thanks
loveboys (link)
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Its okay dont stress it . Just go up to his friemd and be like hey , can you do me a favor ? Ive been hereing around the school that your friemd so & so likes me and well i wanted to know if its true id apreciate it if you asked him for me . And then he'll tell you if he said yes or no but dont be upset if he said no im sure they are many more fellas out there (; hope ive helped - torii babiiee *
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my boyfriend broke up with me bc he said im 2 down on my self he was like were done. he also said i put 2 much emotional baggage on him.. i am rlly saddd.. but is it right for a guy to break up bc of me being too down on myself..im really sad (link)
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No . I dont think its right the least you'd think your ex would have done was comfort you so wouldnt be down on yourself trust me be happy that he's gone if he doesnt wanna help you feel better about yourself hes not worth even being sad over trust me ive been there . I have no doubt that you'll find someone who will treat you right and not dump you like that . Hope you feel better . - torii babiiee *
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Im a 14f if it helps.. So recently I've started to like this guy again. I've known him for three years ablnd am just getting to know him the end of last year (school time so around April). I have a ton of crazy friends and he is definately one of them. We flirt. Every time I get a chance to see him actually :) He is hilarious and likes to joke around and whatnot. We have some things in common like football, music, ect. Sunday (27th) my best guy friend michael had a bowling party. ( he is the class clown and still manages to get straight a's and student of the year) Ofcourse he was invited and we got to bowl in the same lane and stuff. What I like about him is that if he's good at something he doesn't show off like an idiot. He's 14 too. Okay so the real problem is that lately he is all I can think about. Everything seems to remind me of him. Especially when me and my bestfriend went bowling again with some other guys and she ended up with a date. I'm happy for her because this is what she has been waiting for for months. He used to like me... Anyway last night made me realize that I'm tired of waiting for the guy to be a gentleman and not do anything until they're sure u like them. I thought I should tell him how I really feel. This would be m first bf and I'm scared of regection. How the heck am I supposed to so this? And what's not an akward way to tell him? Also I need help standing out and I want him to notice me. I'm already outgoing and do crazy stuff but when is it going overboard and does he really notice me ? (sorry it's so long, I needed some background) thanks for any help (link)
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If you reeeaalllyy have feelings for this guy i think you should tell him how you feel be like i know these things can be kinda awkward but i dont want it to be i kinda like you i was wondering if you felt the same way if you dont i hope we can still be good friends . And if he says he doesnt dont be discouraged atleast you tryed trust me theres PLENTY more fish in the sea if he does say yes hope all works out for you . Hope ive helped -torii babiiee *
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so i have this friend.
and we used to talk everynight on the phone.
and we'd text all the time.
we'd say i love you in the halls at school.
[no, it wasnt an absessive relationship or anything...]
now he stopped answering the phone && he stopped calling.
he stopped texting. butt he still texts my friends.
now we dont even talk at school. :/
is he even worth it?
i sorta started falling for him.
and then people started asking if we were going out.
maybe they asked him too and it got akward?
butt my best friend says hes not worth it and to drop it.. i dunno. should i? (link)
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Ive been there trust me iknow how you feel trust me if hes gonna ignorge you hes not worth it . You can ethier forget about him or you can confront him and ask him why he is ignorgeing you and why he doesnt talk to you anymore ask him if its because people were talking about them thinking you guys were going out . If he still ignorges you then he wasnt a good friend to begin with hope ive helped alittle . - torii babiiee*
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i love flirting but now its going around in school that im a slut, i havent done anything but makeout with a couple guys. never had sex before. its really getting to me because the guys i like i feel like they only want me for sex or because they heard i was a slut. (link)
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awee dont worry ive been there ,
trust me you shouldnt like the guy
if he only likes you for sex he's
abesoulutely not worth your time
trust me . if your not sure ;
i know it might be awkward but
ask him be like why do you like me ?
if he doesnt really have a good answer
then he's probally lieing & forget about
the people saying that your a slut .
they've probally got there insecurities
and so they make up things about you
because they have nothing better to do
with there time , hope ive helped .
_torii babeyyy
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