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Sick of being single


Question Posted Monday December 29 2008, 8:00 am

Im a 14f if it helps.. So recently I've started to like this guy again. I've known him for three years ablnd am just getting to know him the end of last year (school time so around April). I have a ton of crazy friends and he is definately one of them. We flirt. Every time I get a chance to see him actually :) He is hilarious and likes to joke around and whatnot. We have some things in common like football, music, ect. Sunday (27th) my best guy friend michael had a bowling party. ( he is the class clown and still manages to get straight a's and student of the year) Ofcourse he was invited and we got to bowl in the same lane and stuff. What I like about him is that if he's good at something he doesn't show off like an idiot. He's 14 too. Okay so the real problem is that lately he is all I can think about. Everything seems to remind me of him. Especially when me and my bestfriend went bowling again with some other guys and she ended up with a date. I'm happy for her because this is what she has been waiting for for months. He used to like me... Anyway last night made me realize that I'm tired of waiting for the guy to be a gentleman and not do anything until they're sure u like them. I thought I should tell him how I really feel. This would be m first bf and I'm scared of regection. How the heck am I supposed to so this? And what's not an akward way to tell him? Also I need help standing out and I want him to notice me. I'm already outgoing and do crazy stuff but when is it going overboard and does he really notice me ? (sorry it's so long, I needed some background) thanks for any help

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toriibabeyyx0 answered Wednesday December 31 2008, 5:09 pm:
If you reeeaalllyy have feelings for this guy i think you should tell him how you feel be like i know these things can be kinda awkward but i dont want it to be i kinda like you i was wondering if you felt the same way if you dont i hope we can still be good friends . And if he says he doesnt dont be discouraged atleast you tryed trust me theres PLENTY more fish in the sea if he does say yes hope all works out for you . Hope ive helped -torii babiiee *

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iwantthetruth answered Tuesday December 30 2008, 9:19 pm:
Well if you want this guy so badly, then I say you go for it. :) Yes, there is a chance that he will reject you, but that's life. I, however, am a firm believer in getting what you want. So, I say when you guys hang out again and it comes time to say goodbye you can either tell him, or you can just kiss him on the cheek right after you hug him goodbye. But if you kiss him, don't just walk away. You should wait to see how he reacts. If neither of these methods appeal to you, you could also just keep flirting but more aggressively such as; telling him he's hot, hugging him a lot, sitting really close to him, ect. Make it obvious. Some guys are just really shy about making a move so you have to do it instead. Anyways, best of luck to ya! And if for whatever reason he doesn't like you like that, just tell him it's cool and that you can still be friends. Life goes on and on so you'll be fine. Peace <3

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