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friends. attraction


Question Posted Monday December 29 2008, 5:31 am

i was previously engaged and he cheated on me so we broke up. well i grew up with this guy and we were close up until last summer and then we stopped talking because he started dating one of my "acquaintances" well they broke up around the same time we did and for the past month we have been hanging out a lot. we went hiking today and it was so peaceful. well tonight we both admitted there is something there. i dont know if i should open myself up to that again. neither of us want a serious relationship. we arent ready but we need each other to lean on seeing as how we are going through the same situation.
should i continue being his good friend or should we have a fun friendship/kinda relationship?
like hike and go places and kiss sometimes but stay just good friends?


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Additional info, added Monday December 29 2008, 5:36 am:
id like to add that its like heaven when we touch. just sparks fly. we laugh all the time and i feel like our eyes sparkle constantly.

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WittyUsernameHere answered Thursday January 1 2009, 2:05 am:
You both still need time to heal.

Hang out alot, keep it strictly friends. No kissing, no prolonged touching.

Wait. Until you're both going nuts. You'll give in eventually, and when you do you'll both be more ready, a bit more healed up.

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SunshineGirl0325 answered Tuesday December 30 2008, 10:37 pm:
From what you've just told me here... it's probably a good idea to start a relationship with him. Why? You don't want to hold in all those feelings. Don't you just want to let them out? Well, I'm assuming your answer is yes, so just start a relationship with him. Of course, it doesn't have to be a serious one right away. Make it any kind that you want with him. =]
Hope I helped!

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