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i was previously engaged and he cheated on me so we broke up. well i grew up with this guy and we were close up until last summer and then we stopped talking because he started dating one of my "acquaintances" well they broke up around the same time we did and for the past month we have been hanging out a lot. we went hiking today and it was so peaceful. well tonight we both admitted there is something there. i dont know if i should open myself up to that again. neither of us want a serious relationship. we arent ready but we need each other to lean on seeing as how we are going through the same situation.
should i continue being his good friend or should we have a fun friendship/kinda relationship?
like hike and go places and kiss sometimes but stay just good friends? (link)
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From what you've just told me here... it's probably a good idea to start a relationship with him. Why? You don't want to hold in all those feelings. Don't you just want to let them out? Well, I'm assuming your answer is yes, so just start a relationship with him. Of course, it doesn't have to be a serious one right away. Make it any kind that you want with him. =]
Hope I helped!
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does anyone have an ipod touch? i definately want to by an ipod and im not sure whether to just save money and buy a nano, or buy the ipod touch. is the ipod the ipod touch worth the money? and do they break easily?
also do you have to have wifi access at the time to go on facebook or can you go on it whenevere because its an app? (link)
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The ipod touch is AMAZING! Sadly, I don't have it... but I wish I did! It has just about everything, actually lol. It has internet connection, tons of options for games, movies, all that good stuff. It's awesome, and I SO wish I had it.
It is definetly worth the money. My brother has one and I use it sometimes... it's pretty darn cool!
So, if I were you, I'd get it! =]
Hope I helped!
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I am Lucy and iam 20 Years old i have never had a serious, long term relationship,now that I am throwen between 2 guys that i have a lot of potential with.I find myself confused and i don't know what to do. need advice... heres background info on them.
candidate#1 ADVANTAGES: 1.know him for a year, have really good conversation with him 2. he is very understanding and easy going, know A lot more about me than anyonElse. 3. he has made me understand that he has never met anyone like me and wants to have a future with me.DISADVANTAGES: 1.he is eight years older than me witch is not that bad 2.At the time being we both live in differnt states, hes in texas and iam in arizona.3 he has a child already,with doesnt bother me at all but to my family it might.
EXTRA DETAIL: I HAVE REALLY STRONG FEELING TOWARDS HIM... BUT AT THE SAME TIME ITS CONFUSING BECAUSE HOM HIMSELF ADVICES ME TO GO FOR CANIDATE #2 INSTEAD OF HIM... HE REALLY WANTS THE BEST 4 ME...
canidate #2 ADVANTAGES:1. he is such a nice guy has alot going for him and life goals.2. known him for about 6 months he as well has made me understand that he wants a serious realationship with me.3. my family knows about him approve of him,they believe that he will give me the happiness and future i deserve..
DISADVANTAGES: 1. He is 23 years old, which is the perfect differnce in age but i actually wanted some one older. 2.our conversation and communication is not the best, just regular here and there question and answers.3.he is a former friend of my brother whitch on his behave its ok...
EXTRA DETAIL: HE IS EVRYTHING I EVER WANTED IN A GUY.. BUT THE FEELINGS ARE NOT THAT STRONGS TOWARDS HIM.. WELL ATLEAST NOT YET...
There is aslo alot more differnces among the both, but i still find my self stuck between two walls. would appricate your advice
thanks lucy (link)
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With the descriptions you gave... option one is the best. It seems like you like him a lot more, plus he wants the best for you by telling you to go to another guy, which HAS to mean something. So, if I were you, I would go for #1.
Love has no age limits. =]
Hope I helped!
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Iam a 19 year old female and iam 5'2 and I weigh 160 pounds and I want to get down to at least 130 pounds. How can I lose 30 pounds in a healthy way? (link)
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Okay, this solution doesn't work for everyone, but it works for most people.
First of all, only eat when you're hungry. NEVER eat just because you're bored or just for the heck of it.
Secondly, work out. Make it part of your daily schedule.
And, of course, eat healthy.
Hopefully this will work...
and I hope I helped! (:
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In 2000 my grandparents got divorced, by this time I was seven years old, & I didnt think old people was supposed to divorce, needless to say, my grandpa had found someone over the internet. He left my grandma, I see my grandma almost everyday, but in the past 8 years, I bet I could count on one hand how many times I've seen my papaw, and I could count on maybe three fingers how many times he's told me he loves me since the separation.
This Christmas was the first Christmas I'd seen my Grandpa in a longg time. I miss him soo much, I'm so afraid that I dont have much time to restore our relationship. And something else that doesnt help, this woman, that lives with him, wont even let me see him. I use to call, when I was little, to go over to their house to see him, and she would say that I wasnt invited, and it was rude to invite myself, and anyhow they were busy. I dont have any other grandpa, he died before I was born, and I'm just so angry, and hurt, that my grandpa, the only one I've ever had, wont even take the time to call me, to tell me he loves me, he wont even wave when he see's me.
I was watching this video tonight...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hCoViK0G43Y&feature=related
& it instantly reminded me of him. He's not going to be here forever...
Please, I just need someone to talk to, someone to comfort me.
Thanks, all is appreciated.
15/Female (link)
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I'm so sorry about that! It must be SUPER hard for you. :(
If you need someone to talk to, I'm totally here for you. My advice, though, would be to talk to your parents about it before you try calling him again. They'll probably have a solution. That's why parents are there: They help you get through things you can't get through on your own. And friends, of course, would help too.
Hope that helps... (:
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I tried to get a blackberry today but the verizon store said I would have to pay an extra $30 a month for internet for internet or something. Is the palm treo the same way? (link)
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I used to have a palm treo. I'm not sure if my answer is right or not, but first of all the palm treo is mainly for internet, so it would be kind of pointless to get one without using internet.
I think there is a way, though, to disconnect the internet so you don't have to use it. When you click something on the phone that has internet, it will give you an option to either enter the internet page thing or not. You can easily click no.
I'm pretty sure you don't have to pay extra for the internet on the palm treo, though.
Hope that helps... (:
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When we first started dating I loved being with him and he loved being with me. He used to kiss and hug and just be very touchy feely and affectionate toward me. He used to tell me I was pretty and sexy all the time. He even had a cute nickname for me. Lovebug. He never calls me that anymore. Now he doesn't ever kiss me. If we kiss, it's because I kiss him and even then he acts like he doesn't want to and just gives me such a quick peck I don't even have time to respond. It's like he just wants to get it over with as soon as possible. It's like that with sex too. We used to have sex two or three times a day and it lasted. But now it's over in literally thirty seconds after he enters me if not shorter. He never compliments me anymore either. And he has such a short temper with me all the time. I don't know if he still wants to be with me or not. He does still say I love you all the time, he just does'nt show it anymore. (link)
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From the way you just described your relationship, I'm not seeing how it's going to go anywhere. Even though he says I love you all the time, I doubt he means it like the way he used to.
You could either:
1. End the relationship
or
2. Talk to him about it, and you could probably tell what he wants if you talk to him about how you're feeling
If I were you, I'd go with option one first...
Now those aren't the only options, of course. Those are just the options that I advice you to choose from.
Hope that helps... (:
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my boyfriend and i had been together for almost 3 months but we have had crushes on each other for over a year. we have always been an item and we are both funny and silly people.
before we got into a realionship it was during the summer and we hung out once, apparently he was busy working and at football practice. and i was understanding although i wasnt being very faithful.
so i got into this realionship and things went well the first week but we didnt talk as much as i wanted to. and he would only call once a day only 3 or 4 days a week. and we never texted and we never saw each other only at school.
this would make me very mad and i would complain to other people and they would talk to him and he would get angry at me. so finally now i have been complaining to him that i want to be closer and talk more. he got fed up and said if you keep compliaing im done. and he was sick of this.
all my friends tell me to end it but my mom says just to let it be and deal with it. my mom is always right about her advice.
so my question is what do you think i should do.
i cannot talk to him about this situation anymore because he will get mad and possibly break up.
what should i do? (link)
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First of all, this is how I go by with my problems, always listen to you friends. Mostly, peoples friends understand them then their own parents, so they give better advice. That's why, in this case especially, you should listen to your friends. I agree with them completely.
He's not right for you. He's not what you want. You need to end it before you get caught up with him. My best guy friend always says that the women are the boss of the relationship and that we shouldn't let some guy push us around and be the leader in the relationship.
You need to take control and just end the relationship, because he isn't right for you.
Hope that helps... (:
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Okay recap, I just got a new guinea pig 2 months old. ( my other one died of a respatory infection) and now the cage is made of wood that's just been varnished is it safe or not? (link)
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You should probably get a cage that has 'metal' bars, I'm not sure how else to explain it. I'm not sure wood is the best thing for a guinea pig to be living in. I used to have a guinea pug myself, and I had the kind of cage with skinny 'metal' bars, and it worked perfectly, so maybe you should try that out instead of wood? If the guinea pig somehow chews through the wood he/she could cut him/herself and that wouldn't be good.
Hope that helps... (:
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My best friend is in some sort of a self-esteem rut or something. He and I are both 17/M. He used to be a 24/7 cheery and funny guy, but ever since he started thinking about getting a girlfriend, he's gotten to be more and more depressing. I tried to help him out, you, know, pushed him to ask out girls he likes, but he would always just say something like "She'll say no. Even if she says yes, I'd be a terrible boyfriend."
Now, I'm seeing less and less of him because he's spending more and more time locked up in his room, being depressed. It sucks! I want my friend back and I want the guy to be happy. What do I do? (link)
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The whole girlfriend thing probably isn't the only reason why he's feeling depressed. I would ask him what's bothering him and talk to him about how he's been more depressed lately and try to help him out by supporting him. It seems like he has a low self esteem, so try to point out to him why a girl would be stupid enough not to go out with him. If he makes excuses to not asking a girl out, then don't push it. Tell him that if he says those things like "She'll say no." or whatever, then he'll soon be right. He needs to be confident in himself and he won't get a girlfriend that fast if he isn't.
Hope that helps... (:
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