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THE GUY I LOVE VS. THE GUY THAT IS RIGHT FOR ME???
I am Lucy and iam 20 Years old i have never had a serious, long term relationship,now that I am throwen between 2 guys that i have a lot of potential with.I find myself confused and i don't know what to do. need advice... heres background info on them.
candidate#1 ADVANTAGES: 1.know him for a year, have really good conversation with him 2. he is very understanding and easy going, know A lot more about me than anyonElse. 3. he has made me understand that he has never met anyone like me and wants to have a future with me.DISADVANTAGES: 1.he is eight years older than me witch is not that bad 2.At the time being we both live in differnt states, hes in texas and iam in arizona.3 he has a child already,with doesnt bother me at all but to my family it might.
EXTRA DETAIL: I HAVE REALLY STRONG FEELING TOWARDS HIM... BUT AT THE SAME TIME ITS CONFUSING BECAUSE HOM HIMSELF ADVICES ME TO GO FOR CANIDATE #2 INSTEAD OF HIM... HE REALLY WANTS THE BEST 4 ME...
canidate #2 ADVANTAGES:1. he is such a nice guy has alot going for him and life goals.2. known him for about 6 months he as well has made me understand that he wants a serious realationship with me.3. my family knows about him approve of him,they believe that he will give me the happiness and future i deserve..
DISADVANTAGES: 1. He is 23 years old, which is the perfect differnce in age but i actually wanted some one older. 2.our conversation and communication is not the best, just regular here and there question and answers.3.he is a former friend of my brother whitch on his behave its ok...
EXTRA DETAIL: HE IS EVRYTHING I EVER WANTED IN A GUY.. BUT THE FEELINGS ARE NOT THAT STRONGS TOWARDS HIM.. WELL ATLEAST NOT YET...
There is aslo alot more differnces among the both, but i still find my self stuck between two walls. would appricate your advice
thanks lucy
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well first you need to sitdown and take out a piece of paper, and write down everything that you need in this time of your life... everything from work, friends, family, then and only then do you put the type of person your looking for.
so you got these two guys that you cant seem to make your mind up about... so heres the answer, refer back to my first paragraph.
once you have written down all that info down, take each guy and annalyse them according to how they would fit into your life.
never ever go with what your family and friends think, cos only you know wat u really want.
of both those guys which one of them makes your heart beat faster everytime they look at you, which one do you feel the safest with, and mostly which one can you be yourself with...
i hope i have helped you, goodluck
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I think you sould wait a little longer and see where things go with number two and introuduce number one to your family see what they think about him. Al though from the information given and you had to make a choice right away i would choice number one for you.
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With the descriptions you gave... option one is the best. It seems like you like him a lot more, plus he wants the best for you by telling you to go to another guy, which HAS to mean something. So, if I were you, I would go for #1.
Love has no age limits. =]
Hope I helped!
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