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Hello, I'm 17 yrs old, female
there was this guy i liked from my last year english class and i kinda got over him, i mean i liked other ppl after that but i still had feelings for him..but now i’m starting to like him again and it hit me tonight that it’s our last year together..he’s going to uni, i’m going to college. I’m just scared becuz what if i don’t get over him by the time highschool is over? i don’t know what to do:(…I told him that i liked him on msn on day in late May and he didn’t take me seriously then he told me that he had a g/f…but the thing is that i noticed that he would always stare at me even before i started liking him…sometimes he would look away when i caught him. He would still stare at me even after he told me that he had a g/f, we don’t really talk much, we just spoke like 2 or 3 times on msn. (link)
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hi
the only advice i can really give you is to stay away from telling people online that you like them, wen you do a online chat its always easier to say things that you would never say to the person in real life... whether its asking a question or answering one.
confront him in person and tell him just how you really feel, if he does like you then you will be able to tell by the way he reacts to you telling him that you like him, if you get a positive answer for yourself, then stick onto a little bit of hope, if things are meant to be then they will happen, trust me on that one
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I am Lucy and iam 20 Years old i have never had a serious, long term relationship,now that I am throwen between 2 guys that i have a lot of potential with.I find myself confused and i don't know what to do. need advice... heres background info on them.
candidate#1 ADVANTAGES: 1.know him for a year, have really good conversation with him 2. he is very understanding and easy going, know A lot more about me than anyonElse. 3. he has made me understand that he has never met anyone like me and wants to have a future with me.DISADVANTAGES: 1.he is eight years older than me witch is not that bad 2.At the time being we both live in differnt states, hes in texas and iam in arizona.3 he has a child already,with doesnt bother me at all but to my family it might.
EXTRA DETAIL: I HAVE REALLY STRONG FEELING TOWARDS HIM... BUT AT THE SAME TIME ITS CONFUSING BECAUSE HOM HIMSELF ADVICES ME TO GO FOR CANIDATE #2 INSTEAD OF HIM... HE REALLY WANTS THE BEST 4 ME...
canidate #2 ADVANTAGES:1. he is such a nice guy has alot going for him and life goals.2. known him for about 6 months he as well has made me understand that he wants a serious realationship with me.3. my family knows about him approve of him,they believe that he will give me the happiness and future i deserve..
DISADVANTAGES: 1. He is 23 years old, which is the perfect differnce in age but i actually wanted some one older. 2.our conversation and communication is not the best, just regular here and there question and answers.3.he is a former friend of my brother whitch on his behave its ok...
EXTRA DETAIL: HE IS EVRYTHING I EVER WANTED IN A GUY.. BUT THE FEELINGS ARE NOT THAT STRONGS TOWARDS HIM.. WELL ATLEAST NOT YET...
There is aslo alot more differnces among the both, but i still find my self stuck between two walls. would appricate your advice
thanks lucy (link)
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hi
well first you need to sitdown and take out a piece of paper, and write down everything that you need in this time of your life... everything from work, friends, family, then and only then do you put the type of person your looking for.
so you got these two guys that you cant seem to make your mind up about... so heres the answer, refer back to my first paragraph.
once you have written down all that info down, take each guy and annalyse them according to how they would fit into your life.
never ever go with what your family and friends think, cos only you know wat u really want.
of both those guys which one of them makes your heart beat faster everytime they look at you, which one do you feel the safest with, and mostly which one can you be yourself with...
i hope i have helped you, goodluck
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