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it just hit me....i don't know what to do
Hello, I'm 17 yrs old, female
there was this guy i liked from my last year english class and i kinda got over him, i mean i liked other ppl after that but i still had feelings for him..but now i’m starting to like him again and it hit me tonight that it’s our last year together..he’s going to uni, i’m going to college. I’m just scared becuz what if i don’t get over him by the time highschool is over? i don’t know what to do:(…I told him that i liked him on msn on day in late May and he didn’t take me seriously then he told me that he had a g/f…but the thing is that i noticed that he would always stare at me even before i started liking him…sometimes he would look away when i caught him. He would still stare at me even after he told me that he had a g/f, we don’t really talk much, we just spoke like 2 or 3 times on msn.
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the only advice i can really give you is to stay away from telling people online that you like them, wen you do a online chat its always easier to say things that you would never say to the person in real life... whether its asking a question or answering one.
confront him in person and tell him just how you really feel, if he does like you then you will be able to tell by the way he reacts to you telling him that you like him, if you get a positive answer for yourself, then stick onto a little bit of hope, if things are meant to be then they will happen, trust me on that one
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well, heres a few options.
you could start talking to him more, and build up a friendship first. and then, later on, it might develop into a relationship.
you could also just stop talking to him. i find its alot easier to get over someone if you cut off all contact. its hard, and sometimes its painful, but its a good way to get over somebody. start talking to other guys more, flirting more, just put yourself out there. slowly, you'll start to realize that there are so many other great guys for you. guys that are going to treat you right, a guy who realizes how lucky he is to have you.
you dont deserve to be unhappy because of one boy. do whatever you think is right.
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He might like you but if he has a girlfriend there isn't much you can do unless you want to ruin a relationship. Even if you don't get over this guy before you graduate (hopefully you will) then you will meet new guys, eventually you will get over him. I think it would be better for you guys to be friends if he does have a girlfriend. So then you guys might be able to keep in some kind of contact. But trust me, eventually you will get over him. Try talking to other guys and you might find yourself falling for one of them. And if you don't, you might make some new friends out of it. Good luck! I hope everything goes well for you!
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I believe he likes you but doesn't want to emitt it to himself or to you. or maybe he thinks he doesn't deserve you or vise versa. i think you should try to talk to him more and see how it goes. also arrange dates with him and some friends in person. if he dose like you this might win him over. if you want to forget about him you could try to get a bf or anything along those lines.
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