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he says he is to busy..
my boyfriend and i had been together for almost 3 months but we have had crushes on each other for over a year. we have always been an item and we are both funny and silly people.
before we got into a realionship it was during the summer and we hung out once, apparently he was busy working and at football practice. and i was understanding although i wasnt being very faithful.
so i got into this realionship and things went well the first week but we didnt talk as much as i wanted to. and he would only call once a day only 3 or 4 days a week. and we never texted and we never saw each other only at school.
this would make me very mad and i would complain to other people and they would talk to him and he would get angry at me. so finally now i have been complaining to him that i want to be closer and talk more. he got fed up and said if you keep compliaing im done. and he was sick of this.
all my friends tell me to end it but my mom says just to let it be and deal with it. my mom is always right about her advice.
so my question is what do you think i should do.
i cannot talk to him about this situation anymore because he will get mad and possibly break up.
what should i do?
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Ok this is my opinion. I would listen to your moms advice because usually parents are right. Mostly because they have been through most of the stuff and your friends are on the same boat and if you take their advice you might not make it. So he is really busy and you need to except that. He probably wants to be with you but he is just busy. If you want him, you will be patient. This is up to you. If you want more from him you probably can't get it because he is busy. So this is up to you. Your just getting opinions from everybody else. So take what you need from us, your friends, and your mom. You may not want to break up with him but if you want more from him then its going to be harder. You don't want to take him away from football right? So do what you think is right. Good luck! Any more questions inbox me! I'll try to help!
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First of all, this is how I go by with my problems, always listen to you friends. Mostly, peoples friends understand them then their own parents, so they give better advice. That's why, in this case especially, you should listen to your friends. I agree with them completely.
He's not right for you. He's not what you want. You need to end it before you get caught up with him. My best guy friend always says that the women are the boss of the relationship and that we shouldn't let some guy push us around and be the leader in the relationship.
You need to take control and just end the relationship, because he isn't right for you.
Hope that helps... (:
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