Question Posted Saturday December 27 2008, 1:18 am
When we first started dating I loved being with him and he loved being with me. He used to kiss and hug and just be very touchy feely and affectionate toward me. He used to tell me I was pretty and sexy all the time. He even had a cute nickname for me. Lovebug. He never calls me that anymore. Now he doesn't ever kiss me. If we kiss, it's because I kiss him and even then he acts like he doesn't want to and just gives me such a quick peck I don't even have time to respond. It's like he just wants to get it over with as soon as possible. It's like that with sex too. We used to have sex two or three times a day and it lasted. But now it's over in literally thirty seconds after he enters me if not shorter. He never compliments me anymore either. And he has such a short temper with me all the time. I don't know if he still wants to be with me or not. He does still say I love you all the time, he just does'nt show it anymore.
kiran answered Sunday December 28 2008, 1:18 am: Ok I think you should talk to him. Even if he says he loves you all the time doesn't mean he means it and that sucks. So my advice to you is to talk to him about this. Its great in the beginning of dating because its always so cute and great. Sometimes it lasts longer. But if he doesn't want this anymore or doesn't show it, he isn't worth your time. So talk to him and see whats up. We won't know whats going through his head. Good luck and I hope everything works out for you! [ kiran's advice column | Ask kiran A Question ]
SunshineGirl0325 answered Sunday December 28 2008, 12:59 am: From the way you just described your relationship, I'm not seeing how it's going to go anywhere. Even though he says I love you all the time, I doubt he means it like the way he used to.
You could either:
1. End the relationship
or
2. Talk to him about it, and you could probably tell what he wants if you talk to him about how you're feeling
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