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i think ive lost him. :/
so i have this friend.
and we used to talk everynight on the phone.
and we'd text all the time.
we'd say i love you in the halls at school.
[no, it wasnt an absessive relationship or anything...]
now he stopped answering the phone && he stopped calling.
he stopped texting. butt he still texts my friends.
now we dont even talk at school. :/
is he even worth it?
i sorta started falling for him.
and then people started asking if we were going out.
maybe they asked him too and it got akward?
butt my best friend says hes not worth it and to drop it.. i dunno. should i?
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Ive been there trust me iknow how you feel trust me if hes gonna ignorge you hes not worth it . You can ethier forget about him or you can confront him and ask him why he is ignorgeing you and why he doesnt talk to you anymore ask him if its because people were talking about them thinking you guys were going out . If he still ignorges you then he wasnt a good friend to begin with hope ive helped alittle . - torii babiiee*
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hey. to me when I hear your story, it sounds like you don't know why you stopped talking to him. You guys just stopped talking awkwardly. If I were you I would randomly talk to him and be like...hey stranger, how cum you don't talk to me anymore.....something like that....anything, so you can talk to him and find out what happend between you guys. That way things won't be as awkward. I hope that that helps a little. goodluck!
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Let me just start off by saying that the same thing happened to me. This guy and I both liked each other, he was the first guy to say he loved me, and it my first time saying I love you to a guy. I mean I really cared about him. We would laugh all the time, he would always tell me he loved me and held my hand. His friends asked if we were going out, he kind of got a little awkward after that. I think what happened was that he really did like me, but he was scared of taking a chance, as was I. And let me tell you, I regret not dating him. I always kick myself over it, b/c now Ill never know how he really felt, b/c I didn't ask. I let him slip away. I let our real feelings fade, and now I just keep wondering what could have should have happened, rather than just following my heart. I wouldn't say to drop it, b/c I did, and it led to regret for me. The best thing I can tell you is to follow your heart, b/c if your feelings are real for each other, you will find a way to date eachother and there will be no regrets. I wish I could still have that guy, but he's moved on, hes actually kind of a jerk at times, I wish I had dated him before he changed. IDK, just follow your heart. Sorry about the rambling, I just wanted you to know why Im saying don't let him go.
Best of luck! Don't lose this guy, :)
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