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my ex
this is gunna be super long..lol
there was this really cute guy at my school and everyone always said he was a man whore and i promised i would never go out with him..the two summers ago he said he liked me and i did have a crush on him. we dated for a couple months and i broke up with him it seemed like he always flirted with a lot of girls. about a month later we started going out again and i broke up with him cause i thought i didnt like him anymore but i was really upset and i wanted him really bad. we started going out again around new years and i heard he kissed a girl while we were talking so i decided to hold hands with his friend to piss him off and we broke up..obviously lol. a couple days leter he started dating my best friend. it made me mad but i forgot about it and a couple months later i started dating another kid and i broke up with him and the next day my ex informed me he still liked me and i did still like him so we started talking again. i said i wouldnt go out with him again until summer..but we basically were dating. kinda but not really to the extent of friends with benefits and we dated for like two or three weeks during summer and broke up. ive still liked him the whole time and now he a new gf that is so gross and i want them to break up and stuf but idk what to do.
and he always says he has dreams about me and were really good friends i just want everything back!
something about him just keeps me wanting more. i feel lost without him and i just want to be with him all the time...hope that doesnt sound creepy..hahahhaa
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your situation sounds like my friend's and kinda mines too...well the whole breakinq up and qettinq back toqether...like my mom told me, "when you break up with a boy its like throwinq food out, once its in the trash don't take it out of the trash aqain..cause that's nasty"..lol.."moms" but its true thouqh, obiovously he didn't really care about you because the whole part of him qoinq out with your best friend. if my boyfriend did that to me now, I wouldn't even look his way, but the whole thinq about wantinq to be with him and eveythinq, probably because he's so good lookinq nd everything you miqht not want to let qo, with me I was tried of qoinq out with cute quys that knew their were cute cause those were the ones to break a heart, so i went out with an uqly quy but he was really sweet,but it didnt work out. and the boy im with now is really cute. so mmaybe you don't want to let qo because he's really cute to you and you want him for yourself. hey been there done that.lol. but it seems that the relationship isnt qoinq to work out, so find a better quy that won't hurt you and qo out with your best friend. and remember true love doesn't hurt you, abuse you, or anything like that...i hope i helped! =)
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Ok, first, I just want to point out that I have been in that position, and it sucked, royally. But, you wanna know what you have to do? DO NOT GET BACK TOGETHER WITH HIM!!! If you two didn't work out the first...or second...or fifth, or however many times you two went out, it's not going to work. The problem here is: He is still in your life, and the only way to get over him and to move on permanently, is to officially get him OUT of your life. I know the first few weeks are gonna suck even more, but you need to move on. Please trust me on this: All he is going to do while he is still around is to cause you more and more pain when he isn't. No matter what he says, tell him to leave. He does not deserve you. Go out with your girlfriends and find some super HOTT guy that will treat you right.
Oh, one more thing: If he cheated on you in the past, he will do it again. He does not deserve you or your trust. Good luck with the loser *personal opinion*!
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