My name is Rosemarie. I was born in Bronx, New York. But I live in Florida now. I am 15 years old almost 16, I try to help as much people as I can. I've been through a lot with relationships, family problems, and friends + school...I'm a teenager learning a lot and still learning, but I'm getting to know more everyday...
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Location: Bronx, New York
Age: 15
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Member Since: October 22, 2008
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i'm a female and i've been dating this amazing guy since late early august, which would make it four months. he is is a really great guy and he treats me like a queen. He is alwayz telling me how amazing i am and how much he loves being with me. Its great you know since i've never really been in a relationship that had someone treat me so well. He was the first to say i love you and i was surprised by that. He is a very sensative man. very sensative. But here is the deal we've only been dating four months and he's talking about marrage and children. I was so spastic in the situation and so completly vunerable at the moment that i agreed to it all. but now that im begining to think aobut everything. i think its moving way to fast. Don't get me wrong i love him to death but i'm not in love with him yet. i don't want to ruin things by moving things to fast. i know i have to say something but with hime being so sensative i don't know how to break it to him without crushing him (link)
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oh, wow, that's cute, but i understand how you feel, and look just say to him "look i really love you but i dont want to move to fast into this whole thing its only been 4months and all of this is WAY to early for us" and he should understand, and there's no way out of this without talkinq to him about it, everyone said it to me before COMMUNICATION is the 1st thinq you need in a relationship, and if your scared just wait a little but not TOO long because that can make things worse, and dont try to drop and leave it alone, because someone said to me once "if you truely love someone you would do anything for that person" and its true, you basically have to communicate with that person.
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16/f and my boyfriend's 16/m.
We have an immature relationship and I never get to see him. The only reason I'm still with him is because he's my ex boyfriend as well, and he's my first, so I can't let go too easily. I feel like I'm wasting my time with him, when I could go out there and experience a better relationship. But something's holding me back when I attempt to break it off with him. I start feeling bad for him (he's very attached to me, I think) ..I bite my tongue and forget what I was going to say and I just can't do it. But I KNOW (underline) it HAS to be done. Does anyone have any advice on how to do this without having any regrets? It certainly isn't going anywhere. (link)
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i understand how you feel, with my ex boyfriend he was SO attached to me and it was like TOO much for me, he didnt give me enough space. And i REALLy do understand the part of you havinq a problem tryinq to break up with him, and look honestly what you have to do is tell him honestly, because (everyone says this] the longer you wait the harder and worse it gets, but i made a mistake with my last ex by lying to him sayinq my mother made me break up with him, just tell him, be like "look i know you really like me, and i like you too, but not as a boyfriend, and i know it may be hard for you but take it like this, if i stayed with you feelinq sorry, i would be leading you on and wastinq your time, so im sayinq this becauase i dont have those right feelings for you," remember god has a plan for EVERYONE and i quess you weren't riqht for him, just be honest hun because that's the best you can do, maybe over text or myspace or aim, person is the best, but whatever you feel cofortable with.
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theres this boy in my class, wer freshmans btw , ive liked him since lat year, and this isnt some kind of crush thing, i have strong feelings for him well anwyays,this kid will only look at me when i turn around,like he will never look at me if im lookin his way,and whenever my head is his way he always looks somewhere else,and everytime i turn around he like stares,[[This is what my friends tell me, which by the way i knoi and trust alot] whenever me nd him are like walkin next to the door or osmething or he wants to pass buy me he alwayus seems to bump into me or touch me, like my hand and stuff, and when he talks to me he always has this smirk on his face like he wants to smile, ofcourse i cant control it when i talk to him and i jus smile so widely ,but do you think this could mean something? and also he jus asks me the most stupidest stuff like, do we have h.w or something,and he tries to ge my attnetion by makin loud noises in class and stuff, idk what do yoou think? maybe im jus being paranoid.. (link)
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that's so cute, and i know what you mean about the smirk thinq, my boyfriend now, before we were datinq he would do that to me when he was talking to me and i thouqht it was the cutest thing cause it looked like he wanted to smile SOO badly when he was talkinq to me, and if he bumps into when your around him, well its obivous that he likes you! so that's really qood! Maybe you should talk to him and write little notes, not like "hey do you like me!", just beat around the bush like, "hey wat you do today, how r your class.." and throw in a little cute comment like "you look cute today by the way" and bcuz you dont want to be obivous and if he doesnt like you then you can still be friends with him not knowing that you liked him, but i hope i helped hun!
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I've been goin out with my amazing girl for bout 5 months, I absolutely love her! :) I'm 18/m
We've been kinda teasin each other, like when either of us showers, well text "oooo have fun" and shell ask "r u naked? ;)" lol, and other stuff like that...
How do I kinda 'spice things up', without her thinkin im a perv? :p
Oh, and she doesn't like to make out, so, is there something else we can do, as a sort of 'substitute' if you will...? (link)
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oh, well, she mite just like the teasinq stuff, bcuz thats how i am, but dont push her too much to do it, but basically to spice it up, kissinq a girl on her neck is the way to do it, and rubbinq her arm, cuz once my boyfriend starts stuckinq and kissinq my neck we thinqs start to spice up, so neck kissinq and rubbinq her arm mite do it too, but keep in mind she mite just like 4play
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are against all odds jeans cheap? I went to the store and they were only 20 dollers. I want to buy them because they look nice but I dont want to make the mistake of buy ing them and it ripping after 2 weeks. (the black,purple, red, orange, yellow, skinny jeans) (link)
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oh i work at that store, i live in florida, honestly the store "Against All Odds" there not cheap, shirts or like 25 and up and shoes are 60 n up, so the jeans there arent cheap at all, unless we have a sale but that doesnt make much a difference
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i have this guy friend we recently stopped talking and seeing eachother as friends now we just write eachother. i guess he kind of new i liked him and he didnt so he stopped us from seeing eachother. i told him afterwards i did like him but he doesnt that way. so now we just write and are still friends. i still like him more than friends can something work out later on (link)
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well as much as you want to be with him, or like him a lot, some situations you can't ALWAYS qet what you want. Yeah, it might suck, but if you push it on him to hard it's qoinq to make it worse and he miqht not even feel comfortable around you, so just relax. And if at the end he rejects you then he wasn't the one for you. God has a plan for everyone, and has an someone for everyone. SO don't stress it hun...=]
hope everythinq comes out qood.
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ive been waaaayyyyyy too hurt by a boy. gave him too many chances that shoulda never been gaven. when i think about the position im in now i wish i woulda ended this a long time ago, but the love i had for him took over me, even though hes completely changed. anyways he let me down again, after telling me it wouldnt be like this anymore, i told him i was blocking him outta my life and i actually did block his number. it hurts really bad because i know this is it, and this is the end and im not ever taking him back again and it hurts thinking that we'll never see eachother again but i know its what i have to do! how do i deal with this? i have a lot of friends and i go out a lot but it still alwyas hurts realy bad. i honestly just want to go grab a phone call him and tell him i love him, but that would just allow me to end up getting hurt again.. anywayss what can i do to help get over him.. to help deal with this? cause i honestly cant believe someone who "loved me" so much could hurt me like this over and over? (link)
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yeah i understand your sitaution a lot. ive been there, but honestly if YOU feel like he hurt you and your not pickinq up his calls thats good. Because TRUE love doesnt hurt you or abuse you. yeah its ALWAYS difficult to let qo of someone you truely love, and I'm qlad that your qoinq out with your friends. But to forqet about him completely is don't even think about him. And don't say your qoinq to try, JUST DO IT.. but boo if you honestly want to qet over him don't think about him or anything. and the moments where your by yourself, find somethinq to do quickly, and don't think about him..you know sometimes love is blind..and just because you love someone doesn't mean your suppose to be with them.
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16/f
Over the summer I broke up with my boyfriend Troy for a little while because I started liking this guy, Steve. Me and Steve kissed a few times (when me and Troy were broken up, of course) and he was adorable and we both ended up liking each other a lot (we never went further than kissing. He lived in another town far away and sometimes he would come up to my house and just chill with me. When me and my boyfriend started dating again I let Steve go so i could focus on making my relationship better. Steve decided to get a girlfriend just to piss me off and he ended up hating me. I haven't talked to Steve since the beginning of August. I think about Steve all the time. I get butterflies in my stomach just thinking about him and how he used to kiss me and hug me. I think i might be in love with him because I can not get him off my mind and its almost been 4 months since we've talked or seen each other and I'm still not over him! One time over the summer when me and Troy were broken up Steve asked me out and I told him I didn't want a boyfriend. Like am I stupid? I had the strongest feelings for Steve ever since I met him and I turned him down. I'm so confused and feel kind of heart broken which confuses me even more. Do I love Steve? Should I just let the thoughts go and focus on my boyfriend? Should I start talking to Steve again? Please what do I do help me. I think I'm in love with him I'm almost sure I am. (And I may add that I don't think Steve hates me anymore because it's been so long.) So Please, any advice would be great! (link)
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we'll if you have a strong connection with Steve then you should try it becuase most of he time a girls feelinq r right 90% of the time but does your boyfriend now make you feel the same way Steve does?? If your feelinq Steve more than your boyfirned you should try it, because going out wit some1 be not feelinq like you want 2 b with them you should let go of them instead of leading htwn on
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this is gunna be super long..lol
there was this really cute guy at my school and everyone always said he was a man whore and i promised i would never go out with him..the two summers ago he said he liked me and i did have a crush on him. we dated for a couple months and i broke up with him it seemed like he always flirted with a lot of girls. about a month later we started going out again and i broke up with him cause i thought i didnt like him anymore but i was really upset and i wanted him really bad. we started going out again around new years and i heard he kissed a girl while we were talking so i decided to hold hands with his friend to piss him off and we broke up..obviously lol. a couple days leter he started dating my best friend. it made me mad but i forgot about it and a couple months later i started dating another kid and i broke up with him and the next day my ex informed me he still liked me and i did still like him so we started talking again. i said i wouldnt go out with him again until summer..but we basically were dating. kinda but not really to the extent of friends with benefits and we dated for like two or three weeks during summer and broke up. ive still liked him the whole time and now he a new gf that is so gross and i want them to break up and stuf but idk what to do.
and he always says he has dreams about me and were really good friends i just want everything back!
something about him just keeps me wanting more. i feel lost without him and i just want to be with him all the time...hope that doesnt sound creepy..hahahhaa (link)
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your situation sounds like my friend's and kinda mines too...well the whole breakinq up and qettinq back toqether...like my mom told me, "when you break up with a boy its like throwinq food out, once its in the trash don't take it out of the trash aqain..cause that's nasty"..lol.."moms" but its true thouqh, obiovously he didn't really care about you because the whole part of him qoinq out with your best friend. if my boyfriend did that to me now, I wouldn't even look his way, but the whole thinq about wantinq to be with him and eveythinq, probably because he's so good lookinq nd everything you miqht not want to let qo, with me I was tried of qoinq out with cute quys that knew their were cute cause those were the ones to break a heart, so i went out with an uqly quy but he was really sweet,but it didnt work out. and the boy im with now is really cute. so mmaybe you don't want to let qo because he's really cute to you and you want him for yourself. hey been there done that.lol. but it seems that the relationship isnt qoinq to work out, so find a better quy that won't hurt you and qo out with your best friend. and remember true love doesn't hurt you, abuse you, or anything like that...i hope i helped! =)
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this is kinda weird but i was wondering.
im 15/f and in my vigina, like i dont realy know names of anything but there a flappy thing that hangs out sometimes. is that normal?
juuuust making sure, i havent really seen someones vagina before ahhaha thankss.
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lol. yeah I'm a qirl too..yeah the "flappyy thinq" is normal. its just apart of your vaqina. qlad to help you.lol. =]
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15/f
Ok, lately whenever i talk to tyler (my bf) on the phone he says things that make me so jealous! Last night, he told me that his ex girlfriend keeps calling him. He also told me that my bestfriend called and asked him if he was going to this one party that someone had last night. Normally, i wouldn't think anything about my friend calling him like this. The reason i am being like this is because she has been known to flirt with some of my other crushes before. All the other times she has done this to my other crushes i have cofronted her about it and she just says "We are just friends, he's just like a big brother to me!" Blah blah blah. Then, the other day i was walking to my second period class and they were walking together in the hall and when he went into his class, she "playfully" pushed him. She has a flirty personality and it gets on my nerves. I don't want to say anything to her about it because she would probably tell him and i definatly(sp) don't want him to know i am worrying about this. We have been going out for about 2 weeks now. Also, on the phone he's always like "so does kasey(my friend) like ??" She always keeps me up to date with what he says about different things since they "talk so much." It just gets on my nerves. I know they are friends and i am fine with that but she jutst makes me mad sometimes. I always tell myself "he picked me, not her."
What should i do to be less jealous?
Should i have a reason to worry?
Am i over reacting?
What do you think of this situation?
Please help!
Thanks! (link)
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damn. well 1st of all... you need to confront your friend not by beinq all nice and sweet. you have to be strait forwarded and just tell her strait up...say "look to me it seems like your flirting with him, and if you were really a true friend can you not talk to him and be around him." yeah it sounds harsh but if you already confronted her about it, then you have to tell her evn harder. yeah, and he did pick you and not her, so don't be worried about that part, but if you feel the need to tell him how you feel then do, because 2 main thinqs in a relationship is turstinq each other and commuciatinq to each other. your friend should stop if you do tell her if not, then you need to stop beinq her friend, because true friends don't do that and they should respect what you say about YOUR OWN boyfriend. something like this already happened to me so don't worry I know what I'm talkinq about
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Im 13 years old and im about 5'5 or 5'4 and i weigh 118 pounds and before i used to be overweight but now im skinny [[Thank God]]
haha, anyways i want to stay in shape, i keep losing weight, i still workout on my treadmille but i lose like 200 calories or 300 calories, and i still lose weight, and i eat just fine so im not starving myself, can anyone tell me how to stay fit and not gain or lose any weight, how long should i stay on my treadmille and how many calories should i lose, 200 calories seems like a little but i keep on losing more weight, it isnt a bad thing but i dont want to be too skinny to the point that i have no body you know? i like the way i am, thanks. (link)
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see when people exercise there's 2 kinds of exercisinq. exercisinq to lose weight and exercisinq to stay fit. and you said you workout on the treadmill...when you qo runninq or do joqqinq or whatever. it's usually to lose weiqht. Ii'm skinny too. but I don't run or anything like that. I do workouts like Ab workouts. So you so do sit-up, jumpinq jacks, push ups, lift weiqhts, or whatever you want to do, but don't run and do exercises like that because that makes you lose weiqht, and you mostly want to just stay in shape...
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I asked a question earlier about how I could hide my myspace comments. I figured it out though, and I hid my comments. So now I'm just wondering how people will be able to comment me, since the comment section is hidden. Can anyone explain this to me? Sorry if this is another stupid question.
I don't think anyone would be able to comment me unless it was someone I was already chatting with. And they went back to our convos, and just clicked comment back.
Someone help! Thank you (link)
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oh, yeah they'll still b able to send you comments...there's different ways, like for example there's a scroll box above the myspace page where you can send comments and message people on, but don't worry people should still be able to send you comments
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okay theres a guy that i used to like.....we dated for over 2 months and i was happy to end the relationship b/c we was constantly in argument....this was over 4 months ago....and i am still thinking about him even tho i dont want him back....im confused???why am i thinking about him every day???? (link)
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Well it sounds like your still in love with him, that's somethinq that happened with me. But I'm not sayinq qet back toqether with him, for me I did love my ex boyfriend. It was a different love thouqh..like I had love for him, but I wasn't in love with him, basically I cared for him. But if you had constant arquements, it probably wouldn't have worked out, as much as you wanted it to. But remember just because you love someone doesn't mean your SUPPOSE to be with them..
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F/14 :: Guys at my school are soo self-absorbed and my best friend is always looking for a boyfriend. I keep telling her to stop, that the boys at our school are self-absorded and want one thing only. She says okay but always goes out with some jerk and then the boy breaks up with her because she doesn't want to have sex with them. I don't know what I should tell my friend. Do you know? (link)
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yeah trust miie i know how that sitaution feels..one of my friend is doinq that riqht now. All i tell her is that she needs to relax for a bit, because she comes off as desperate and when boys see that they might see her as a slut and might want to take advantage of her..i told my friend you don't need a boy to make you happy, but if you don't take in what I'm tellinq you, a boy is bound to take advantage..so tell your friend to be carefull
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Ok, me and my boyfriend are both 15, almost 16. I'm a virgin, and he's not. I really want to have sex with him, but dont know how to bring it up with him without seeming like a slut. Any ideas? (link)
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well it depends how long have you 2 been together and asking the whole question situation, well you should be able to ask him anything without doubting his trust or heistating, and your OWN boyfriend shouldn't think your a slut, cause if he does than he has no respect for you. So you should talk to him, but I hope you've been in the relationship for a LONG time, because trust me, sex can sometimes ruin a relationship, because you can over do it and then the relationship might end up as being more of a lust thing than love.
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