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dealing with ex's
ive been waaaayyyyyy too hurt by a boy. gave him too many chances that shoulda never been gaven. when i think about the position im in now i wish i woulda ended this a long time ago, but the love i had for him took over me, even though hes completely changed. anyways he let me down again, after telling me it wouldnt be like this anymore, i told him i was blocking him outta my life and i actually did block his number. it hurts really bad because i know this is it, and this is the end and im not ever taking him back again and it hurts thinking that we'll never see eachother again but i know its what i have to do! how do i deal with this? i have a lot of friends and i go out a lot but it still alwyas hurts realy bad. i honestly just want to go grab a phone call him and tell him i love him, but that would just allow me to end up getting hurt again.. anywayss what can i do to help get over him.. to help deal with this? cause i honestly cant believe someone who "loved me" so much could hurt me like this over and over?
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yeah i understand your sitaution a lot. ive been there, but honestly if YOU feel like he hurt you and your not pickinq up his calls thats good. Because TRUE love doesnt hurt you or abuse you. yeah its ALWAYS difficult to let qo of someone you truely love, and I'm qlad that your qoinq out with your friends. But to forqet about him completely is don't even think about him. And don't say your qoinq to try, JUST DO IT.. but boo if you honestly want to qet over him don't think about him or anything. and the moments where your by yourself, find somethinq to do quickly, and don't think about him..you know sometimes love is blind..and just because you love someone doesn't mean your suppose to be with them.
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this has happened and im just gunna tell you what to do bc it your life. it hurts to let go and it sucks. it just hurts you that much more. if you face it and give him another chance or whatever you will see over time if its meant to be or not. honestly i think you should call him and tell them that you love him cause chances are he feels the same way and if its not meant to be you will be able to tell this last time or however many times it takes you. its a hard thing to go through and if you ask your friends they will probably tell you to stay away cause they dont want to see you get hurt again but its better for you to face it and let everything out.
good luck :)
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