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My mom doesnt trust me at all im 17 years old im in high school last year in high school; i have good grades i went to boces for certified nursing assistant i feel like im doing everything im suppose too .my sister got pregnant when she was 16 years old i was 13 years old at the time my mom was dissapointed and upset .ever since then my life has been a living hell im not allowed to go anywhere but school im not allowed to have friends i cant communicate with no one if shes going out she takes the house phone with her i dont have a cell. and if i do go out for a walk she locks me outside (i live in long island NY and its freezing)she get so mad and says shes done with me that she doesnt care about me a bunch of stuff.im going to college soon and im going to need her to sign some papers for me she said that shes not going to.i have a boyfriend its been hard on him and me his great he treats me right and he makes me very happy i'm afraid that im going to have to end it because im not allowed to go anywhere.
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Have you thought about talking to your guidance counsellor at school and telling him or her that your mom won't sign your papers to go to college? Maybe they'll have a solution or they'll talk to your mother. How about aunts, uncles and grandparents? Is it possible to reach out to them to get some help?
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wow thats harsh. I can see why she's treating you like this though. even though she says she doesnt care about you, she really does. she doesnt want the same thing that happened to your sister to happen to you. which is why she is keeping you from talking to anyone and having a life. Its a good thing that she cares about you and doesnt want anything bad to happen to you, but the method she is using is very wrong. what you need to do is talk to her and ask her why she is treating you like this. you need to explain to her that you have learned your lesson by observing what your sister has done and that you are not going to turn out like her. She may not know it, but locking you up from having a life is actually making things worse. because how does she expect you to grow up if you cant handle things on your own. She is going to let you grow up eventually and by keeping you like this, its just going to be a very bad experience. you need to tell her that you should be out in the world, getting prepared for the future and experimenting new things. because otherwise how do you expect to grow up and be an adult in the future???
if all else fails, talk to your sister about it and maybe she can help.
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