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boyfriend problems
15/f
Ok, lately whenever i talk to tyler (my bf) on the phone he says things that make me so jealous! Last night, he told me that his ex girlfriend keeps calling him. He also told me that my bestfriend called and asked him if he was going to this one party that someone had last night. Normally, i wouldn't think anything about my friend calling him like this. The reason i am being like this is because she has been known to flirt with some of my other crushes before. All the other times she has done this to my other crushes i have cofronted her about it and she just says "We are just friends, he's just like a big brother to me!" Blah blah blah. Then, the other day i was walking to my second period class and they were walking together in the hall and when he went into his class, she "playfully" pushed him. She has a flirty personality and it gets on my nerves. I don't want to say anything to her about it because she would probably tell him and i definatly(sp) don't want him to know i am worrying about this. We have been going out for about 2 weeks now. Also, on the phone he's always like "so does kasey(my friend) like ??" She always keeps me up to date with what he says about different things since they "talk so much." It just gets on my nerves. I know they are friends and i am fine with that but she jutst makes me mad sometimes. I always tell myself "he picked me, not her."
What should i do to be less jealous?
Should i have a reason to worry?
Am i over reacting?
What do you think of this situation?
Please help!
Thanks!
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Your friend is honestly a bitch...she is not your friend. To me it honestly sounds like what i'm going through too. She u obviously doesn't know what she wants in life because she flirts with the other guys you have had in the past. It looks like to me she is using you to get to guys. she's is trying to compete with you. You are not over reacting. Its normal. the next time he asks you about kasey, you should ask why he cares so much....because he shouldn't be talking about your friend, it should always be about you and him....i don't want to hurt your feelings, but it sounds like he likes you and her. The thing about him making so jealous could be maybe he wants you to show more you like him. Like he wants to make you jealous so you can show that you really want him. Flirt with him and show him more that you like him. He did pick you, not her. If he has a friend, do the same thing to him! it will get him.
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damn. well 1st of all... you need to confront your friend not by beinq all nice and sweet. you have to be strait forwarded and just tell her strait up...say "look to me it seems like your flirting with him, and if you were really a true friend can you not talk to him and be around him." yeah it sounds harsh but if you already confronted her about it, then you have to tell her evn harder. yeah, and he did pick you and not her, so don't be worried about that part, but if you feel the need to tell him how you feel then do, because 2 main thinqs in a relationship is turstinq each other and commuciatinq to each other. your friend should stop if you do tell her if not, then you need to stop beinq her friend, because true friends don't do that and they should respect what you say about YOUR OWN boyfriend. something like this already happened to me so don't worry I know what I'm talkinq about
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