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Boyfriend vs. Summer Boy
16/f
Over the summer I broke up with my boyfriend Troy for a little while because I started liking this guy, Steve. Me and Steve kissed a few times (when me and Troy were broken up, of course) and he was adorable and we both ended up liking each other a lot (we never went further than kissing. He lived in another town far away and sometimes he would come up to my house and just chill with me. When me and my boyfriend started dating again I let Steve go so i could focus on making my relationship better. Steve decided to get a girlfriend just to piss me off and he ended up hating me. I haven't talked to Steve since the beginning of August. I think about Steve all the time. I get butterflies in my stomach just thinking about him and how he used to kiss me and hug me. I think i might be in love with him because I can not get him off my mind and its almost been 4 months since we've talked or seen each other and I'm still not over him! One time over the summer when me and Troy were broken up Steve asked me out and I told him I didn't want a boyfriend. Like am I stupid? I had the strongest feelings for Steve ever since I met him and I turned him down. I'm so confused and feel kind of heart broken which confuses me even more. Do I love Steve? Should I just let the thoughts go and focus on my boyfriend? Should I start talking to Steve again? Please what do I do help me. I think I'm in love with him I'm almost sure I am. (And I may add that I don't think Steve hates me anymore because it's been so long.) So Please, any advice would be great!
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Me or anyone else can't tell you if you love Steve or anyone else, from the sounds of your question you should go after Steve and don't be afrid of rejection " go after what you want and if it doesn't want you back than it doesnt deserve you anyways" but for your current boyfriend you haven't mentioned much about him you need to straighten things out with him. tell him what's going on if your in a relationship and thinking about someone else. thats leading the other person on. After you and Troy are over. Then talk to Steve.. but dont run back to Troy if you and Steve don't work out.. but from the sounds of it .. it sounds like you to will work out Good Luck.
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Yes you do love steve and i think you should start talking to him again and just focus on him because if you think about someone more then yourself then there worth being with so hang out with him and im sure you'll end up being his gf good luck.
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we'll if you have a strong connection with Steve then you should try it becuase most of he time a girls feelinq r right 90% of the time but does your boyfriend now make you feel the same way Steve does?? If your feelinq Steve more than your boyfirned you should try it, because going out wit some1 be not feelinq like you want 2 b with them you should let go of them instead of leading htwn on
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