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Saddd... Need Help
my boyfriend broke up with me bc he said im 2 down on my self he was like were done. he also said i put 2 much emotional baggage on him.. i am rlly saddd.. but is it right for a guy to break up bc of me being too down on myself..im really sad
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Yes, it is perfectly ok for him to do this.
Adults do not wallow in their problems to the point that it is depressing to be around them.
Well, ok, yes they do. But then they get medicated, or people stop wanting to be around them.
Its no one's responsibility to take care of you and keep you from falling apart emotionally except your own. The only real exception to this rule is when a couple agrees to each other that they are each other's responsibility.
Most people call that marriage.
It wasn't his responsibility to comfort you constantly. Its one thing to comfort someone when they are upset for a good reason. Death in the family, being treated badly, losing a job. But constant negativity?
Take a deep breath, and think about something that makes you smile. Seriously. When you feel down, stop, and think about something that makes you smile.
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No . I dont think its right the least you'd think your ex would have done was comfort you so wouldnt be down on yourself trust me be happy that he's gone if he doesnt wanna help you feel better about yourself hes not worth even being sad over trust me ive been there . I have no doubt that you'll find someone who will treat you right and not dump you like that . Hope you feel better . - torii babiiee *
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My first boyfriend broke up with me because of that...he said i was to much of a depressing person for him and that i was only bringing him down...
its not right for a guy to break to break up BC of that...dudes like that are just douches...and they just think there better than you...
you deserve someone who understands you...
we are just emotional people...don't be too sad about it...hes not worth it...
Just remember that everything happens for a reason...sometimes it takes a lil time for that reason to happen but in the end its all worth waiting for...
i hope i helped you
&heats;Nikki
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first of all you need to love yourself , which means stop being so down on yourself , look into the mirror and you will see that you are beautiful
all Gods creatures are beautiful so stop being like that, secondly if he can't comfront you in your time of needs then forget him., you don't need noone that going to make you feel worst then you are already feel, take and hot bubble bath imagine candles around you and take a deep breathe
and say i'm BEAUTIFUL,
Keepin it real
AskShay
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Okay well first of alll, guys don't like it when a girl is sad & depressed all the time. Guys like when the'r girlfriend is happy, because then at the same time he can be happy as well. Guys hate it when a girl calls herslelf ugly or anything, he'd rather like to hear that you think you look good. That's just how guys are, & we can't help it.
If your sad, which means you probably want him back.. Well talk to him about him, & tell him how you feel about the whole thing, if he's mature enough, he'll understand it.
Hope I helped, Jasmina (:
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Well my fiance was going to date a girl back before we got together and he told her no because she always put her self down. I put my self down not like a ton. If he truely felt like you two had a future together than he probably would put effort to make things work. My fiance and I are still together because we work around the problems because we have sparks. From what he is saying you make him feel upset or depressed. I would take a break from men for a while and get your self together make your self feel more confident. good luck.
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If you made him feel down and depressed then I can see why he would break up with you in the relationship. Honestly speaking, relationships are supposed to make each partner happy. If one partner feels even more distressed before the relationship, the thing they turn to is release from the stress.. which is, your boyfriend breaking up with you. Let's say you were a "happy" person and not too much worries in life, would you want your boyfriend always bringing down your day. I think you should work on your depression before getting into other relationships. If you need advice on your depression issues, you can contact me.
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I don't think I because if you are emotional/depressed etc he's just making you more emotional by breaking up with you, he is wrong for thinking that. but if you were always down all the time, he probably felt like he was doing something wrong or he thought it was kind of a bummer talking to someone so negative. Either way hope I helped, don't take the break up too hard, go find someone new and better.
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