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i need a quote about someone who was very close toyou dying. most likely about my sister who died very young and i love her so much and i need a quote. thank you. (link)
A little tribute true and tender,
Just to show that we remember.
Time may pass and fade away
But memories of you will always stay.
_________
You taught me things...
like how to grow...
you taught me...
never to let go...
now that you're gone...
I'll hold it true...
this thought...
I will always love you...
_________________

maybe


my boyfriend broke up with me bc he said im 2 down on my self he was like were done. he also said i put 2 much emotional baggage on him.. i am rlly saddd.. but is it right for a guy to break up bc of me being too down on myself..im really sad (link)
My first boyfriend broke up with me because of that...he said i was to much of a depressing person for him and that i was only bringing him down...
its not right for a guy to break to break up BC of that...dudes like that are just douches...and they just think there better than you...
you deserve someone who understands you...
we are just emotional people...don't be too sad about it...hes not worth it...

Just remember that everything happens for a reason...sometimes it takes a lil time for that reason to happen but in the end its all worth waiting for...

i hope i helped you

&heats;Nikki


17/f.
Hey everyone. Just a little background info : I've been in a relationship for about a year and a month... prior to this relationship, my history is horrible. A bunch of liars, cheaters, and disgusting people. I had put my trust in them, and all for nothing... But now, I can say i am in a relationship with a real guy. We have our fights, or moody days, but all in all we have been through much, and we still havent given up. Currently, I'm trying to work on my trust issues and jealous. Lets just say I am an emotional wreck... I get jealous at just the thought of him talking to a female friend instead of me. I wish i weren't this way, no one deserves it =/ any advice? this jealousy has taken me over. part of me is so insecure and lacks self esteem, but the other part of my wnts it to go away. =/ thanks in advance

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i have no help for you...
but i just wanted to say that i am the exact same way...horrible past...no trust what so ever...ive been in relationship with my boyfriend for three years and i am basically ruining it because of my trust issues...i always yell and just accuse because im so jealous and i know im gonna lose him soon cause i just keep pushing him farther and further away...ill look for advice for you...well for us both...

Nikki


Im 14 years old turning 15 in a while & I weight about 130 pounds(maybe even close to 140). I fit into a size 3 in jeans perfectly but I can also fit into bigger sizes. I have a little pouch on my stomach but my hip bones still stick out espically when I lay down. My boobs are a size 36 c and my height is about 5'4 5'5. What I'm wondering is, is my weight normal for my height and age? I want to lose about 30 pounds and I was trying only to eat breakfast and a snack, would that work? I just need some dieting tips and I DONT want to google because i dont know what can work or not. thanks (link)
this website will tell you what you should weigh based on your height and stuff

http://www.halls.md/ideal-weight/body.htm

just in case the link didnt work it said, based on your info, your healthy wieght is 122 ponds


heyy just had a quick question and wondering if anyone who is on this birth control Loestrin could help me out. I was on Yaz but then i switched to this new one Loestrin. My gyno told me their could be months where i dont get my period at all.. i didnt like that part but i decided to take it anyways. This is my first month on it and I just finished that pack and have YET to get my period, but i have ALL the symptoms, is this normal?
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no matter what birth control i took...the depo shot...yaz and Loestrin i only got my priod twice a year and i that was perfectly normal for me...said my gyno...but you should always check in to your gyno at least once a month since your just starting it...


I am a girl in high school and I need some major advice concerning boys. . . I'm ussually ok but I don't know how to act around boys that I really like, I always freak out and it is super embarassing :( See I have this friend, lets call him Joe, so "Joe" and I just started hanging out and we are pretty cool together but I only talk to him once in a while in math but I love talking to him, he's just so sweet and nice. He's not like drop dead gorgeous or anything, hes cute, but in an innocent way :) I really want to get to know him better but I don't know how, do I ask him to hang out? do I talk to him more in class? Do I just leave things the way they are now? What do I do??????? How do I persue this, to see if there really is anything to persue, without freaking him out? (link)
well talk to him a lil more during school and stuff...maybe ask for his number or slip your to him...if he takes your number or gives you his... youll see if hes interested...then youll just end up chillin...dont get embarassed...just do it...never regret anything...be bold


Hi there :) I would LOVE if someone could tell me where I could find this hat in white:

http://shop.pacsun.com/sale/girls-view-all-sale/Chunky-Knit-Beanie/index.pro?itemAdded=Y&quantity=1&price=9.99&colorCd=

It supposedly only is available in red or pink :( Thanks so much!!! (link)
I just bought that hat in gray and another in white at the DEB


okay me and my ex broke up not to long ago...its not like we wanted to really its just that certain circumstance broke us apart we still love each other but cant be together right now. i still talk to him but he still calls me names like babe, baby and all the others we had is that strange since we broke up or do u think its okay since we technically didnt want the break up to happen

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Well i did the same thing i was caling him all the little mames and he was callin me all his lttle names...
i dont really know your situation...but it just really hurt me more whenever we would call the names...it just didnt feel right and made me so sad...


Okay so I realize it's a little early to be worrying about Valentine's Day gifts but I really want to do something big this year and I need to start thinking of ideas now. My boyfriend is nineteen years old and I am making him a Valentine's Day gift basket. I'm also cooking him dinner. The basket can be as small or as large as it needs to be, depending on how many things I can think to put in it. Basically I'm looking for additional ideas on what to put in it besides what I already have and any other not too expensive gifts. For the basket I'm already making him heart shaped chocolates, a card, a poem, a framed picture of me and a photo snapbook of about twenty of our pictures. I would like to do a little coupon book for him as well with coupons for cooking his favorite dinner, my treat to the movies, etc. and any ideas on that would be helpful as well. Thank you so much =) (link)

For x-mas i just gave my boyfriend of three years a love coupon book...Im 19 and Hes 22 just in case you wanted to know
he actually ended up loving it...
i thought it would be cheesy,,
i made ten..
he always plays video games and sometimes i bitcch about it so one was a coupon for a free day of playing any and all video games...included with no bitching or complaining..no expiration date

i know it gross but i tend to pop his pimples on his back i know to much info
but the coupon said one free back scratch lasting a minimum of 20 minutes no interruptions

if you like this idea here is a wbsite that has a buch more coupons:
http://www.romancestuck.com/love-coupons.htm

♥Nikki


I just got an iPod, and I'm realizing how much it costs to buy songs. It's so expensive, so I'm wondering, does everyone buy there songs like this and pay full price for each song? Everyone has so many songs but I don't see how because they're so expensive. I'm not looking for a way around this, I just want to know if the majority of people actually do it this way. (link)
I downloaded Limewire Pro and i get any and every song downloaded off there for free then you just select your songs and drag them to itunes...100% free and AWESOME...

♥Nikki


my face gets pretty tight and dry after i take a shower or wash my make-up off at night, so i put lotion on afterwards. i'm currently using Cetaphil moisturizer and it does a good job of keeping my face from drying out. BUT i've had acne for about 5-6 years and although its a lot better than it used to be i still break out sometimes and i have scars left over from before. i've heard that aloe is a natural skin soother, and since i dont have access to aloe PLANTS i was hoping to find a good moisturizer with aloe in it, preferably one by Cetaphil if i could find it. does anyone know of/have experience with an aloe moisturizer they could recommend to me? something i could just buy at a drugstore please &thanks! (link)
I use products by Burt's Bees and they all have aloe in them...ever since i started using them i dont have acne anymore aand my face is never dry,,,i used to have the same problem you did...

another great product is stuff by St. Ives...im not sure if it has aloe in them though


♥Nikki


i REALLY want to be able to talk in a british accent. haha
i'm catching on to it kind of.
i can only say some words, but i think when i talk in sentances, it wounds more like elegant talk than an actual accent.
are there any free websites or videos or advice that you guys can give me on acquiring one?!
please and thank you!
hurry also haha. i can't wait to start. (link)
http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=learning+to+speak+british&search_type=&aq=0&oq=learning+to+speak+b

here is a couple videos...
just in case the link doesnt come up or something...just go on youtube.com and i typed in learning to speak in a british accent...hope it helps

♥Nikki


16/F

I really don't know what to do. I used to go to a school,and there i had a lot of (i thought at the time) Great friends. I pretty much went out every weekend and idk,i just had a lot of fun you know? i ended up getting transfered to another school. Over time (a kinda short period of time),i started to realize that those other people werent really good friends. Some pretty much forgot about me. And some,would do the occasional "Hey,How Are You" blah blah. Im a very friendly person but people at this new school i go to arent so friendly as i am "/ , so i only made like 3 friends. My problem isnt that i dont have as many friends as i used to (i dont care about that), its just that,my new friends dont really go out. 2 of them always say they want to, but they end up lagging it. and the other one has VERY strict parents. I feel so depressed. I know to some this may sound kinda stupid, but to me its a big deal. i hate staying home,i always like to be somewhere. And since i dont talk to my old friends anymore because they just changed so much,and my new friends dont really do the same things..i dont know what to do :( if your just going to answer me saying deal with it or something just please say nothing at all. Thank you to the people who do help though (link)
You don't sound stupid at all...i went through the same thing...actually for a long time i had to deal with people like that...i just gave it some time and never gave up on asking people to hang out...and i always asked random people to chill..basically gave everyone a chance, and ended up with some amazing "real" friend..
Just don't give up...and don't get depressed over it like i did...everything happens for a reason...sometimes it takes a while for the reason to show up...but it does....
hope i helped and good luck with new friends

♥Nikki


my boyfriend and i have had sex twice. both times we were interrupted.

does anyone have any ideas on how to do it while his parents are home, but not be caught? if thats even possible.

DO NOT TELL ME IM TOO YOUNG OR TO NOT DO IT AT ALL. i dont wanna hear it. just answer my question or go away. (link)
sneak in at night...or sneak in and "take a shower"...or go in the woods lol...ionno be creative...


Will Clorox Bleach bleach your hair? I don't want to try it out and find out that it works! This isn't really important but I would apprechiate it if you would answer this.
I appoligize if I didn't spell apprechiate right. (link)
Well everyone else is saying its bad...but i bleached my hair with clorox and it looks fantastic...i rinsed it out with vinegar...and my hair is silky smooth and platinum blonde...before i bleached it it was a reddish brown...but i guess that's just me...maybe i just have really really stronge hair and am lucky lol...:D




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