I am a girl in high school and I need some major advice concerning boys. . . I'm ussually ok but I don't know how to act around boys that I really like, I always freak out and it is super embarassing :( See I have this friend, lets call him Joe, so "Joe" and I just started hanging out and we are pretty cool together but I only talk to him once in a while in math but I love talking to him, he's just so sweet and nice. He's not like drop dead gorgeous or anything, hes cute, but in an innocent way :) I really want to get to know him better but I don't know how, do I ask him to hang out? do I talk to him more in class? Do I just leave things the way they are now? What do I do??????? How do I persue this, to see if there really is anything to persue, without freaking him out?
emavlynn34 answered Tuesday December 30 2008, 7:31 pm: Ok so its just an idea but maybe you could invite a big group of friends over or to the movies (make sure that hes not the only guy) and get to know him better outside of school. If you all have fun, you can keep hanging out and try to get his attention there and talk to him. It will come naturally most likely. Dont try to hard to be funny or anything just stick with a few jokes and a cute smile to the ones he tells :P Manhunt is super fun and if you're on the same team it'll be a great way to get to know one another. He may even try to be on your team, who knows? That's what happened to my best friend and they've been going out for 3 months so far. Good luck! Let me know how it goes! [ emavlynn34's advice column | Ask emavlynn34 A Question ]
AskShay answered Tuesday December 30 2008, 1:20 pm: if you want to talk to him then you are going to have to build up courage and take an deep breathe
and ask him out never know he might accept just ask him to go to the movies with no strings attach
what ever happens just happens
hope this work
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Hitoast answered Tuesday December 30 2008, 3:38 am: :) I have some good advice. Many people ask this question, so here it goes:
I think, since you said you only talk to him once in a while, talk to him more! :) Try to make a connection and get to know each other better. It might freak him out if you ask him out before you two know each other that well. So yes, talk to him more. Then, casually, when you two have gotten to regular conversations, just say "We should hang out some time". Chances are, by then he'll either have already asked you, or he'll say "sure, that'd be cool" when you ask him :) ha ha hope I helped!
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