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almost 5 years.[sorry so long.]
i actually have an account here at advicenators.but sometimes a girl can't figure out her own problems and needs help.so...im sixteen and almost 17...and iv been dating the same guy for almost 5 years.hes 18 and his name is khale.
uhm we havent been together the whole almost 5 years.iv dated other boys and hes dated other girls.but we always ended up back together.hes the first and only boy i have ever loved and im not sure what to do anymore.
hes recently been getting better...but be for in the past we always use to brake up then argue more then out of no where everything would be fine and we would get back together.
well recently i met this boy named julius and it turned out him and khale were bestfriends.me and this boy julius started talking and i kinda really started liking him but then khale sent me this long message over myspace saying take it slow with him.i dont doubt hes gonna hurt you.and i dont want him to hurt you because i hurt you enough.and right there tears were falling down my face and i had to drop everything and ask him back out and i did and he said yes.
some people say were not ment to be but come on after 5 years of still loving eachother i know we are.and so far so good this time is different.hes being nicer and treating me right.
after almost 5 years u still get butterflys when i see him and see fireworks when we kiss.
hes the only boy i wanna continue having sex with.and iv only done it with one other guy besides him.[no khale didnt take my virginity.]
but should i still continue are relationship?
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I would give khale another chance. He's hurt you in the past, but it seems like you havn't gotten over him and if you dated anyone else, you would think of him a lot. If khale hurts you again, that's when it's time to move on. I wouldn't advise dating julius because he is khales bestfriend and if khale hurts you and you are trying to get over him, it would be very difficult to see him around julius. (I'm sure the time would come.). Hope this helps! Good luck!
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It sounds like your scared for it not to work out. Five years is a long time. Maybe the two of you love each other a different way. Best friends? Someone who is always there for each other and is supportive. Khale sounds like a good guy but maybe not the right guy for you. All set aside. There sounds as if there are more bad times than there are good.
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After 5 years of your relationship with Khale not exactly working out, you should seriously reconsider giving him another chance. Sometimes, it really isn't meant to be, but you keep forcing it, you know?! So I suggest that, if it fails again, you should just accept the fact that he most probably will never change and move on. You are hurting yourself without you knowing, by sticking with Khale the whole time and not really giving the others a real chance, because you're still kind of hung up over Khale.
You might want to even consider the fact that Khale could just be one of those possessive type of guys without you realising it, he could just want you to himself and by saying all these things that will really touch you is the best way to keep you hooked on him. It could be for some selfish reasons. Maybe he just wants you to himsef?!
To conclude, if Khale messes up again, forget it, others need a chance with your beautiful soul, so give Julius a chance, you never know how good things could turn out to be if you don't give it a chance! And you're still young, it's unfair to tie yourself down to one guy. Do you know for a fact that he loves you, as much as you love him? And its not just infatuation!
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