Gender: Female
Occupation: Student
Age: 14
Member Since: June 29, 2008
Answers: 16
Last Update: January 18, 2009
Visitors: 1170
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soo i was wondering if their was any songs that say like im better then any other girl you could ever find, no one will love you more then me..stuff like that. thanks! (link)
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You Belong with Me by Taylor Swift
and also somewhat Hey Stephen by Taylor Swift
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i am not really a social person.
and these holidays i haven't planned or want to plan any thing with friends.
My parents continue to pressure me too but i don't want to. i am going through a phase when i'm not sure who my real friends are.
I don't want to tell them and if i don't organize i have to clean up our house.
Can you give me some advice on how to tell who my real friends are and how to want to be socialable with my friends.
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I know what you mean. My parents get the same exact way sometimes. They tell me they want me to open up more and have a bunch of people over. I know it can be frusterating but they just want you to be happy. Only you can be the judge of who you're real friends are. Real friends are there for you, they would never ditch you, and would never give away your secrets. They truly care about you. Maybe you haven't found a real, great best friend yet but you will eventually. But even if your other friends aren't best friend material doesn't mean you can't hang out with them. :) Just invite somebody over and hang out. Go to the movies or the mall with a bunch of people. You'll probably have a blast. Also, talk to people that you know are nice but have never really tried to talk to and see what they're like. Good luck!
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16/girl.
This boy at the grocery stores, always like stares at me & then looks down. & its every time I go there. & he stares at me for a long period of time.. so i think he likes me? wouldn't you think so?
Anyway, he seems really shy. I don't know how to like get it to go anywhere..
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He probably does either like you or think your cute. :) If you want to get to know him better or you think he's cute, approach him. I assume he works there? Maybe cash out at his register and start conversation or ask him to help you find something if he's walking around. Or if he doesn't work there and is just there when you are, then you can still start a conversation. Flash him a cute smile when you catch him staring next time. Try to walk by him a few times and see if he tries to start a conversation.
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I want to get a new laptop for school and I saw an add in the circular for a laptop that was $400.000 but I need to find a way to come up with some extra cash so I can get the laptop but I don't know how to get that kind of money any ideas? (link)
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Well if it's a limited time deal, maybe ask your parents or somebody else for a loan (make sure you pay it back asap)
If you can't get a normal job because of school or no transportation, start doing odd jobs.
-Babysitting
-Shoveling Snow(depending on where you live)
-Rake leaves
-Tutoring
-Chores
You could also have a yard sale and sell old, unwanted things.
Save any money you get from holidays or birthdays.
Good luck!
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Okay so I realize it's a little early to be worrying about Valentine's Day gifts but I really want to do something big this year and I need to start thinking of ideas now. My boyfriend is nineteen years old and I am making him a Valentine's Day gift basket. I'm also cooking him dinner. The basket can be as small or as large as it needs to be, depending on how many things I can think to put in it. Basically I'm looking for additional ideas on what to put in it besides what I already have and any other not too expensive gifts. For the basket I'm already making him heart shaped chocolates, a card, a poem, a framed picture of me and a photo snapbook of about twenty of our pictures. I would like to do a little coupon book for him as well with coupons for cooking his favorite dinner, my treat to the movies, etc. and any ideas on that would be helpful as well. Thank you so much =) (link)
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For the coupon book you could do something like a back scratch or back massage... Unless he doesn't like that but its just an idea. Also, if he has an interest that your not neccesarily into, maybe offer to do it with him for a little while.
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15/f
So I just broke up with this guy after 4 months, well he broke up with me. But Im not totally over him but Im starting to get over him. I have had my eye on this kid Andrew for a couple months now, I havent liked him for that long I just thought he was a really good person and hes cute. I am not positive how he feels about me, he acts like my friend but the second I broke up with my EX I found out Andrew wasnt gonna ask the girl he liked out anymore. I am not sure what might be going on. I wanna tell him I like him but Im really nervous and am afraid of what he will say or do. Plus he promised me he wouldnt go out with her.
please tell me what I should do. (link)
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From what you say it seems like he likes you back... So try and hang out with him as just a friend for a while and see how it works out. If you think the time is right then tell him and talk about it. Good luck! :)
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14/f
so, there was a sadie hawkins dance at my school. the guy that i planned on asking acted like a jerk right before i was about to ask him (long story) and i just couldn't ask him. so i asked my best guy friend. we've been like brother and sister for a little more than a year. this friend doesn't go to my school. so the dance comes and we go out to dinner, he refuses to let me pay for my own dinner, and everything is going great. when we get to the dance, we're just hanging out and i introduce him to all of my friends. when the first slow dance comes, he grabs me and pulls me reallllly close. we dance and we don't even talk while we're dancing. we just stare at each other and smile. when the song ends, we just stand there. he's holding me and i'm smiling and then one of my friends comes up and taps him on the shoulder. she says "you know the song's over right? you don't have to stand there like that..." and he just says "yeah i know." so the rest of the dance goes that way. after the dance, he says he had a really good time. after that, everything went back to normal. in school, i literally was asked 100 times 'are you going out with him?''you looked so cute together' blah blah. now, i'm thinking about him a lot more and i'm wondering...does he have a thing for me? could we be more than friends? help ! (link)
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Ask him about it or if youre not brave enough to (like i wouldnt be in that situation). Start talking to him about this guy whos a really good friend of yours and how youve been thinking about him a lot and stuff... take it from there and be talking about him. It might work!
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hey
well i work at mcdonalds, and i have a thing for my manager. he is only 3 years older than me which is okay, and hes not store manager or anything.. i just need to know, how do i get his attention? he always makes fun of me (not being mean) coz im really clumsy and trip over alot and then says that i always blush when i get embarrased, and he tells people i laugh alot and get embarrased easily. i really like him so i want to know how i can get on his radar hehe. how should i catch his attention and make him want me too?
thankss x (link)
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Be more of a klutz and make sure hes around. He might laugh at you if you fall so just be like,"Well what good are you if you're not gonna help me up? Some manager!" Try goofing on him so that he knows your just teasing back and having fun. Then flash a cute smile. Also, be a good worker and maybe ask him if he needs any help once in a while. I'm sure he'll notice.
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bottom line:
he calls or texts me maybe twice a week if im lucky
we hang out once a month
and i only see him at school between classes for two minutes once a day
we have been together almost 3 months
but liked each other for over a year
every time i talk to him about how we arent close he gets mad and tells me to end it
what should i do?
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Tell him your done with him because hes not worth your time if you cant fit into his schedule! You'll find somebody 10x better. "End it"? What a jerk.
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15/m I've been single for a year and a half now and i am not sure what to do. I have had offers but none of the ones that asked me really appealed to me. Does this mean i should try and ask ones i do want to go out with me? I hate getting rejected it leaves a knot in my stomach. The ones i ask out and reject me are always the ones i cant get out of my head. What should i do? (link)
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Yes of course you should try for the girls that appeal to you. But if the ones that dont appeal to you ask you out then sometimes you should try. They might not be exactly what your looking for from just a glance but you have to get to know them before you judge them and turn them down. For the girls you like, try and hang out with them in a group setting so that you dont get turned down before they really know you. But also, you can't force somebody to like you so if they just don't like you back, move on and find somebody else.
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I am a girl in high school and I need some major advice concerning boys. . . I'm ussually ok but I don't know how to act around boys that I really like, I always freak out and it is super embarassing :( See I have this friend, lets call him Joe, so "Joe" and I just started hanging out and we are pretty cool together but I only talk to him once in a while in math but I love talking to him, he's just so sweet and nice. He's not like drop dead gorgeous or anything, hes cute, but in an innocent way :) I really want to get to know him better but I don't know how, do I ask him to hang out? do I talk to him more in class? Do I just leave things the way they are now? What do I do??????? How do I persue this, to see if there really is anything to persue, without freaking him out? (link)
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Ok so its just an idea but maybe you could invite a big group of friends over or to the movies (make sure that hes not the only guy) and get to know him better outside of school. If you all have fun, you can keep hanging out and try to get his attention there and talk to him. It will come naturally most likely. Dont try to hard to be funny or anything just stick with a few jokes and a cute smile to the ones he tells :P Manhunt is super fun and if you're on the same team it'll be a great way to get to know one another. He may even try to be on your team, who knows? That's what happened to my best friend and they've been going out for 3 months so far. Good luck! Let me know how it goes!
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I just found out my grandfather will be passing away soon. I cant think of any songs to listen to about losing someone special like he is. any ideas?
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I'm very sorry about your grandfather. The only song I can think of is Bye Bye by Mariah Carey. It's a really good song.
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I’m a 50 years-old man and I addicted a lot of sexual relations and dating with very beautiful ladies .I decided recently to quite this unsatisfied behavior .I have stopped dating women for four months so far and I want to continue for more one year .Can you help my with some advice how I can be strong against the temptation of women especially that I’m single. (link)
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It's good that your determined and have already gone 4 months. Congrats! :) My advice is to maybe get some interesting hobbies or make some new friends. For every let's say month you go treat yourself to a fun day - buy yourself something nice or go out to eat with a frriend or on your own. Good luck.
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so i liked this kid for a very very long time. we use to talk until he got back with his ex. well hes been on and off with her, tellin me how all they do is fight. well one night he wanted to hang out and everything. so i said alright. well him and his girlfriend broke up the day before this night. and well while we were hanging out we had our friends with us his friend and my friend. and like everything was cool, then he started to bring up the past with us how when we were at a carnival we got into this huge fight because i moved on after he did , pretty much something that didnt matter now to me. well i left the room because he pissed me off, then he comes in and is like i care about you i really do. blah blah blah. but really i dont think he does. he held me close to him and everything. we talked about us and everything else. i mean i thought he really cared. then we ended up having sex "/. yeah i made a hige mistake. well after that night him and his ex got back together. i told him i didnt wanna ever speak to him again because he used me pretty much. but for once i felt like i was something to him, and he still trys to talk to me here and there, buh i ignore him. i dont wanna go back to him, buh its like him and his girlfriend always fight. and im just really confused on what to do. (link)
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Okay. Tough situation. I agree. I think you got used. In my opinion this boy isn't worth your time. If he really cared he wouldn't get back with his girlfriend like that. And trust me when I say it's not you it's him. Just forget him and move on is what I'd advise.
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I went on a date with this guy and we went to the movies on our first date we had a good time.
Now its my turn to pick what to do or where to go.
I have no idea but it can be anywhere free or cost money. I just want us to enjoy our company and what we are doing.
I havent been on a date since 2 yrs...now what or where do I go!
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Hmm.... You could go to
- mini golf
- bowling
- ice cream
- park
- amusement park(little pricey)
- pool
I think any of these would make for a great date. Whatever you end up doing, let me know how it goes =)
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okk so i have this problem. i crave attention from guys. i always want guys to notice me and like me and think im hott and everything. this isnt good tho because i can attract guys who only want to use me and because i love the attention i still talk to them and stuff. idk..its just a bad habit and i want to kno what to do. thanks so much :] (link)
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Well I think that all girls crave some attention from guys, myself included. But overdoing the whole attention-seeking can be bad. It may even lower peoples opinions of you. My suggestion, look for a guy who you think isn't the using type and who would be nice. Instead of looking for attention from lots of guys set your sights on him and who knows. He coulds start liking you and going otu with you. If he's a good boyfriend he'll give you attention you want and you won't have to worry about the using guys.
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