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I Want Guy Attention!!!
okk so i have this problem. i crave attention from guys. i always want guys to notice me and like me and think im hott and everything. this isnt good tho because i can attract guys who only want to use me and because i love the attention i still talk to them and stuff. idk..its just a bad habit and i want to kno what to do. thanks so much :]
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there is not much other people can say about your problem, but you have to find out what to do on your own. ask yourself 'why do i want guys attention so much?' also maybe ask yourself if you really want to be used..dont you want guys to get to know you for you? i think once you have found the one guy you start to fall for, the attention craving will fade because you will only want that special boy to like you and no one else. good luck :)
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The best way to attract a guy is to be yourself. If you try to change yourself just to get a boyfriend [especially at your age]- you'll just end up with someone who only likes you for what you've become- not who you are. If you be yourself- and don't change- you'll attract more guys who actually care about your personality rather than just your looks.
I myself like any type of girl. I honestly don't judge looks as much as I do personality. If a girl is absolutely stunningly beautiful, but she's a bitch- why would I like her? What would our relationship be? What would we talk about? Her latest hair extensions? Yeah- that would be REALLY nice *Sarcasm: Party of one!*...
If a girl has a really nice personality- and she's really outgoing and sweet and nice and smart- and she's not necessarily the best looking girl- but she's not super unattractive- then I'll most likely want to date her over the beautiful bitch.
Do you get what I'm saying? If you let guys see your personality more than your looks- you'll end up with someone great. Trust me- most guys prefer personality over looks- they just don't know it yet =].
--Jack
(16/m)
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Well I think that all girls crave some attention from guys, myself included. But overdoing the whole attention-seeking can be bad. It may even lower peoples opinions of you. My suggestion, look for a guy who you think isn't the using type and who would be nice. Instead of looking for attention from lots of guys set your sights on him and who knows. He coulds start liking you and going otu with you. If he's a good boyfriend he'll give you attention you want and you won't have to worry about the using guys.
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