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what does "I know, I am hung like a mouse" mean? (link)
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well, the phrase is moose instead of mouse, and it is usually used for describing a male with a large penis. i can only imagine how big a moose is, so i think it fits in with the phrase. :)
any other questions go ahead and ask!
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my boyfriend and i have been dating for 5 months. he is 18 and just graduated high school in may. in all the time we've been dating, or since i've known him which was in august, he hasn't had a job. he had a car until he got his license suspended in november for a speeding ticket. this means that all this time we've been dating, I'VE been either going to his house to see him or been lugging him around everywhere we go and I'VE been paying for us to go out. and quite honestly, i hate it. he was supposed to get his license back in april but couldn't because it costs over $200 and he doesn't have the money. his parents are helping him and he's mad at THEM for the fact that he cant get it back. he has done some yard work and stuff for neighbors to get money occasionally but it's just not a stable job you know? he's not aspiring to go to college so whatever he does is just going to be a job, not a big career. he's takin me out and payed for me a few times, but it's majority me 95% of the time. we dont even go out every night or anything. his mom is apparently on his case to get a job, which he hates. he's always complaining of sittin around bored when im not there and ill ask him 'do you have a job yet?' or 'why not go look for a job?' and he gets ill. i understand that he doesnt want me nagging him about getting a job or getting his license back like his parents do, but on the other i dont just wanna lay back and let him think im some bank. i've had a job for a year and a half and i work for my money and i pay for the gas in my car that's used when we go out. i dont wanna push him about it because that's what caused my best friend and her boyfriend of almost a year to break up, because they were in the same exact position and she was sick of riding him around and paying for him, and he was sick of her nagging so he dumped her. i dont wanna be like that, but he's 18 for god's sake. he has to do SOMETHING with his life besides rely on other people or else it's not gonna be me that he relies on. everytime i ask him about finding a job, he's always like "im workin on it" or some smart remark, but i've never once seen him turn in any application anywhere, or heard him say he's been out looking for a job. i just want him to be responsible, and be able to get his license back and be able to have a [i hate to say this but..] "normal" relationship. that doesnt mean i want him to shower me with gifts and jewelry and go to a fancy dinner everynight, but being able to go out to eat or to the movies would be great sometimes without me having to pay. he has zero dollars saved up to get his license back, and not one speck of a job in sight and he could honestly careless. i know it bothers him that he doesn't have his car but i want him to DO something about it. i hate it, my mom hates it that im in this situation AGAIN because it was the same exact thing with my ex, and just UGH! how can i talk to him and try to encourage him to get a job without sounding like a mother? i've even tried by telling him places that are looking for help and would be easy, even part-time jobs, but no. what can i dooo? i hate doing this! (link)
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i really wish i could help..
but i dont feel like reading a novel :/ shorten it?
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I have an annoying friend and she always talks about her self. I like her because we are besties, but she only talks about HER and what she will be doing and who she talked to and blah blah blah... Everytime I talk about me or anything other than her she changes the subject or doesn't listen to me. She also would ditch me to sit at the back of the class or with cooler people, and she doesn't care if i end up sitting by myself. Please help me, I don't know how to let her know she is making me angrier every day. What should I say to her?
PS. I have tried talking to her about it but she refused to listen and wouldn't take in what I was saying. (link)
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wow. that bothered me even READING about this annoying friend. or 'friend' i should say. because a real friend would listen to what you have to say and uhh..NOT ditch you??! honestly, find someone better. no one should put up with that kind of bs. if you ignore her (not meanly..just kind of drift, you know), maybe she will ask you why you decided to drift, and then you can tell her again that you cant handle her behavior towards you. good luck
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I asked this guy I really like/love out and he lied and said he is taken which isnt true, because my friend said so. She said he wanted to go out with me but then why would he turn me down? And plus she said he told me a lie so I wouldn't bother him. What should I do? I still like him but I don't want him to hate me and I want to talk to him without him thinking I'm bothering (I never bothered, I took time out of my life to say hi everyday!). (link)
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find a new guy. hes definitely a jerk and is NOT worth your time. trust me..ive dealt with jerks and they all just end up becoming total assholes. you sound like you deserve a lot more than him !
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well me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 3 months and we've been talking about 5 months and stuff.Until we acually started going out.
We were talking about sex and stuff and i feel like i have strong feelings for him.So he asdked me if i was ready and i told him yes.He said he was ready but at the same time he wasnt...everytime he comes to my house we touch eachother and stuff as in him fingering me and me giving him a handjob but we never acually do the real thing.Cause we're both virgins.& we both have'nt gone that far.
i was confused..what does he mean by that???
I dont know if hes ready or not. (link)
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if either of you are not 100% sure you want to have sex, then do not do it. you will definitely know when the time is right.
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i'm really irregular like the last time i got my period was two summers ago so tht means im not like ovulating so i cant get preg can i? (link)
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well i do nottt think you should go to advicenators for this, go to your doctor girl ! ! being irregular could be a potential problem for the future if you decide to have children.
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okk so i have this problem. i crave attention from guys. i always want guys to notice me and like me and think im hott and everything. this isnt good tho because i can attract guys who only want to use me and because i love the attention i still talk to them and stuff. idk..its just a bad habit and i want to kno what to do. thanks so much :] (link)
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there is not much other people can say about your problem, but you have to find out what to do on your own. ask yourself 'why do i want guys attention so much?' also maybe ask yourself if you really want to be used..dont you want guys to get to know you for you? i think once you have found the one guy you start to fall for, the attention craving will fade because you will only want that special boy to like you and no one else. good luck :)
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Okay. My first boyfriend and I have been going out for a few weeks now. We are both 14. While on the phone one day he told me he loved me. He's told me that a few times already now. The last time I felt guilty so I said "I love you too." But I've been thinking and while I think he's very amazing and I couldn't be happier going out with him, love is a strong emotion and I want to be sure it's love. There's nothing wrong with him or our realtionship I just don't know if I'm ready yet. Do you think it's love and I should tell him I love him? (link)
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I know this response is long, but I think reading it will help answer a few things.
The worst part about a young couple is false love. Although hearing a boy tell a girl, or vice versa, that they are in love with their girlfriend/boyfriend can be rather cute, it can sometimes be mislead. Most of the time when someone falls emotionally for another person, they tend to believe that it is 'love'. This happened to me before with this boy I thought I loved. The thing was, he was a player and told many people he loved them, so when he told me he loved me (me being oblivious to him being a player), I totally believed him.
Turned out that neither of us loved each other, after long nights of grieve over him. Now, though, I am in love and it is THE best feeling in the world. I know it is true because I am no good with relationships, and never go past about 2 weeks before getting bored of my boyfriend. It has been a happy 2 months and I am not bored at all. :)
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