well me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 3 months and we've been talking about 5 months and stuff.Until we acually started going out.
We were talking about sex and stuff and i feel like i have strong feelings for him.So he asdked me if i was ready and i told him yes.He said he was ready but at the same time he wasnt...everytime he comes to my house we touch eachother and stuff as in him fingering me and me giving him a handjob but we never acually do the real thing.Cause we're both virgins.& we both have'nt gone that far.
i was confused..what does he mean by that???
I dont know if hes ready or not.
ADDiCT3DTOHiMx answered Sunday June 29 2008, 7:47 pm: Saying your ready and actually meaning it are two different things. Guys will always say they are, even when they aren't. I would give it time. When he's really ready you both will know it. [ ADDiCT3DTOHiMx's advice column | Ask ADDiCT3DTOHiMx A Question ]
thelaura answered Sunday June 29 2008, 9:52 am: You can't be ready and not ready at the same time. You either are ready, or you aren't.
This makes me feel he's not 100% - so give him a little more time. Ask him why he said that - there must be some things he isn't sure about or he's worrying about something.
Communicate. :) [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
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