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I love my friend but.....
I asked this guy I really like/love out and he lied and said he is taken which isnt true, because my friend said so. She said he wanted to go out with me but then why would he turn me down? And plus she said he told me a lie so I wouldn't bother him. What should I do? I still like him but I don't want him to hate me and I want to talk to him without him thinking I'm bothering (I never bothered, I took time out of my life to say hi everyday!).
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find a new guy. hes definitely a jerk and is NOT worth your time. trust me..ive dealt with jerks and they all just end up becoming total assholes. you sound like you deserve a lot more than him !
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Just talk to him and say "Hey I just want to know if it was true that you really were single and not taken" dont be angry just ask him calmy and see what he says
If he says he was lying then just ask him why he lied and tell him how you feel about him and that you dont think it was nessacary to lie to you because it made things worst. Add nething else you want to say. REMEMBER to be completely honest.
If he says he was tellin the truth than just tell him you was curious to know if it was true and that u hope u two culd still be friends etc.
GOODLUCK!
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First of all, I would have to say that JUST because your friend says that he isn't dating someone- that doesn't automatically make it true. He could have a girlfriend that goes to a different school or whatever.
But your friend aside, you need to sit down this kid and ask him what is going on. Ask HIM [not your friend] if he really wants to date you. If not, well then you have to accept that. If he doesn't want to date you, then that would make sense that he turned you down.
In my opinion, your friend is causing the problem. You're automatically trusting that everything she says is right, without verification. She could probably tell you he was gay and you'd believe it. My point is, don't blindly trust someone JUST because they are your friend. She could be lying to you.
--Jack
(16/m)
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