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I can't believe I just did that!
I just cheat on my boyfriend. Not like sex or anything, i'm only 14. I kissed someone else today. We both went to hang out, knowing we liked each other, and ended up making out. I feel REALLY bad though. I mean, he's single so he doesn't care, but he kept saying "it isn't cheating since you don't even like your boyfriend". which is true, but my boyfriend is like in LOVE with me and I just can't bring myself to dump him. I don't know...I just feel really bad. And I'm always getting on to my best friend because she cheats on like all of her boyfriends. I feel like such a hippocrit...I don't know what to do. Help?
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I feel that you need to tell your boyfriend that you cheated on him. It is wrong for you to continue your realationship as if nothing happened. Tell him how you feel abou thtis other person and about him. And when confronted with questions answer them with honesty. Whatever happens will happen. It will all work out in the end one way or anyother
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If you don't like your boyfriend, WHY are you still WITH him? You're only lying to yourself [and him] and cheating on him! There is no point in that.
First of all, I agree with the columnist below who said to stop cheating on your boyfriend. It's totally not cool at all. At least break up with the poor kid before making out with somebody else. Trust me, you can last a week without making out with this new boy.
Secondly, I'd break up with your boyfriend[ obviously...]. Regardless of the fact that he's "like in love" with you, you don't feel the same way. Would you rather stay with him longer and have him find out you've been cheating all alog, or break up with him before he gets even more attatched and you start cheating more and hurting him even worse?
It's kind of a lose-lose situation, but you have to make a choice and I hope you make the right one!
-Laura. (16-f)
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Just stop doing it. You've done it once so let it be a lesson learnt. Put yourself in your boyfriends position. How would you like it if he went to hang out with girls and got on them? Not to mention saying it's not cheating because he doesn't like you anyway.
Disappointed, hurt, angry..?
If you "don't like" your boyfriend, that's another issue you need to sort out entirely. When he gets home, be the mature one and end the relationship. Stop stringing him along because you don't want to hurt him, you've already hurt him - he just doesn't know it. Yet.
As for the pool tomorrow - if your friends are going, then go. Don't use it as another excuse to cheat because he will be there too. It will give you the opportunity to talk to him about it and explain you made a mistake and won't be doing it again whilst you're in a relationship.
Good luck.
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Its difficult to be in a relationship where someone likes you more then you like him. But you need to break up with him if you dont have feelings for him. Dont feel bad because your really helping him, so he can move on & find someone else. Dont tell him you cheated on him, & try not to flirt with the new guy around him. Dont cheat on him again. Best of luckk!
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