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Hey,Im Taylor Mackenzie. So i recently got suspended because i was sharing this account with my fiance Justin. Now he has his own account. Im really good with sex questions. And im pretty good at giving advice on fashion and cosmetics. If you want to you can IM me im always on, dont be nervous. Im a pretty chill person. Ask me anything. Ill try and answer it for you and if i cant ill look it up. Hit me up.

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i had my belly button pierced. but then the ring fell out and i didnt notice it because i was shopping for a new one. but now i still want it pierced, how long do i wait and will it hurt or what?

anything about re piercing my belly button let me know please thank you!!!

Well about the getting it repierced go to the place you got it done and ask, after you get it done and its closed up you should be fine to get it done again. About it hurting it will hurt the same amount as the first time if not less because you already had it once.

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I would like to know how long it would take to convert to Judism(Im a christian)
If I do convert do I have to be orthodox as I would prefer to be conservative.
Im currently in Israel

In my personal opinion it takes as long as it takes you to be ready to convert. You are a christian so it is probably in your best interest to figure out what you need to do to convert into that religion. I dont think that there is a specific time limit. But make sure it is what you want to do before you make that big leap. Good luck

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i am completelyyy in love with my boyfriend. i know this for a fact and am not afraid to say it ! so i have a few questions i hope i can get solid honest answers to. i admit to being very unexperienced, but hey, you have to start somewhere.

1) we are both virgins, does this mean we can't get an STD?
2) when giving him head, do i HAVE to swallow?
3) also when giving him head, would a condom be useful?
4) i hate asking this but it has to be asked: wtf do i do with the pubic hair on both me and him?

haha thanks

This doesnt mean that you CANT get an std. there are all types of ways to get stds weither its from sex or not. A good safe thing would be to get tested first. You dont HAVE to swallow. Now he may want you to but you dont HAVE to do anything you dont want to. A condom will only prevent his sperm from coming out. It depends on preference from you guys. For you you could either get waxed or shave, even trim down. For Him he could shave it all or just trim it. Depends on how you feel and how he feels about that. Good Luck if you have anymore questions just ask

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Where do i get them.I dont want my parents to know i take them though cause then they'll ask me about sex..which is why i want to ge themjust in case???

Well there are all types of places to do it. Yes they would still have to give you an annual papsmear but there are clinics and parenting places. Also next time you go to the doctors you could ask them to suggest places to go but not give them to you there. Good Luck

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what are some things that can delay your period besides pregnancy? i'm always 2-3 days earlier than i was the month before and i'm never late, but i am now.

This is natural. Depending on how much stress how much your eating certain foods, thats what determines when your going to get it. Days isnt really an issue when it becomes weeks at a time then you need to be concerned. It it bothers you that much you can go to your doctor and see about birth control. I know its not just because of wanting to have sex, but also can regulate your cycle. Good Luck

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I am 15/f. I deffinitaly(sp?) know that I want to wait until marriage to have sex. But I have a couple of questions. First question: So you know how like, all girls bleed their first time? Well just say you had just gotten married and go to a hotel room? You just bleed on their sheets or what? What do you do about that? Second question: Well, I've heard a lot of girls say that it hurts the first time you do it. Well, it's not very romatic if you had just got married and you can't "do it" because it hurts, so then what do you do? I've just been wondring this because it just seems like it would be akward when it happens. Sorry if these are weird questions. Thank you bunches!

I think that its cool that your waiting and i totally respect that. The times i have had sex i never bled. But everyone is differnt. If your husband knows that your a virgin he should be totally okay with you if you end up bleeding i mean after all, he should be glad you waited for him. It only hurts when your with someone who isnt respectful to your wishes. It doesnt really so much as hurt but you definatly feel pressure of you being tight and it being big. No worries though make sure that your husband is respectful to how you want it and how you feel so he can go as slow and gentle or as hard and fast as you want. Good Luck

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hi im 12 I was real smooth with talking to girls last year but this year i seem to be a friget especially with my girlfriend and because of that we broke up and i was pretty sad about that because i really liked her alot but now i like a different girl and if we go out i dont want to ruin our relationship because i cant seem to talk to her(the girl im going out with) about anything i doint know what happened so i need sum help with talking to girls(especially my girlfriend) thanks and if you want to talk to me about it my msn addy is flamephysco@hotmail.com

Ok, first off, you dont have asperger's syndrome. Secondly, when talking to anyone, not just a girl, you have to talk with them as if your talking to a best friend. Make them feel comfortable because you can carry out a conversation, or because you can relate to them. You dont have to put on a show for anyone. Just be you. Good luck and have fun!

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i get jelous when my boyfriend talks about other girls
is that normal?

It is totally normal. Yeah it hard believe me im still jealous of other girls even though my fiance trys to reassure me all the time its okay. Yeah it tough but it is normal you dont want anything to mess up what you guys have but at the same time you have to understand that he might just be trying to include you in his life. Maybe they are a big part of his life. ((Like his best friends)) Its okay just let it work itself out. If it gets you that upset just talk to him about it. Everything will be okay Good Luck

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I just got a job at a little store about a week ago and its my first job ever. (I'm 15) I basically stand at a cash register all day. But there's this guy who works there too, and he's about my age, and he's really great. I think I'm kind of falling for him, which isn't good, I don't think. I'm not very pretty, I'm super clumsy, I'm not particularly fun or interesting, and I have a lot of family problems and stuff that makes it very hard to open up to people. So basically, he's never gonna like me. I'm trying really hard to stop crushing on him, but it's kind of near-impossible, you know?

so, advice?

It is very easy to become attracted to people that you see everyday. But at the same time love with a co-worker is the worst. If something goes wrong you will have to still put up with him. Even when you dont want to see him. If hes too clingy he could ruin everything for you. Also if your boss finds out they could be mad and you both could loose your jobs. As for crushing on him thats fine just dont make it too obvious. Good Luck

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Whenever I'm the center of attention, get called on in class, read in front of the class or I'm talking to a cute boy, I BLUSH, then if someone says "wow your so red!", or "your blushing!" I get even redder! is there anyway for me to control my blushing, or better yet, STOP IT!?
Your answers are very much appreciated :]

Its a very natural thing. After being with my fiance i still blush. I mean yeah it gets frausterating but you cant control it. The only thing you can do is focus on something else so you dont think about it. Almost block it out. Good Luck

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okay, my teacher is totally and completely... hot! i've had two... sex dreams about him... and one of my fantases is to well... that doesn't matter but, im just wondering if theres anyone else out there who has ever had any dreams about their teachers or is it just me?

I myself have not had a dream like that but im sure that there are people out there like you whom do. I just need to tell you this. Your teacher is probably doing his best to just teach the class. He might also if hes not married be dating someone. Also he is older then you, not to say its impossible but it is unlikely to happen. Im not trying to be mean here but just suggest that you move on people whom are your own age.

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i want to impress a girl studying in my class i luv her....so what should i do to express my feelings infront of her so that she accepts me and we should have a good relationship....but i feel scared that if she rejects me then....
i luv her so much i could do anything for her ....

*i hve ask many questions on this website but
never got an answer...plz help me this time.

Give her compliments.Girls love to be flattered. You need to first find out if theres a connection before you tell her you love her. If you feel that she feels you then you should ask her out to the movies or something. Dont just jump right into it asking her to be your girlfriend though. Good Luck

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My girlfriend is out of town for a week and usually we're together every day because were best friends as well. I am chilling out with other friends of course but what are some ways I know its going to be ok and that she is really still there?

I know that it feels completely un-natural now because you do spend alot of time together. I feel that way too sometimes. All you need to do is have trust and faith in your girlfriend. She will be back to you soon enough. And of course she is still there. If you guys love each other everything will work out for the best. Have confidence. Try to talk to her as much as you can. Good Luck

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I joined the local Curves for women and also signed up to be in the Camp Curves this summer. This was the first week of Camp Curves and I've gotten a total of 3 points, but I'm looking to get a lot more for my cabin.

I'm really having a hard time thinking up creative ideas that I can do for the subjects at hand. Here are the list of ways to earn points for each cabin:

1. Design your cabin's flag.
2. Come up with a slogan for your cabin.
3. Create a camp song for your cabin.
4. Make a motivational Camp Curves poster.
5. Come up with a fun event for your cabin.
6. Share a *healthy* camp recipe.

Any ideas on how to make these things unique?
I have no idea where to start on any of them! Take for example, if I do the poster I really want it to be spiffy but I don't know what I'd put on it or how I'd make it appealing to others.

As a note, my cabin is called Purple Pride so things need to revolve around such things (and Curves, weightloss, getting fit) I'd think. Curves is all about getting fit, losing weight, being healthy, and altering your lifestyle to a healthier one with better foods and good exercise.

Suggestions? Ideas? Links? Help?! Please!

I'm not much for creative ideas when it comes to posters or songs. I can't draw to save my life and I cant come up with anything for a song(and I ever play guitar!). There are, however, things that I can share to help come up with a fun event for your cabin and healthy recipes. I love staying fit, active, and in shape; and who doesn't like having fun! There's a few things you can come up with for your cabin. The best thing to do to have fun while staying in shape is finding an activity that everyone enjoys (like walking) and adding something to it to 'spice it up'. If walking is a common theme, try turn it into hiking. Find a hiking trail near by or a nature walking trail and go out and have fun. For those in the group that do enjoy nature, u can make it a weekly thing, bring cameras to take pictures of nature, birds, animals, the sky (now that i think of it, you can use this as part of your poster!) If nature walking isn't a favorite, you can always try to find a fundraiser walk (juvenile diabetes, AIDS awareness, Cancer awareness). This is not only a good way to stay fit and active but it also helps out a cause and can bring your cabin closer together.
As for a recipe, there are many foods that can seem healthy and are healthy but taste awful. The main part of having a healthy recipe, whether it be for dinner, lunch, breakfast, is to go low on calories and HIGH in flavor! Try going to the foodnetwork.com and looking under chefs like Ellie Kreiger(Healthy Appittite), Rachel Ray(30 minute meals), and Sandra Lee(semi home made cooking). All these chefs/cooks have a unique was of packing low calories with high flavors. To make them even healthier, try to substitute some things, like chicken for beef, or a whole wheat pasta for a flour pasta. Try some recipes out too (another fun camp event to do!). There's nothing wrong with adding your own flare to someone else's recipe. Give it a try and good luck

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Hi everyone!

my cousins 13 & hes on a baseball team. im going to watch him play in the championship next month & i wanted to bring him a little pick-me-up. so i was wondering if any of you knew what a good one would be. i dont want to bring him a candy bar because im afraid to slow him down but i dont want to bring him an apple because who wants an apple? so any ideas would be amazing thanks so much!

I used to be an athlete where Id play in 4-5 championship games a season, whether it be a state championship, regional championships or league titles, every championship game plays the same toll on your body and mind. The games are physically demanding and mentally draining. When I was 13 yrs old, the most important thing for someone to give me was confidence; a congratulations card, a note that told me how proud they were of me, advice on keeping my cool and playing my 'own game'. The little reassurance I received from the people I care about makes the game go smoother and helps me continue my confidence throughout the day to prepare for the game and to be ready for any situation at hand. Try it, he may be a half a step faster, or be more confident at the plate just because he knows you believe.

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ok. im 16/f

i got on my myspace yesterday and someone had left a horrible racist comment in my truth box.

it read: ''Well...to be perfectly honest I dislike you very much. And I don't say this without reason. Your not a very good person and you fuck niggers because they are the only kind of people who will show anyone like you any attention. Seriously Jordyn just go to hell...''

sorry for the laguage but thats what it said word for word. this really upset me and i was wondering if anyone knew how to find out who sent this. its a truth box so its anonymous but i thought someone might know how to find out.
thank you so much

You cant find it out, the only thing that you can do is reply and see if you get another one back. Thats an awful thing to say and im sorry.

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so my friend just moved to Texas and I live in Ohio. My friend and I want to go visit her spring break and we want to fly. I have never been on a plane before and I am excited. but I was wondering What airplane companies are the best? we want to go straight through. And we are only 15 and we don't want to pay a lot of money. Also do I order the ticket from online? What is the website? Just tell me all I need to know about flying.

My personal experience is southwest is pretty good. Usually if you get them online its cheaper. Also for cheaper tickets try our orbitz.com and travelocity.com. Good Luck

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Okay so I have 10 days till my big family's big 14 1/2 hour drive to florida. THE only problem is that I don't know what to do about my period? We are leaving the 12th. And my period is supposed to start the 6th. But I don't know what to do? Is there anyway to make it come sooner? I know this sounds crazy but still.... help. PLUS.... IF

My period does happen to fall during the 12th what should i do?

I moved from Florida to New Hampshire and of course started my period a few days before we moved. It was the worst! My advice to you is if you know that your going to be in the car for a long time you should double up, wearing a tampon and a pad just in case for the little amounts that pass through. Depending on your cycle the thicker the better. So maybe if its heavy try a Super Pad and then a super tampon. Make sure to take advantage of the bathrooms everywhere you stop even if you dont have to urinate so you can at least change up. Good Luck

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So I have a boyfriend and we've been together for almost 4 years. And we have a kid together. He had a bad anger problem so he went to a counselor and got medicine. But he still doesn't have a job. He'll only keep one for 1 week and then quit. He refuses to change a dirty diaper and mind you our daughter is now 1 year old. I feel unappreciated but I don't know if I should break up with him or not? Some days he's really sweet, and then hes totally not. Any advice?

Well i think that for your daughters sake you need to stay with him. But you have to let him know that it bothers you. You also need to push him more to get a job. He needs to step up to the plate. Think more for your daughter. And if all else fails leave him there is no reason you have to put up with it.

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When I log in, it says account permanently disabled. What the heck does that mean? I didn't get any warnings either.

It just means that you have to wait. You tube is doing stupid stuff like revisions. Almost like when myspace says that sorry message its just like that. It should be up in running in about an hour or so

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