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girl in love
i am completelyyy in love with my boyfriend. i know this for a fact and am not afraid to say it ! so i have a few questions i hope i can get solid honest answers to. i admit to being very unexperienced, but hey, you have to start somewhere.
1) we are both virgins, does this mean we can't get an STD?
2) when giving him head, do i HAVE to swallow?
3) also when giving him head, would a condom be useful?
4) i hate asking this but it has to be asked: wtf do i do with the pubic hair on both me and him?
haha thanks
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1. yes you can get an std but its doubtful.
2.you dont HAVE to, but i would recommend it, guys like it (=
3.i guess it would, but it would take away a lot of the pleasure for him.
4.if i were you i would shave your pubic hair.
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1)You actually can still get an std, I know it doesn't make sense to me either.
But you can.
2) You don't have to swallow, but guys love it.
3)A condom could be useful, It takes away most of the pleasure though.
4)Shave, trim or wax it. =)
Most girls/boys do when they become sexually active.
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This doesnt mean that you CANT get an std. there are all types of ways to get stds weither its from sex or not. A good safe thing would be to get tested first. You dont HAVE to swallow. Now he may want you to but you dont HAVE to do anything you dont want to. A condom will only prevent his sperm from coming out. It depends on preference from you guys. For you you could either get waxed or shave, even trim down. For Him he could shave it all or just trim it. Depends on how you feel and how he feels about that. Good Luck if you have anymore questions just ask
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1) if eitheir of you have did anything oral before yes you can get an std
2)no you don't its gross haha
3) yes, it can protect you from stds and also from recieving hpv (human papolomous virus) which you CAN recieve from giving head
4)you can shave if you want, but if he doesnt dig shaving playing with them, just gently tugging can increase a guys excitement.
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Okay.
1) Just because you both are virgins, you can still get an STD from oral sex.
2) Some girls swallow and some don't. It's up to you in that area. Most guys like girls that swallow, but if you & your boyfriend are close and you don't want to do that, tell him you'd prefer not to swallow. He should understand.
3) Most of the time, they do not wear condoms when recieving head, however, it can prevent STD's by wearing a condom.
4) Most guys don't shave their hair. Most girls do though. If you don't want to shave, then there is nothing you have to do with it! ♥
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1) its very likely neitehr of you has one, but you always could. for example, you can be born with aids if your parents had it. i'm sure they would've told him by now if they had had it, so your probably safe. but, if you gonna have sex and your not on the pill, you should use a condom so you dont get pregnant annddd avoid the little chance of gettin an std.
2) you don't have to. if it turns him on you could, but if your not comfortable doin it, talk to him about other ways/places he could bust (like not to be graphic of course but on your tits or somethin)
3) the only reasons to use a condom while giving head are: to avoid stds of course, not to swallow him cum, or a personal preference (like if givin head disgusts you you know?)
4) thats up to you. if you want to shave, then shave, or you can ask what he prefers for it. but if your not tryna shave, dont do it JUST because he wants it, it should be more about you then him
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1. For the most part, yes, but why not use protection? I mean, unless you want to get pregnant I wouldn't recommend it.
2. No, not at all. And I don't advise that you do swallow because it is absolutely disgusting.
3. Maybe, but I've never used a condom for a blowjob. He'd probably not enjoy it as much.
4. Shave all of yours off, probably, most guys prefer that. And he'll probably trim his. Don't say anything to him about it, he'll figure it out.
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1) Yes, you both can't get an STD, but just be EXTRA careful and tell him to wear a condom.
2) You don't have to swallow, you can pick to spit or swallow, apparently semen is good for the skin.
3) Yes, I guess a condom would be a good idea, just in case!
4) The pubic hair, well, the guys usually don't do anything about it, some of them trim just to look a little neater, but for girls, I feel it's appropriate to either be waxed or shaved. Why don't you make an appointment to get waxed, it will be sore but it really is much better in the long run. :D
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1) If you are both virgins then you should not get an STD but never say never - always take precautions.
2) No you do not have to swallow.
3) If you feel that a condom would make you feel less nauseous/cringing or uncomfortable, then use one - it is your choice.
4) Not a nice idea to get one in your mouth but just spit it out, and when giving head just move them out the way.
Just a word of caution though - always make sure that you both have clean nails/hands and private parts.
All relevant questions - if you don't ask you don't know. All the best.
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