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more than a friend?
14/f
so, there was a sadie hawkins dance at my school. the guy that i planned on asking acted like a jerk right before i was about to ask him (long story) and i just couldn't ask him. so i asked my best guy friend. we've been like brother and sister for a little more than a year. this friend doesn't go to my school. so the dance comes and we go out to dinner, he refuses to let me pay for my own dinner, and everything is going great. when we get to the dance, we're just hanging out and i introduce him to all of my friends. when the first slow dance comes, he grabs me and pulls me reallllly close. we dance and we don't even talk while we're dancing. we just stare at each other and smile. when the song ends, we just stand there. he's holding me and i'm smiling and then one of my friends comes up and taps him on the shoulder. she says "you know the song's over right? you don't have to stand there like that..." and he just says "yeah i know." so the rest of the dance goes that way. after the dance, he says he had a really good time. after that, everything went back to normal. in school, i literally was asked 100 times 'are you going out with him?''you looked so cute together' blah blah. now, i'm thinking about him a lot more and i'm wondering...does he have a thing for me? could we be more than friends? help !
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Ask him about it or if youre not brave enough to (like i wouldnt be in that situation). Start talking to him about this guy whos a really good friend of yours and how youve been thinking about him a lot and stuff... take it from there and be talking about him. It might work!
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There is a really a big chance he likes you. Usually guy friends just don't pull you close when they don't like you. So obviously he does. If you have the same feelings for him now I say you should go for this guy. He seems really into you. So yeah I think you guys could be more than friends! Cute!
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That's really cute. I agree with the person before me, the signs are there. BUT, it's your job to jump on them. Make the effort to hang out with him and make your connection stronger. Go to a movie have him over with a bunch of your friends (he knows them now and they could get to know each other better so then it'd be cool for him to hand out with you while your with your friends.) I think that that's great. Clearly this is a good guy and not the kind that are jerks and use you.
have fun, and if you need anymore help just drop a question in my inbox
-E
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Awww... I think it's so cute! All of the signs say yes! he does have a thing for you. Great relationships include great friendships, so friendships that blossom into relationships are so much fun. It's really nice to have someone to make out with, but it's even better having someone you can talk to and be yourself with too. My guy and I have been friends since freshman year of high school, but we didn't start dating until the end of our junior year. All of the time that we spend as friends just made the relationship we have now that much stronger. So, go with confidence and make that next move! Ask him to get coffee or lunch or something with you, and make it clear that you want to spend more time with him.
Good luck and much love!
~TD
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Its a good thing that you didnt ask the "jerk", because now, you know a really sweet guy, that you know better than anyone, likes you. He HAS to like you, he wouldnt let you pay for dinner, and he holds you close dancing. Sounds to me like he likes you. Yes you could most definately be more than friends!
Goodluck!
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First off I think that is really cute :-) and second of all I agree with advice lady, I think he would like to be more than just friends, judging by your description of how he was acting. Take it slow, start to hang out with him more, see how you guys connect. Dont hang out as the normal friends you are, try to actually feel something, a connection that is a sign of maybe this will work. It helps that you are already comfortable with him because you have been friends for a while, maybe you guys can make a mutual decision to take it to the next level. Let me know how it goes for you, good luck!!!! hope you had a happy holiday :-)
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He definitely wants to be more than friends because someone who is your friend doesn't hold you close. A friend would let go as soon as the song was over but he held onto you to let you know he is committed. You didn't realize that you had those feelings until he started showing his. He is trying to show you that he wants to be more than friends by making the first move so to speak. It is your turn to act on what he is trying to do, that's how a successful relationship builds and grows from friendship.
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