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what should i say when a guy ask whats the farest ive gone with a guy
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You should always be truthful when someone asks you questions; however, sometimes things are private and you may not want to reveal the truth about your past without being in a serious relationship with someone.
The true question is what sort of guy are you really after.
If you tell a guy you've gone "all the way" then he will expect you to be easy and may want to inquire about doing sexual activities with him. It really isn't good to give guys the impression that you are easy simply because that alone shows a lack of self-respect.
If you tell a guy that you haven't done anything with a guy (or very little) and he becomes disinterested in you then it tells a lot about what he was really after. It is possible that a guy may become much more interested you at this point but then you must weed out the creeps from the sweethearts.
Some guys are creeps and want to deflower as many women as possible. Usually these guys have a number of girls in their history and are only interested in finding out how sexual you are. Sometimes they like a challenge and look for virgin girls so they can later brag about how they degraded another woman.
It is possible that a guy is truly after a virgin girl to marry, in which case you will be able to tell probably. These guys probably won't seem as sleezy as others and are interested in pressuring you about sex. They simply want to know if you are pure or not so they know if they should pursue you as a long-term partner or keep the relationship on a friend basis. These guys probably don't have any past with sexual encounters and are simply looking for a woman that is equal to them.
The most appropriate thing to do is to not engage in conversation with people only interested in knowing your sexual history unless it is in a deep discussion with a possible long-term partner. It is very rude for a male to ask a female about sexual history anyway if they aren't pursuing the woman as a long-term partner.
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Well if you are uncomfortable with the question, say its "none of your buisness" or "i'd rather not say".
Like others said before me, it depends on how well you know the guy.
BEST FRIEND If it's someone you know like your best guy friend then you could tell him if you like.
CRUSH If it's some guy you like you could give him an answer (but I'd watch out for him, he maybe just out for a piece of a__).
RANDOM If its a random guy, he's a freak and tell him its none of your d___ buisness
Hope I helped.
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Well, if he is a good friend, tell him the truth.
If its some random guy or something like that, tell him the truth, because if you don't tell him the truth, it will catch up to you later in life.
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You should first correct their awful grammar and spelling. “Farest” is not a word.
Secondly, say to them “Why the hell should I tell you, it’s none of your business”. Unless you want it to be their business, in which case act all coy and tell them.
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Well, do you want him to know the truth? If you don't mind if he knows, then tell him.
I, personally, wouldn't say anything because it's no ones business but my own.
Don't lie though. Lies always catch up with you.
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Well, that can sometimes be hard depending on how far you've really gone.
I would say just be honest because eerybody is gona take it differently. Just be honest. If they dont respect it, then their lamee anyway.
If you aren't comfortable with that && you like him tease him a little and say something like "thats for me to know and if your lucky you could find out" or just say its your buisness not his.
hopefully that helps
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If he's a good friend, tell him the truth, if you hardly know him but he's known to be a rumor spreader, just say, I'm not sharing that with you, or, thats private.
It can be really akward, but thats what I always do.
Hope I helped :]]
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