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He means alot to me


Question Posted Tuesday March 18 2008, 1:51 am

My boyfriend means alot to me. we're 15 and we've been together for a month. lately i've been worried. he asked me out 3 months after hima nd his ex broke up. and they went out for 17 months. longggg timeee!! well my friend saw them talking in the hall 4 days ago, for a little while. and they're now friends on myspace again. i dont want to get hurt. im not a jealous girlfriend. not one at all. i just dont like ex girlfriends..or at least this one. i just dont like the fact that they can be messaging over myspace and i wont even know about it. my and my bf dont have cell phones. so we only tlak on house phones and myspace occaionally. but we havent talked since our one month which was 4days ago. Am i worrying over nothing. the ex does have a bf. and says shes "happy" but idk. can/will anything happen b/w them again?

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phatdopelove answered Tuesday March 18 2008, 6:02 pm:
Well he is YOUR boyfriend,of course you're gonna get concerned when your guy talks to his ex. ALL girls are concerned with that, but justify it, talk to him about it, it shows your concern and that you really care. And it'll probably turn out harmless, afterall they're just friends, just make sure you stand by your ground, and justify even to his ex that YOU are HIS girlfriend. Have yall met yet? If yall haven't, ask him to introduce her to you. When yall meet stand close, and be polite to her but give her the eye that he is YOURS. If you stand by your man, that won't happen ( just don't get to carried away like getting his password to everything ,etc.) PLUS relationships are BASED on trust. Do you trust him? If you do, don't fret. If you don't, then you'll start questioning the relationship that yall have together. Re-think your values. Hope I helped.

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khadiya answered Tuesday March 18 2008, 3:19 pm:
This could be an issue. The best thing for you to do is ask him about it. Because we can tell you everything in the world, but the only person that really knows is them too. You should just bring it up in a nice way.

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