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Does that make me a slut?
Ok, so i've liked a lot of guys in my life, but I have done NOTHING with any of them does that make me a slut? If I liked so many guys? ...
I mean alot of them i found out are friends w/the guys i used to like and some of them get mad and call me a slut. When I have done nothing with any guy, I'm just the kind of girl who moves on quickly if it doesn't work out between me and a guy, is that wrong?
Some guys ask me sexual questions and i answer but does that make me a slut, when i still haven't done anything with a guy? I've only made out with guys but i have not yet went past that yet. So does that make me a slut? and how do i deal with these guys?
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ha your no slut, all guys are like that when you move on to someone new that will call you name's
it's just what thay do i don't know why, ha but
you have done nothing with them but kiss then
your not a slut, a slut is somone who sleeps around, maybe slow down with the kissing but thats all, don't listen to them when thay call you a slut mmkay[:
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you are definately not a slut. thats for sure. guys usually like a million girls at one time, if not more, and they hate it when a girl likes them and someone else. They like to feel that they are the only ones you like because it boosts their self esteem, and then they get to act cocky/confident.
and it's great that you move on quickly, because there are girls that dwell on one guy, claim they love him, then get heart broken and complain. so dont feel bad, and you're not a slut
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I am in the same boat as you, and no that doesn't make you a slut at all and just let people assume what they want, only you would know. They're not you, and you know whats true and whats not. So let them talk their shit, they just looking for something to talk about.
And maybe some of the guys are mad that you like their friends but you didn't do anything with them right?Just keep your head up, don't listen to what the guys are saying about you and if they ask you those questions it should be none of their buisness, try not to answer next time cause it'll only make you look promiscuous if you do answer, don't make the same mistake I did. It's none of their buisness and trust me , if you don't make it big and show others it bothers you, it'll die down and they'll bother someone else.
Hope I helped! ;)
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Of course it doesn't make you a slut. You are free to fancy who you like, when you like.
What do you do about it? Nothing! Let them say what they like. You can defend yourself if you want.."how does LIKING someone make me a slut?" but if I were you, I'd just totally ignore it, because the more they see it's getting to you, the more they're going to say things. When they ask you sexual questions, whatever you do, don't lie to make yourself sound "cooler". Just simply don't respond. What the hell business is it of theirs anyway?
Seems to me they're just being immature school kids.
Don't worry about it. and remember liking someone and moving on definitely isn't wrong.
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No, if you didn't do anything with the guys, it definitely doesn't make you a slut. Liking someone isn't wrong.
I don't know why your friends would have any problem with you liking their guy friends. For some of them, it might be that they like the guys themselves and just isn't happy that you do too. (Not saying that's for sure. It's just a possibility.)
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No,that does not in any way make you a slut. People may try to call you a slut if you slept with all these different guys--but as it is now, you are definitely not a slut. You're just indecisive. :)
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