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Who do I belive?


Question Posted Monday March 19 2007, 12:32 am

I think I'm a lesbian. I've read in the Bible that homosexuality is wrong and that if you commit the sin of homosexuality, the you will be sent to hell. But then in other Bible's, they say it is natural and that God will love you no matter what.What should I belive, that homosexuality is wrong, or that it is natural?

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Daimeera answered Monday March 19 2007, 2:32 pm:
Love, all love, is a beautiful thing. Love between friends, between family, and between romantic partners, whether they be male-female, male-male, or female-female. I have seen it. I've never lived it, but I've seen it and it confirmed what I already know--that nothing so pure could be bad.

God is supposed to be great and wonderful and beyond our comprehension. God created love. God created beauty. I truly believe that He would want you to be happy and to experience that warmth.

There is no reason a just god would send you to hell for feeling something so natural and true. And if God is not a just god, why would He be worthy of worship?

Ultimately, it comes down to what's in your heart. If what you're feeling is pure and genuine, from your soul, then how can it be wrong? It is not destructive. It is not ugly. It just is.

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Brandi_S answered Monday March 19 2007, 1:59 pm:
Yah, so it may say in the Bible that it is a sin, but does it not also say that Jesus died for all of our sins to be forgiven?

Honestly? I come from the land of Fred Phelps. (I'm sure you know who that wack-job is) See, it's people like him that are so full of hate and misery that leads a lot of people like yourself to question weather or not God will accept you or forgive you for feeling the way you naturally feel. Don't listen to that kind of crap, because crap is exactly what it is.

Be who you are. Don't question weather that is right or wrong. If you feel that being a lesbian is your path in this life, then take that path. Don't let other people's opinions dictate your life.

As for being sent to Hell, that is not for man to judge, it is up to God to decide in the end. (Judging is a sin, too.)

I believe that God loves all of mankind, and I believe that He is very forgiving. Why else would He create his very own son just to die for our sins if He didn't love us so?

So, if God truly sees homosexuality as a sin, then I believe it is a forgivable sin. Why else would he make people homosexual? I think that, though He can seem to be a cruel God, He is a loving God. I just don't see God creating homosexuals just to have someone to cast into the fires of Hell. Do you?

It seems to me that there are far worse sins out there than homosexuality, such as murderers, rapists, and pedophiles. I think it is folks like them that have a lot more answering to do to God than a lesbian. Wouldn't you agree?

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for3v3r_chain3d answered Monday March 19 2007, 1:26 pm:
follow your heart. what YOU believe is whats important. Don't let anyone tell you who you are or who you are allowed to be.

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x_designerxdrug_x answered Monday March 19 2007, 12:08 pm:
Believe who or what you want to. If YOU think being a lesbian is okay, then so be it. If YOU think it's wrong, then so be it. Homosexuality is nothing but a HUGE controversy...some agree with it, some don't. If you really think you are, then experiment with it. THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT....well, i think anyway. Do what YOU think is right...not what other's think. If they critisize you, oh well. it happens. you can't help who you are...<333

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ElenaHilton answered Monday March 19 2007, 11:33 am:
I personally believe the Bible is for interpretation. God made you this way and it is not a sin, its who you are. Some people believe you choose to be homosexual,and since it is different they think it a sin. This is who you are it is natural-not wrong. If you are a good person that is all that matters.

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Annerszz_101 answered Monday March 19 2007, 1:10 am:
I agree, everyone's views are different. But, as the person said below me, God loves all of his children and God is an understand individual who will accept you and love you no matter what your decisions are. Good luck, and just remember, he loves you. <3

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HOPLESSxROMNTC answered Monday March 19 2007, 1:08 am:
You will probably get different answers for this question because people believe different things, but personally I think God will love you no matter what.

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