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i like him alot...and we're kinda friends...
so i like this guy...and we're kinda friends...like we talk online and stuff...but his computer broke...and i we were messaging yesterday..but idk..in person we barely ever talk...and i want to get closer to him and i know that i have to talk to him in person..but i just don't know what to say...i mean like even online and messaging..he ususally doesnt start conversations and he doesnt usually sound too interested...like one word answers..so how can i get closer to him? and if i talk to him in person..what should i say?
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I think you should ask him to hang out with you, once his computer gets fixed, or you could call him or go to his house if you have his number/address. You two could go to the movies, out to eat or whatever else you think would be fun for the two of you, to do together.
Start talking to this guy on a daily basis, even if its the smallest thing. The more you talk and hang out, the more comfortable the two of you will become with each other. Doing these two things will ultimately bring the two of you closer, and maybe even progress things to being more than friends!
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well ask if he would liek to hang out, then you would have to talk in person. && think about it sometimes you just don't have anything else to say, so you just say stupid one word answers.
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Maybe he isn't good with words on the computer? Not many boys/men are.
So anyways Msg him and say hey are you busy this weekend? or whatever and say you'd like to go get something to eat orrrrr you could totally bowl him over and ask for him to come with you to pick out something for your boy "cousin" cause it's his birthday and you think he's a LOT like you and you need his advice!
If he says no well then he isn't worth it.
If he says yes then build it from that ;-) Whilst out, you could be getting ideas for presents to get HIM for his birthday
oh haha I kill me!!
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He's not worth your time sweetheart, you like him, but it seems like he doesn't like you back, he's giving you one worded answers,you always start the coversations..He may not want to hurt your feelings.You can't make him get closer. You say yall BARELY talk? If he really likes you, he would make an effort talk to you,if he was interested he'd ask you questions about you.It seems to me you're the one who's doing all the work here, and when you like someone you can't be the one who's doing all the work.He's trying to cut you short, so my best advice is to move on girly girl, stop talking to him, take his screenname off your buddies list. This is so you won't be tempted to talk to him again. And you don't have to talk to him in person, it's better if you not to see him. This maybe hard, but you can get through it,I'm sure there is plenty of other fine guys out there that are interested in you. And this one, girly, I'm afraid he's not the one, but I'm sure you'll find your prince charming in good time. Good luck, hope this helps.
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On the computer, try asking him questions to get to know him or like, ask him how things are going. As for in person, you can ask him if he wants to hang out sometime soon and make sure that when you're talking to him, you're looking into his eyes so he knows you're being attentive. Then, when you can't think of anything to ask him in person, just ask the same things, stuff about school, if he needs help with homework, how homelife is going. Good luck and I hope i helped!
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