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Ok.I'm basically not skinny. I've tryed EVERYTHING to get it to go away. I've done dieting, but I keep on braking them, and I'm already in about 1 thosand sports. So I'm thinking about only eating lunch and a little dinner everyday, but I don't know how bad that is for me. Like for lunch, a salad, orange juice (which is nasty), and for dinner maybe only an apple. So should I do it or not? Plus, I need to know if I should do it or not, what should I do?

well if you don't eat as much as you should then your body could actually store that food instead of using it up making you gain or stay the same weight and be pretty tired.

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well i have a bunch of guy friends. and we're all really tight!!! but now like randomly they all started liking me, but i have a boyfriend!!!
how do i stay friends with them?!?!!?

just b/c they like you really dosn't mean anything. Just tell them that truth and don't lead them on, just be like hey i like you as a friend and only a friend. NOthing to sweat

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I have been best friends with lisa ever since third grade. We were inseperable until this year (freshamn H.S). She got her first boyfriend in the beginning on the year and its been downhill from there. ahhg. She's now very arrogant and acting as if she's SO "experienced" and can get any guy that walks in her path which is untrue. She will not sit next to me in after school activities or social places like in the lunch room, but she'll sit with her friend natalie who is friends with the crowd her boyfriend is in. It's really hurtful that she is now a totally different person wanting to dress differently, acts like a cocky witch, shoves her new "friendships" in my face, acts like i don't exist if i'm around her in social situations, and expects me to be there for her through and through. She makes me feel like CRAP plain and simple. I have other friends, but is it worth it to keep with one?


thanks =/

well since she has changed so much, you should ask yourself if you even do want her back as a bestfriend? I know its hard right now, but just say your friend does break up with her boyfriend (i'm not saying anytime soon, but its possibly) she'll prob. be running back to you. and its up to you to be there for her or not. Its hard when friends find other people to take your place, and it does plain and simple suck. But just don't treat her how shes treating you b/c that'll just make things even worst. I would say just to talk to her about that, but in some siuttuations thats not the best idea b/c your friend MAY take it in the wrong way and get all mad at you. Just try to forget about her other friends and just try to focus on your relationship. Also try to find other friends, if shes found others then so can you.

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13/f

when a guy says to you "what's up?" and you normally don't talk to him... are you supposed to say "good" or "hey"?

Like.. is the phrase "whats up" supposed to be asking the person how they are doing?? or is that phrase just saying Hi in a different way?

umm no thats not what it means
If someone would say whats up? it means like what are you up to?
So you can say nothing, or likie homework etc. (just whatever you are doing)

mostly i saw nothing much, what about you?

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Hi! I'm sorry if this is kinda long, but please help!

Alright, to start off, my best friend is in major LOVE with the band Relient K. I thought for her birthday it would be intresting to get her tickets to go see them. There are 1 parent going, and 3 other girls, me and her. Tomarrow the 3 other girls are comming over. We are going to figure out a way to present them to her at her party [ since most of the people at her party either wern't a part of it or wern't allowed to go. How should we approach this? Creative ideas wanted!!!

Take a really big box, and wrap that and when she opens that have another box wrapped, and then when she opens that have another smaller box in that, and so on. Have how many boxes you want, but just start off with a pretty big one, and end with a little box with the tickets in it :)

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what does it mean when someone says "wow you have big cankles" lol, in school today i heard someone say it. thxx

cankles are were your calfs and ankels met. like there really isnt any shape. LIke you calf should be pressed out and then your leg, and then your leg will go to your ankels. Well cankels are just your calfs, and then your ankel

I hope you know what i mean. its kinda hard to explain but i hope i helped :)

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Is it okay to go out for halloween even though you're christian? I want free candy..I'm Christian and I think it's ok but..

i'm a christian and i say its fine...
as long as you don't worship saten then i think your good :)

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heyyyy. its spring break and i wanna come back with a complete makeover.
im thinking about:
1. going to get my eyebrows waxed
2. uses facail and scrubs
3. doing my nails and stuff.
4. working out
5. shopping for clothes

any more ideas. i cant dye my hair but i can do diffrent styles with it.

thanksss

6. hang out with the chickas!
7. met at least 5 new guys

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hey yall im 16 yrs old im 5 foot 6 inches and im only 95 lbs and its all from a very high metabolism whixh is goood but i get a lot of coments about lookin a lil sick sometimes !! is there a safe way to gain weight ? but not get fatty lookin just decent?

I understand that you want to gain some weight. but if your already eating heathly then i wouldn't worry about it. Everyones metabolism is differnt and since yours is very high even if you tried to gain some weight you really couldn't. But if you want to gain WEIGHT you could try lighting weights and gaining mussel. that'll make you weight more but not nessasarly make you look a little bit more meaty?

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I'm dying my hair again and I don't want to look wierd or any thing but I have Baby blue eyes a kind of pail (not white just pail) skin tone and I'm thinkin of dying it Blonde I could use help!
oh and my names Massie could you picture a blonde gurl named Massie?

a blond Massie...yep i can see it! haha i think a kinda darkish blonde would be nice. like not too too blond!

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ok, there is this guy who definitly likes me ad i think i like him too. i have a feeling he might ask me out and i want to say yes but i know that people are going to wonder what i see in him and probably laugh and make fun of me. he's a great kid and really nice and he listens to me but he's not very attractive. what can i say to make people not bother me if we go out?

Well if you like him, then thats all you need. Who cares what other people think of him :) just be yourself, and don't look at this kid with a bad opinion b/c others don't like him, if you do then go for it :) Make yourself happy, and forget about what others may say

& when people ask you why your going out with him, just say that he truly makes you happy, hes nice, and he actually listens to what you say :)

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k, im in 9th grade and i have to wake my 8 year old brother up for school and he never gets up when i tell him to. what can i do to make him get up the first or atleast the second time i tell him too? he has an alarm clock but it doesn't wake him up so i do it.

go in turn the light in, jump on him and physicaly pull him out of bed. he'll get out by doing that :) haha

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Ok..the past month i have not hung out with any of my friends. I used to hang out with them every weekend. Like we would have bonfires..go out to eat..go to the movies. But now all of my friends have serious boyfriends. Im talking to a guy but i dont want anything serious with him. I want to hang out with my friends again. Any advice on this?

Maybe you can have a girls night out.
tell your friends to turn OFF the phones etc.
and maybe go to a movie, go bowling, ice skating, skating, shopping, out to eat. w/e you like to do :)

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I dont know if they even have these. But does anyone know a site where you can type something in and it says what you typed?

I tryed google but I don't know what there called haha. Help would be grateful lol. Thanks

well this isn't a web site but on your compueter if you go to start, control panel, and there will be a few differnt things, there should be one that says soemthing like sounds, speach, and audio devices click on that.
then you should see one that says Speech
click on that and then just type something in, but don't push ok, push preview and it'll say what you wrote.
Its a lot of fun and you can use it for prank calling and stuff :) haha

By the way my computer is a Microsoft, so if your computer is differnt you might have troubles finding that.
But i hope this is what you wanted

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ok so this like creamy white stuff keeps coming out of my vagina is this normal?

perfectly normal...its called discharge

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Is it normal if your straight to have dreams like your gay? And your a girl.
Please help.

well you can't effect your dreams..but i never heard of that before. but since you can't change them i guess its normal

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When I plug my ipod into my computer, my computer and itunes do not recognize it. My computer recognizes that something has been plugged in. My ipod just says "do not disconnect" and doesn't do anything else.
I've reset my ipod, updated all my apple stuff, reinstalled itunes...I don't know what else to do.

well i'm not too sure what to do. But if i were you maybe try calling itunes or going to their web page and email them your question...obviously they should be able to help you :) hope that helps a little.

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I've had too many friends that have stabbed me in the back. I have done nothing but be there for them. Yes they've been there for me, but I realized I can't do it anymore. My last friend I ended up losing her because I finally told her how I felt about her. At least I was honest to her face. But now she thinks because she's pregnant she's better than everyone. It makes me feel bad because I told her how I felt, but it also makes me feel good because I was finally able to stand up to her and make her realize that I ain't gonna take it anymore. If anyone has any advice PLEASE LET ME KNOW.

yeah it seems like we all have that problem...even best of best friends will end up stabing you in the back, when you've NEVER done anything to them. But I would say just try to talk to them, and be like i didn't mean it to ruin our friendship, it was just something i had to get off my back. You have to forget about a lot of things in life, nothing is perfect. But everyone is differnt, and everyone isn't going to feel the same way about some things.
I hope i helped :)

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hey, well.. you said that you'd be willing to help me with my problem, so here it is.

14/f.
mmk, well I knew this kid, who was like my bestestestest friend ever. like, i asked him for help with everythinggg. & he always looked out for me. & then eventually, we dated. for a couple months. then, he broke up with me, but a couple months later, we were best friends again. & it was like we were dating. but we never made it offical. considering, i just had gotten out of a bad relationship at that time, + i wasn't 100 percent sure if i liked him & only him completely.

that all happened in 6th grade. [ i met him in like 4th grade, & we became like best friends at the beginning of 5th grade.]

so anyways, 7th grade rolled around, me & him were still the best of friends. & i was like wow, yano we've been friends so long, most girls i know dont stay that good of friends with guys for so long. so then, at the end of 7th grade, in the summer, well, i have a sliding glasss door in my room, which leads out to my deck, & like, its confusing.. my house is like on a hill, but anyways, its really easy for boys to sneak up there.. & stuff. so i had alot of visiters during that summer, most of the boys that i didn't really care too much about. but then, my best friend [the boy] was like omg your so hot. & i'd so wanna do you. & i was also talking to my old best friend at the time [well she was still my best friend then] & i was like hes tottaly kidding right? & shes like oh yeah deffinitly. so i kinda played along with what he was saying. but then he got all weird. like he was like, do you love me? tell me you love me. & i was like wtf is he high. & he just kept saying stuff like that. so then, he was like ok im comin over. & im like.. its kinda late bud? & he was all like it would be fun. & i was like whoa nooo. & he kept insisting. & like, it wasnt like him, for awhile i didnt even think it was him. so hes like, hayley you said you loved me. & all this stuff like that. & i was like, idno i was starting to get mad. so hes like..whatever i'm coming over."

so he came over alright. & i was like, well you should've known before you walked here, i wasnt going to do that. i'm only 13. i'm not a slut. & all this stuff. eventually, i told him to go home. he ended up being really mad at me. we talked for a couple months longer, & then, that ended that. he like tottaly just stopped talking to me, completely.

& i was like so upset. because i then felt like so wrong & guilty. i mean, i didnt know he was being serious. i never thought, that he actually would have came. i never knew i dont know. so then now, i go to his school. hes in like 5 of my classes. & my lunch period. so i see him alotttt. & he looks at me alot. like alot. but he hasnt talked to me yet, & i've been there for like 2 months. & so, also, some of the kids he hangs out with, like hate me. & stuff. &thats not fair, because he basically twisted the story. saying i liked him & everything.

so, now its basically screwing things up there too. like there like, oh wait.. your that girl?
so, i don't know what to do. am i suppose to go up to him apologize? or should i just forget it?
& its like so confusing. because people though keep walking up to me. & theyll be like, wait you dated him? yeah, he always talks about you, in a good way. so like i don't know. i feel weird going up to him & just being like hey.
what should i do? i cant just forget about him. & i'm always feeling so guilty. how do i make it better? & show him that it wasn't my fault, that i didnt know.

haha wow that really stinks. Pretty much boys are gay :) haah no jk, but umm well i kinda have the same problem b/c this one boy that said he likes me, we only talk on aol, and when we see eachother at school we just ignore eachother...and idk its just weird. but i would say don't forget about him, and i know its hard but just be like hey...and kinda small talk with him for a while to try to build that FRIEND relationship up again. You guys were friend for soo long so don't ruin that relationship. But just try to talk to him. but don't apologize b/c you didn't do anything wrong, he should be the one that says sorry. But if that whole situation does come up, don't apologize, jsut be like hey i didn't know you actually liked me like me. i didn't feel the same way.

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i just wanna know the name's of some really good alternative rock bands. NO screamo, heavy metal. just alternative rock. i already have fall out boy, panic! at the disco, and cute is what we aim for songs, so you don't have to mention them. thank you

possibly try Valencia...thats my favorite!
Plain White tees
senses fail ( a little screamo though)
Red Jumpsuit Appartaus ( a little scream too)
Say Anything
The Academy Is
Blue October
Emery
Hellogoodbye
THe kiillers
My Chemical Romance
Taking Back Sunday
The used
Yellowcard

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