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i have this friend and she likes our other friends brother so she starts hanging wit her more and i kinda left out. and we're drifting away so wat do u think i should do and plz dont say try 2 talk 2 her thanx (link)
i'd say to have your friend over to your house or invite her to go some where with you. so you'll be with her.


what are the bases? like a guy going to 1st, 2nd, 3rd, or 4th with a girl? I don't know what each one is. thanks (link)
well different people will say different things...but this is about how it is.
1st - kissing and sucks
2ed - making out and feeling eachother
3rd - oral sex, fingering, and handjob
4th - sex


I noticed that when one asks a question on Advicenators or any other advice websites many answers to the questions being asked do not make any sense or the answer that is given is to UPSET the person who asked the question - why
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b/c theres a lot of people that are just stupid and rude


when you are blocking in volleyball, what are your eyes supposed to be watching? the hitter?? the ball?? up at the ceiling?? down at the floor?? or straight ahead???

i'm confused! (link)
Well if your blocking, you will want to be looking at the ball. kinda common sense there =) if you want to block it, you have to be watching it.


i put a question on here earlier, but i still don't know what to do. i got this dress the other day at the mall for my cousins wedding:

[Edit: Link removed to keep from stretching everyone's column. Question has been adequately answered.]

but is it ok to wear to a wedding??? cause someone said that black wasn't good to wear at weddings. i'm wearing a black headband, and black heels w/ it. is it ok?????? thanks. (link)
oowww no, that dress is SUPER CUTE! black is ok, and you should look great. i like it a lot and i think it'll be just fine for a wedding =) then again you shouldn't be the one getting ALL the attention =) hahaha


Im going to paint my room this weekend .Im doing 2 colors, four walls so it was go color 1 , color 2,color 1,color 2. get it ? I either want to do bright orange and hot pinkish together OR light blue and light green together? I cant decide !! Any ideas :/ thanks !! (link)
well my friend has orange and pink in her room and it looks pretty nice, but she did her wall like half and half. she split it diagonal it looks pretty cool, if you know what i mean by diagonal.
But i would do the blue and green b/c those colors togather are my favorite two togahter, but either way it would be nice, and yeah just a though instead of one wall 1, the other the other and so on, to them diagonal, it looks pretty cool


I'm totally clueless on what Hair Straightener to buy. My hair is wavy and it's in between thick and thin hair. My hair is healthy. I want a hair straightener that is at a good price too. My mother probably wouldnt buy me one if it was too expensive. Between $20-$40 is good. Please help me find a good hair straightener that isnt so expensive for my hair type. I dont plan on using it EVERY SINGLE DAY but more than once a week.
Thanks. (link)
i'd suggest going to Wal-mart or any store local even like jc pennys and get a straightner that you can change the heat. the "box" should say differnt settings, just get that one and find a setting that works with you hair. Not tooo hot, but hot enough.


i got a job bagging groceries at a big supermarket a few weeks ago. i still get soooo nervous everytime i have to work, like im scared im doing it wrong, or not fast enough. i dread going and it like ruins my week knowing i have to work. how can i not feel nervous, and not dread it so much? pleaseeee help me (link)
well if it bothers you that much, quit the job and find a new one. But if you don't want to do that...well practice does make perfect, so just give it sometime and you will most likly come more comfortable with your job.


Please!!!!! help. I am a 13 year old girl. I am pretty small (5 ft, 87 pounds). I want to know when I will get my period. I have had pubic and armpit hair for like a couple years and I have had discharge for probably a year. I feel so left out because all my friends have had there period and I have heard that your breasts get bigger when you get your period. WHAT ARE OTHER SIGNS OF WHEN I WILL GET MY PERIOD BESIDES THE BASIC ONES! I am so insecure at this stage of my life and I do not know what to do!! HELP! Thanks (link)
well i noticed that no one said that you mostly get your period more when your 100 pounds. You will probably be getting it kinda soon (like within the year). Don't worry you really can't change when you will get it. & just enjoy it while you don't, b.c lets see...blodding and cramps are very enjoyable :) hahah
Well i hope i kinda helped with the 100 pounds thing (but of course i'm not telling you to go stuff ur face ;) haha)


why do some girls like giving head?
me and my boyfriend we're wondering. (link)
haha good question, as i girl i also think its kinda werid and gross, but i think its the whole making your bf/partner (w/e you want to call it) happy. & knowing that your making him happy, it can feel good.


I lost my camera a while ago--like towards the end of February. I have searched the house from top to bottom, as has my mother, many times. It's no where to be found. I decided that it might have been my cleaning ladies, because my room was a total mess when they left(I'm not saying it was them, just that it's one possibility). But whatever the reason, it's gone. It's May, and she still says that she has some hope of finding it. When she decides that it is gone, she'll get me a new one. And it is gone--we've torn our house apart looking for it. How can I convince her? I want a camera soon! (link)
hmm..wow, well i would just as politly as you could talk to your cleaning lady. Its 3 months later...and sure there may still be a little hope of finding it, but i would say its gone. Just talk to her, and say, ok look i think that we both know that its gone, & you said that you were going to buy me a new one, so i hate being rude, but could you please buy me a new one, b/c its gone. haha idk, something like that, and if you really don't get to talk to her too much, or would rather do this then talking to her, just leave her a note saying that.
Hope that it comes up, or you get a new one :)


Is it true that guys tend to get more emotionally hurt than girls when it comes to trust?

Thanks (link)
hmm...well i'm not really too sure if theres an excate answer for that. But i do think that guys can/do have more trust issues then girls. When a boy losses even a little trust its really hard for them to get it back, but for girls when they loss some (it certain sittuations, of course) its not as much harder for them. Girls will get hurt & its not like they get hurt trust wise, its just plain old hurt, were guys will get hurt more emotionally when it comes to trust.
Idk if you get what i'm trying to say b.c its kinda hard. But since guys mostly have bigger ecos, when they loss trust, they don't think that they can get it back, when girls are more emotionaly hurt.


are there any straighteners men.. there's GHD for men (ultra slim) but are there any other brands/ultra slim men's straighteners out there?
if so...which ones? (link)
umm i don't know if they really make "special" ones for guys...but i'm sure that they really wouldn't be much differnt AT ALL. If your hair is not too long (like shorter than shoulder length) i'd just use a smaller one, like 2 inches or some where around that :)


I got rubber bands for an overbite on my braces 2-3 days ago..and got my braces tightened. How long will it take to get used to the rubber bands? They still hurt. (link)
it should only take a few more days...there really not too too bad and before you know it you'll stop having to wear them :)


so i like this guy and i am pretty sure he like me blahblahblah the problem is now he knows i like him and its kind of awkward to be around him any ideas how to not make is so weird????? (link)
Hmm...well if you like him, and he likes you then whats the problem? haha just flirt with him then things will go from there :)


what does it mean when a girl gets "wet" ? (link)
it means that shes well..."happy" and discharge will come out of her vagina


i know the basics on how to give a handjob,just like up and down, but like where does the girl sit/lye when she's doing it?like i dont want to get into an awkward situation when im giving my boyf one!and i know this sounds stupid but do you actually have to take his pants off?? (link)
You can sit beside him thats fine, make sure you keep it wet by spitting on it or licking it? ANd yes you can take him pants off, and it would prob. be the best


wat is metrosexual?? give me examples of people please (link)
its just a guy that is very in touch with his feminie side, there for actually care what he looks like, wear pink (possibly).


are you more likely to get acid reflux disease if you have bulimia? (link)
yessir


sorry this is gonna be long ok like i need help i have like issues with trusting people like my best friends ok heres the story last summer i used to always be with my best friend(lets call her mary) her boyfriend(lets call him mike?) and his friend(lets call him bob) ok so i liked bob like alot and i was like BEST friends with mike like i would have trusted him with my life. and one night after we all got back from the movies mike told me bob liked me and then like a week later bob told mary that he doesnt like me and he never did. and i dont no i didnt really no who to believe bc i mean i was best friends with mike and i didnt think he'd lie to me and stuff but idk. thats not really the issue. the issue is i cant trust people like i want to but im afraid to bc im afraid that it will end up just like it did with that whole situation. and i like have issues falling for guys bc he hurt me so much like bc i liked him soo much and ever since then i have not liked another guy like really liked. i dont no what to do, because like i want to move on i want to like other people and gain trust back with some of my friends (link)
Well this sittuation is kinda defacult. Trust issues is all personal, and its kinda a thing you just have to over come on yourself. Some things just break peoples trust for others, and its pretty hard to get back, and truth is, if its something that can/does scare you for life then gaining back trust will be pretty hard. But in this sittation its not too too big. Just start talking to other people and your friends, soon your'll find yourself kinda forgetting about the past. The past is the past, so just enjoy now, then again it is called the present :)




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