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trust issues
sorry this is gonna be long ok like i need help i have like issues with trusting people like my best friends ok heres the story last summer i used to always be with my best friend(lets call her mary) her boyfriend(lets call him mike?) and his friend(lets call him bob) ok so i liked bob like alot and i was like BEST friends with mike like i would have trusted him with my life. and one night after we all got back from the movies mike told me bob liked me and then like a week later bob told mary that he doesnt like me and he never did. and i dont no i didnt really no who to believe bc i mean i was best friends with mike and i didnt think he'd lie to me and stuff but idk. thats not really the issue. the issue is i cant trust people like i want to but im afraid to bc im afraid that it will end up just like it did with that whole situation. and i like have issues falling for guys bc he hurt me so much like bc i liked him soo much and ever since then i have not liked another guy like really liked. i dont no what to do, because like i want to move on i want to like other people and gain trust back with some of my friends
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Well this sittuation is kinda defacult. Trust issues is all personal, and its kinda a thing you just have to over come on yourself. Some things just break peoples trust for others, and its pretty hard to get back, and truth is, if its something that can/does scare you for life then gaining back trust will be pretty hard. But in this sittation its not too too big. Just start talking to other people and your friends, soon your'll find yourself kinda forgetting about the past. The past is the past, so just enjoy now, then again it is called the present :)
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