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ulovelele331
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what are some good song about being in love, but we're far apart? i love this guy, i live in ohio & he lives in D.C. and i can't find any songs besides "hey there delilah." so if you know any, hook a sista uppp. (: (link)
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Inseparable-Jonas Brothers
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heyy
well im looking for some love songs
but not the hip hop kind of songs or rapping
im looking for like acoustic or alternative
but nothing tooooo slow.
and it has to be cuuutee too
not a cheesy sort of song
haha can anyone helppp?
pweass and thank youu ;) (link)
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Jonas Brothers-Hello Beautiful and When You Look Me In the Eyes
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i really want a bf really really badly
i'm 15.f
and i've never had one
i usually never care but recently i've wanted one badly
like i feel like a loser b/c all of my friends have had one
but me
and there always talking about them
and i'm there it's really awkward
like i talk to guys but they just see me as a friend i guess
how can i change this??
and usually when i flirt with a guy they flirt with me
but nothing ever really happens (link)
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Hey,
Girl don't worry about it. I'm almost 15 and I've never had one either. I know exaclty how you feel...like exactly. You shouldn't feel like you need to change to get a boyfriend. Just be patient and someone will come. I mean, if you really want one then start getting close to someone you have a crush on. After that if you think he likes you back...try giving hints you like him.
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This guy and I like each other, and I guess you could say we've passed first base. But the trouble is he doesn't want the people we hang out with to know because of this different story.. so anyways, we would always hang out but then this huge rumor came out and it was bad so after it was settled he said we should take it slow. and then we kind of just stopped talking. So I kinda started feeling like he didn't like me anymore. and then one day he said ..are we not talking or something? and I told him that I thought he didn't like me and he was like no I do like you why would you think that?! and I was like oh okayy..sorry..and that was the only time I talked to him that day. and then the next day we texted at night for like an hour. then the next day we didn't talk at all. And I pass him in school, but he just waves at me. I mean I don't understand if you like someone and haven't seen them in like 3 days, wouldn't you want to run up and hug them? If he likes me, he has an odd way of showing it. I don't know what to do. I really don't like how he just doesn't talk to me and I really want to "break up" (I can't really call it breaking up because we're not even going out.) but I like him too. All I want to do is just be with him and I don't think he really wants to be with me. I'm just so confused. (link)
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hmm I don't know what to tell you. Maybe you should try talking to him in school first, just go up to his locker or whtever and start a conversation. I know it must suck to have the weird tension between you guys. Ask him again whats up with him.
Hope I helped!
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ok so my body is maturing and i hate it! like having puberty hair and getting big boobs. i hate it. sometimes i never want to take a shower becase i hate seeing myself naked. i am such a momys girl and i know my mom hates it that i am growing up! i dont want tog row up! i hate having a mature body1 i dont feel ready or mature what should i do? (link)
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Hon, there is absolutly nothing you can do to stop your body from changing. Its part of life and growing up. You are 14, plus theres nothing to be ashamed off its natural. All of us girls go through it some hate it like you do and some just don't care. The ones who hate it eventually get used to the new changes, so i'm sure you will get used to it.
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ok so there this guy and like i really liked him and he liked me. well i asked him out and he said no and i like cryed my eyes out for like a day and all this crap. anyways when i was at softball he was like you make me feel sad. i asked him why and it was because i cryed and i got hurt. i had my friend garrett ask him why he was sad, and he said because i got hurt and he cares about me as a friend. why should he be sad. and then like a cupple days ago i was walking down the hall and we made eye contact and it was reall weird. i mean i still like him but does he like me more then a friend or just as a friend?
please help! (link)
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Your friend Garrett asked him whay he was said and he said it was becuase you were hurt and he cares about as a friend, I think he cares about you as a friend but maybe if you guys get closer he can like you as more than friends. Being just friends it good that way you can get to know each other much better.
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I'm in the mood to watch some really romantic movies, so if you can list any besides the Notebook or Titanic, I'll be soooo grateful! (link)
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letss seee a good romantic movies: a Walk To Remember
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ok so i was just at my friends house. we were all chilling, girls and guys and we started talking about hooking up. i had said that i hadn't been kissed in a year and we were all talking about how depressing my situation was. so one of my guy friends said "i'll kiss you if stacy** kisses john**" (names are substituted). so we all agreed willingly. now i liked this guy friend who said he was going to kiss me but he doesn't know that. so anyways my girl friend and my guy friend kiss. so then my girl friend says "ok now you owe her because she needs it" and my guy friend says "yeah i will later". so he's about to leave and everybody's giving hugs as their leaving because thats what we do. so im about to give my guy friend a hug that i made the deal with and he's looking at me and keeping his head straight forward like he was going to kiss me, so i kiss him, but he doesn't kiss back. so i'm a little confused but i just say bye and go on with watching tv and chilling with my friends. but im really confused because i dont know if he was going to kiss me when he thought the moment was right or if he wasn't going to keep the deal and never kiss me. i feel like an idiot and i want to apologize to him. help me (link)
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ASk him about it be like umm yea you know yesterday...well were you really going to kiss me because i feel rrrreally confused right now? you never know, he could like you and was afaird of kissing you.
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Theres this guy, and i tell him EVERYTHING. Literally. We're in nearly all of each others lessons and sit next to each other in two, and sit close in other lessons. But, the thing is he don't really tell me anything.
How do i find out if he considers me as a friend or just some weird girl who tells him her life stories, coz i trust him and im real honest with him but i don't want to ask him straight out.
Any ideas?? (link)
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Just confront him staright forward. Ask him be like: hey u, do you think of me as a friend or...some girl who keeps telling you everything about her cuz i really want to know.
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i go to a new school, &theres this like party coming up, like a dance.. & my old friend, who yano i love to death, will be there.. but she tends to get a little crazy there, like annoying, like she makes an idiot out of herself. & i dont want my new friends to like think im like that too. but my old friend is super excited about seeing me. so idno, what should i do? (link)
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Well you say you love her to death right? well then who cares if she embrasses herself! You know your not like that and don't let it bother you that maybe your new friends will think your like that because i doubt they will come up with something like that.
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i go to this new school, & i mean.. i want to make friends with some of these girls that are alot like me. but these dorkier girls, who i have nothing in common with, except schoolwork, like always follow me& stuff. & i mean im nice to them & all, but. i really wanna like talk to these other girls. but i feel queer, just going up to them & being like "HEYY! whats up?!" yano?
so what should i do?
how can i talk to these other girls who seem pretty chill? (link)
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ohh i know exactly how you feel. Well get to know the "dorkier girls" you may like them and also, just go up and say hi to them you will still seem pretty chill, the should admire you for ur being brave and walking up like that, and if they glance you dirty looks well girl, they arent worth it.
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Well, this is going to be cliche, and probably alot of people ask this, but I would like some ideas.
Is there a basic line that I could say to a guy while I am talking to him? Perferably something to get him to like me?
Like "Hi ____. How's it going?" Or something like that.
As you can see, I like someone!
Thanks for your help! (link)
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Well, you should be like: Hey! whats up and get to know the person. That way you get comfortable with each other.
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I joined track this year, and there's a boy on the team that is super cute and really nice. I've talked to him a couple times, but barely at all. i doubt he even knows my name. but he seems so awesome... i really want to get to know him. However, i'm ABSOLUTELY NOT going to randomly start talking to him. (please, if you're going to tell me to anyways, don't.) It needs to be gradual, at least until we're on speaking terms. So... tips not involving walking directly up to him and talking? PLEASE? (link)
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Well, you should start making eye contact and smiling. Maybe when you feel comfortable, you will start talking because its not like it will be random cuz you guys have been acknowledging each other.
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Ok Steven is a nice sweet awsome kid but he's one of the 'cool' kids.Everyone likes him and only like 3 girls like him like him..one girl Olivia is already going out with someone and had already gone out with Steven 1000 times!But he keeps going out with her.Alot of people know i like him nad tel me to ask him.Right now stevens single.. but right when olivia dumps mat the same things ganna happen there ganna go back out.. I dont want to be used until someone better comes along..
Should I go out with him and iof i should how should i ask him (link)
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Well, I personally think you should go out with him. I don't know what to say about Olivia but right now shes not with him so go for it. Before you ask him out tho, have you gotten to know him? Maybe you should take it slow before you ask him out.
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