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im so confusied with this guy!


Question Posted Thursday May 17 2007, 7:31 pm

ok so there this guy and like i really liked him and he liked me. well i asked him out and he said no and i like cryed my eyes out for like a day and all this crap. anyways when i was at softball he was like you make me feel sad. i asked him why and it was because i cryed and i got hurt. i had my friend garrett ask him why he was sad, and he said because i got hurt and he cares about me as a friend. why should he be sad. and then like a cupple days ago i was walking down the hall and we made eye contact and it was reall weird. i mean i still like him but does he like me more then a friend or just as a friend?
please help!


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lovelyrose answered Thursday May 17 2007, 8:54 pm:
Your friend Garrett asked him whay he was said and he said it was becuase you were hurt and he cares about as a friend, I think he cares about you as a friend but maybe if you guys get closer he can like you as more than friends. Being just friends it good that way you can get to know each other much better.

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MillyRose answered Thursday May 17 2007, 8:21 pm:
it seems like he cares for you alot but just as a friend. he did say no when you asked him out so i dont think he has feelings for you that way which sucks and its happened to at once to every girl one time or another. i would stay friends with him though cuz if you still like him maybe he will change his mind if he gets to know you better. if not try and move on theres plenty of guys out there. hope i helped and take care:)

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solidadvice4teens answered Thursday May 17 2007, 8:19 pm:
He considers himself your friend but is just not in to you as far as a potential girlfriend. He says he's upset because he know his rejecting you hurt and he feels responsible and guilty for that.

He never wanted you to feel hurt or to cry like that over him turning you down. Treat him like any other friend but move on and find another person worthy of being with you romantically.

Obviously, this guy is your friend and feels miserable that what he said or how he reacted hurt you.

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love1sAmany answered Thursday May 17 2007, 8:18 pm:
Its hard to say... but you know he cares about you and thats always great to know that someone cares bout you.. he loves you but maybe not as a girlfriend yet. if he just wants to be friends respect his decision and make sure you dont make it awkward just act like you are friends like yall did before.. be flirtatious and maybe he will start liking you again.. if you feel the talk to him about it and i am sure it wont me weird and awkward since yall were already good friends

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angelina01 answered Thursday May 17 2007, 8:18 pm:
Seems to me that by him feeling bad that he must have some sort of care for you. What I would do is just be yourself. Go up to him and be casual and talk to him. Let him see that just becuse he said no that your not botherd by it. Make him jelous or do somthing hot to catch his attention.

Angelina

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