My name is Kelli. I Dance. I love fixing peoples problems. I love having funn, and hanging out with friends
Gender: Female
Location: I am from Texas
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Member Since: March 20, 2007
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okay so heres the storyy. I am 15 and am female. I have the most amazying boyfriend and we are soo perfect for eachother. We have been dating since 7-14-07. I know a lot of people say young love never last, that it's just puppy love, but i do love him for real! Believe it or not, the first time i met him, in january 07, i fell in love. at first it was obsession but then when we became friends i fell even more in love with him! it was love at first sight im telling you! =) we became best friend after a while he had realized some things and now we are together. We spent a lot of time together in the summer. We became so comfortable with eachother. We are crazy about eachother. we did a lot of stuff, we kissed did other things, we even had sex! (but thats not all that was on our minds, being with eachother was good too) One day he left hicky's all over my breast! my breast were seriously PURPLE! and i had to hide it from my mom! but my mom saw it. =/ So heres the thing. now i am forbidden to see him or have any contact with him! i can even talk to him in school! (but it do) My mom told me to break up with him. of course i didnt, and we talk all the time, just behind her back. it's so hard sneaking out to see him! anyway, she went nuts and its been about, 5 or less months since this happened and she still refuses to let me see or talk to him! she just doesnt understand us. we do things for a reason, not because were horney or whatever. i dont know if you understand that but we do. And my mom and i used to be real close and now we argue all the time. she wont even let me date n e more! (she said i cant date him till im 18) She keeps telling me im going to forget about him within a few months and he was only using me! well its been over a few months and we havnt done n e thing like that and he still loves me! he respects me. and plus it wasnt like he was pushing me to do n e thing it was my choice to let him! I wanted him to do that stuff to me! i used to get along with my mom and my step dad fine but ever since i was refused to see him i just get angry at everything! i cant stand not being with him! ilove him soo much! but my mom just doesnt care! i tried telling her but shes soo cold hearted and just wont listen and doesnt care how i feel! i just wish she would understand. not being able to hang with him and go on dates just depresses me and gives me anger! i hate having to hide him. i dont want to hide him i want to show him to the world! i want the world to knnow were together! i cant even see him on holidays or his birthday. i cant even have dinner with his family! because of my mom, everything between us is soo difficult. or is it my fault?
do you think this is all my fault, or my moms?
do you think she will ever forgive me and let me and my boyfriend date again before im 18?
Do you think i made a mistake? im just so confused! i've never been so depresed in my entire life! i used to love life, and i still do it's just it would be soo much more complete if i were able to be with my love without sneaking around! i cry soo much now because of this. i get angry at my parents for no reason just because i want to be with him!
I just need advice!! and my boyfriend helps me a lot! he's the only person that does help me get through this. hes not only my boyfriend, he's also my best friend.
i dont know mayb it is my fault. i just dont understand why my mom just wont listen to how i really feel about him. it really is love. it really is. gosh i hope you can help me! =/ im sorry if i made this too long. believe it or not, this is the short version of it. (link)
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i had a similar thing happen to me..
i went to a therapist which actually helped. ask your mother to take you to one then she will actually realize how much pain you are in.. and if you are really that depressed they will give you pills..
if you don't want to do that just at least try not talking to him for a week, it might be hard. but it might be for the best and make you not be as stressed.
your mom can tell you who not to hang out with and see but she can't take him away from your heart.
i will tell you the truth babe, you won't get over him soon it will be hard but even though you think your mom is out to get you she is trying her hard to protect you. tell her you know what is right and wrong and you won't do anything you regret. sit down and talk to her and actually listen to what she is trying to say. it might not be what you want to hear but just see where she is coming from.
i still love the guy i was seperated from and its been 4 months..
if you want to talk about it i will be more that happy to. i actually think it will make both of us feel better. email me at cutiepiekma@sbcglobal.net or myspace me at
x3_gorgeous_kelli_x3
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how can i flip my hair out with my straightener? i have chi if it helps (link)
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when you straightening it just when you get to the end move outwards. if you want to see someone do it. go to google videos and type in how to flip hair out with a straightener
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I THINK i like this guy but i am not sure if i do. is there a way that you "check" to see if you like someone? Help please! (link)
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for me. everytime you see him you can't help but smile at least one. your stomach gets butterflies. you think about him everyday.
you might just be attracted though and just think he is cute hott or whatever. see what happens in the next to weeks and if he is the only guy you think about then you might!
hope i helped = ]
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I feel so stupid for asking this but what does it feel like to fall in love or have a crush for the first time? Please don't say "you'll know when it happens.." (link)
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everyone has a different out take on love. but here is my opinion
everytime you get near the special someone you get really nervous and your stomach clenches
they are in your head a lot
you always smile or you get butterflies in your stomach when you hear their name
you feel the need you always want to be with them
if they are walking your way sometimes your mouth gets dry and your mind is going crazy
you always have to make sure its YOUR decision on who you like instead of your friends. you would know if you really really like them if you dont even care what your friends think.
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One of my friends if having a birthday party and she said that it was going to be a horror movie marathon type of party since its suppose to rain that day(we were planning on going swimming).
Well the thing is.. i hate scary movies. i get scared easily :[ i really want to go, but im afraid that i wont have any fun.
(also, in dont know a lot of her friends since we go to different schools)
what do i do? (link)
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i dont like scary movies too.. and i was exactly in this situation.. haha
you can go and just talk to someone the whole time and not pay attention to the movie. or bring a friend along that she knows too and talk to them and yall can have funn by talking. try to make new friends i am sure someone else there wont be interested in have a scary movie marathon just wanting to go to the heck of it.
so bring a friend or bring your phone and text the whole time. haha hope i helped.
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Well .. lots of lads have been asking me out recenly for some reason and all of them are to good of mates .. but this one lad really really made me blush .. and i told him the same as the other lads that it will ruin friendship and things .. but since then i cant stop thinking of him and i say to my self i dont like him in that way but he wont get out of my head .. do i love him but not realise ?? im really confused .. i have been out with him before but he cheated on me ,, so i new then how much he really loved me ! he has been saying that he does love me like no-one else and that he was sorry for what he did .. im falling for him I THINK i keep saying i dont but i cnt get him out of my head !!!!!! what should i do help me someone please !x (link)
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it seems like you do like him but you don't want to like him. I think you might be thinking "he hurt me once he will hurt me again"
you can try to go back out with him but don't if you don't trust him cause thats what your supposed to do in relationships trust eachother. When you go out with someone it is not supposed to ruin your friendship. i just broke up with my boyfriend and oddly enough it made us best friends. the only reason yall wouldn't be best friends or friends anymore if yall would make it awkward.
so bottom line talk to him about it gain trust in him before you do anything. you make your own decisions dont do anything that you will regret or you wont like.
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yea i didnt know what category to put this under but ya.. So basically i never really had zits i would get like 1 or 2 once in a while that was nothin i really didnt care now im breaking out bad in zits on my forehead, and a lil on my nose. I did find out that i was allergic to chocolate and that it was making me break out in zits, so i cant eat that anymore. once i stopped eating chocolate i didnt get any zits. Now im starting to get them again. I got proactive but that does not even work. I have been using it for about 3 months and nothing, it still looks the same. Well people are telling me that its weird that all of a sudden that im breaking out in zits, because i never use to have any. They are also saying that it could be another thing that im eating that could have a reaction to my face. Could that be it? if so how could i find out what is making me break out, because i dont eat the same things everyday. Can someone please give me an idea on how to get rid of my zits
because its starting to get bad
thanks (link)
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i went through the same through as you. i used proactive and nothing happened then i started using natures cure which really helps you can get it at a drug store.. you might get the pimples from getting too stressed out, sweating and not wiping it off your face, eating too many sweets, your make-up might irrate your skin, or your going through puberty.. any questions ask!
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Color Jamz?
I have huckleberry blue semi permanent hair dye, and crimson red semi permanent hair dye. The brand is Color Jamz, by Beyond the Zone pro formula. Has anyone used this before? if so is it a good brand? what do you think will look better with light/medium brown hair?
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i have dark brown hair and i did huckleberry blue like you are going to do and to be honest it didnt really show up so i had to bleach my hair, once i did that it stayed in for about two weeks it might show up on your hair but dont expect it to be like blue blue
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how come wen i out da pic code in there it doesnt work it only shows two dots and i do be putting in da rite code its da third code for tinypic.com but it still dont work. wat am i doin wrong (link)
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the tiny pic code is too long for it to fit in the caption box so you have to delete some letter from the code for example:
take out everything before
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I am going over this guys house that I like. We are going to watch movies and stuff like that. What do I do. Should i kiss him? What do I wear how do i do my hair and make up. I want to catch his eye.
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Look like you always do unless you want to suprise him wear short shorts and make sure you to go over board do you make-up the same if he likes your hair down do it! When yall are watching the movie "go with the flow" i mean if yall suddenly look in eachothers eyes try to kiss him.. just have fun with
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hi. well the other day i heard a song on the radio, and it was the first time i've ever heard it and the only time i've ever heard it! i even called the radio station to find out what it was, but no one answered. here are the only lyrics i know, and i don't know if they are the EXACT words, but they are close enough. here they are: "i put your hand up on my hip, when i dip you dip we dip". does anyone know what the name of that song is?!? thanks a bunch!!!!!!! luv luv! (link)
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The Dip
by 69 Boyz
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ok so there this guy and like i really liked him and he liked me. well i asked him out and he said no and i like cryed my eyes out for like a day and all this crap. anyways when i was at softball he was like you make me feel sad. i asked him why and it was because i cryed and i got hurt. i had my friend garrett ask him why he was sad, and he said because i got hurt and he cares about me as a friend. why should he be sad. and then like a cupple days ago i was walking down the hall and we made eye contact and it was reall weird. i mean i still like him but does he like me more then a friend or just as a friend?
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Its hard to say... but you know he cares about you and thats always great to know that someone cares bout you.. he loves you but maybe not as a girlfriend yet. if he just wants to be friends respect his decision and make sure you dont make it awkward just act like you are friends like yall did before.. be flirtatious and maybe he will start liking you again.. if you feel the talk to him about it and i am sure it wont me weird and awkward since yall were already good friends
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randomgrl777~were getting yearbooks tomarrow. i dono what to sign. i dont say 'ooooo ill miss you soooooo much seee you next year luv ya' just no. what do i write for other people and my friends especially my bestfriend and i are growing apart now because we both really love eachother. im really rough but thats just me me and him did stuff to eachother but since we love eachother now and he just thinks its offending he doesnt think that since i love him that much id hurt him i dont mean to hed knows it he cant help it. im not sincere ever. but what do i write in his and on my other bestfriends and other people. its tomarrow morning pleeeeeaaasee help me. (link)
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right inside jokes, good memories, and funny things. dont write anything sad cause thats not what yearbooks are for they are for funn memories. to your guy friend just be honest for your best friends or anything put "we should hang out this summer of course!" just no cheesy things you dont mean
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i sit next to the cutest guy in my math class. i want to talk to him, he's really nice but also everyone likes him so he's not really easy to talk to or anything. he was prom king etc.. how do i talk to him? in that class we don't do anything. but it seems like everything he says i have nothing interesting to say back to. i don't think asking questions about him works, it just makes me sound desperate and it gets boring. (link)
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do minor things and build up.. like ask him for a pencil thats not desperate you need something to write with in math!! if he is asking a question to the whole class.. be one to answer him.. if he looks at you smile.. there is nothing wrong with being friendly and smiling.. try diffrent things just know it might not work right away but hurry school is almost out!!
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It has come to the point now where, I just can't eat anymore.
For 2 days, I went without eating food. Not to diet, not to starve myself, just because, I wasn't hungry.
Now, I get real hungry, and get something big, [ like a big plate of spaghetti ] and I'll taste it and basically want to throw it up, but I don't.
This has become a problem for me, and I feel anorexic. Whats going on? (link)
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that heppened to me but mine was for a whole week til my friends forced me to eat and i didnt feel good at all... mine was from stress and i was nervous. cause of a guy. just think about it are you nervous?
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Ok I want to prevent myself from getting a tan..so would I have to go for higher numbers like spf 45? Wouldn't my skin be really oily then? would it be more expensive than other ones? What about ones for my face? (link)
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there is sun tan lotion for neutrogena that is spf 50 and is is pretty expensive but it does not make your skin break out and its not oily.. its for all over your body
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hey so i like this boy so much i almost think i love him but its stupid cuz im only 13 and we have never been together or any thing but i dont know why i like him so much hes the type to make you laugh even wen i dont want 2 smile....thats how special he is 2 me ...sigh....i miss him just thinkin bout him and he aint even mine......it seems like he likes me and he leads me on 4 a while and den i just loose hope. see wat im saying am i a little 2 obsessed?? (link)
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you are not obsessed.... just hang around him alot and invite him places then sooner or later he will come around and start liking you or hey just tell him you like him
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Can someone please give me the lyrics to "life's a song" by patrick park? thank youu (link)
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You say life is a dream where we can't say what we mean
Maybe just some roadside scene that we're driving past
There's no telling where we'll be in a day or in a week
And there's no promises of peace or of happiness
Well is this why you cling to every little thing
And polverize and derrange all your senses
Maybe life is a song but you're scared to song along
Until the very ending
Oh, it's time to let go of everything we used to know
Ideas that strengthen who we've been
It's time to cut ties that won't ever free our minds
From the chains and shackles that they're in
Oh, tell me what good is saying that you're free
In a dark and storming sea
You're chained to your history, you're surely sinking fast
You say that you know that the good Lord's in control
He's gonna bless and keep your tired and oh so restless soul
But at the end of the day when every price has been paid
You're gonna rise and sit beside him on some old seat of gold
And won't you tell me why you live like you're afraid to die
You'll die like you're afraid to go
Oh, it's time to let go of everything we used to know
Ideas that strengthen who we've been
It's time to cut ties that won't ever free our minds
From chains and shackles that they're in
From the chains and shackles that they're in
Well life is a dream 'cause we're all walking in our sleep
You could see us stand in lines like we're dead upon our feet
And we build our house of cards and then we wait for it to fall
Always forget how strange it is just to be alive at all
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ok i think its called missing you but i cant find the one im looking for. i think its by a boy and a girl and heres all i know
since youve been gone...away
im not missing you (link)
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if you just type in the lyrics in google it will pop up.. i just looked and there are many songs like that just check them out..
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