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Well .. lots of lads have been asking me out recenly for some reason and all of them are to good of mates .. but this one lad really really made me blush .. and i told him the same as the other lads that it will ruin friendship and things .. but since then i cant stop thinking of him and i say to my self i dont like him in that way but he wont get out of my head .. do i love him but not realise ?? im really confused .. i have been out with him before but he cheated on me ,, so i new then how much he really loved me ! he has been saying that he does love me like no-one else and that he was sorry for what he did .. im falling for him I THINK i keep saying i dont but i cnt get him out of my head !!!!!! what should i do help me someone please !x
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Allow yourself to admit these feelings for him, but don'r act upon them. At some point you have to protect yourself. Hurt me once shame on you, hurt me twice shame on me. You are a young woman and that means power; we have got to start using our power and demanding respect from men. Yes, he's sorry, but he messed up. You're too good to give second chances for cheaters.
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it seems like you do like him but you don't want to like him. I think you might be thinking "he hurt me once he will hurt me again"
you can try to go back out with him but don't if you don't trust him cause thats what your supposed to do in relationships trust eachother. When you go out with someone it is not supposed to ruin your friendship. i just broke up with my boyfriend and oddly enough it made us best friends. the only reason yall wouldn't be best friends or friends anymore if yall would make it awkward.
so bottom line talk to him about it gain trust in him before you do anything. you make your own decisions dont do anything that you will regret or you wont like.
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Dear You,
If you are fallin for him...well then your falling him. If it hasnt been that long since the problem, then give it more time. Be friends with the lads, but as for that guy....well just try. I wouldnt say that your in love with him, but i would say that you miss him terribly, and you happy he wants you back which is why you cant get him out of you head. Either that or you still stuck on the fact that he cheated on you, and you never really go to say "goodbye". you have to decide. No one can really tell you what would be right or wrong. Its up to you. So hey.....as the line goes..."listen to your heart when hes calling for you". If it says no, then dont get involved with him. If it says yes, then go for it.
~justlikekandy14~
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