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I don't even know.
This guy and I like each other, and I guess you could say we've passed first base. But the trouble is he doesn't want the people we hang out with to know because of this different story.. so anyways, we would always hang out but then this huge rumor came out and it was bad so after it was settled he said we should take it slow. and then we kind of just stopped talking. So I kinda started feeling like he didn't like me anymore. and then one day he said ..are we not talking or something? and I told him that I thought he didn't like me and he was like no I do like you why would you think that?! and I was like oh okayy..sorry..and that was the only time I talked to him that day. and then the next day we texted at night for like an hour. then the next day we didn't talk at all. And I pass him in school, but he just waves at me. I mean I don't understand if you like someone and haven't seen them in like 3 days, wouldn't you want to run up and hug them? If he likes me, he has an odd way of showing it. I don't know what to do. I really don't like how he just doesn't talk to me and I really want to "break up" (I can't really call it breaking up because we're not even going out.) but I like him too. All I want to do is just be with him and I don't think he really wants to be with me. I'm just so confused.
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hmm I don't know what to tell you. Maybe you should try talking to him in school first, just go up to his locker or whtever and start a conversation. I know it must suck to have the weird tension between you guys. Ask him again whats up with him.
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I know it really stinks, but i think that he is really getting caught up in just being a guy. He probably has a lot on his mind, like school, family, friends....the same as girls for the most part, except with girls, they tend to be more emotional. Let me try to make more sense out of that though...
When i was in 6th grade, i started going out with a 7th grader. We really liked eachother and stayed bf and gf. Then he went away to high school, a 9th grader...and i was still stuck in my senior year of middle school as an 8th grader. I got sooo sad when i finally realized "hey, im not gonna see u in the halls...ever." I mean i knew i wouldnt get to see him much, but it really takes a while before things like that sink in. Now, 8th grade and 9th grade is almost over, and i typically go about 3 or 4 weeks without seeing...or hearing from him. But I've learned to enjoy being a girl and enjoy my friends...there's so much more than just him. I still like him, and am looking forward to next year, but i also like the other side of me that i never would have known if i spent every moment with him. Maybe you can find that other side of you too, and even though you get to see him in the halls, focus on your awesome life...only YOU will be with you every second of your life, so really get to know yourself. Stay friends with him and when you sense he's ready, try talking to him. Say "hi..." and catch up on some old news and stories...go to the movies or something. Just have a great time, and remember, you come before guys, so look at life with a positive outlook, because it will make YOU the happiest. I hope this helps. :-D
Sincerely, SlushPuppy
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