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My maturing body?
14 f
ok so my body is maturing and i hate it! like having puberty hair and getting big boobs. i hate it. sometimes i never want to take a shower becase i hate seeing myself naked. i am such a momys girl and i know my mom hates it that i am growing up! i dont want tog row up! i hate having a mature body1 i dont feel ready or mature what should i do?
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There is nothing you can possibly do. We all grow-up and it's part of life. Every single normal human goes through puberty. Since your a mommy's girl, why don't you talk this through with her or some adult you feel comfortable around? They may tell you their experiences or tell you what you may be headed for in the future. Well I hope this helps you.
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Hon, there is absolutly nothing you can do to stop your body from changing. Its part of life and growing up. You are 14, plus theres nothing to be ashamed off its natural. All of us girls go through it some hate it like you do and some just don't care. The ones who hate it eventually get used to the new changes, so i'm sure you will get used to it.
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Get over it. There is NOTHING you can do to stop yourself from growing up & maturing. You're going through puberty. You're going to get pubic hair. You're going to get taller. You're going to get body odor. You're going to need to shave. And you're going to grow boobs. You're also going to get your period.
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As unpleasant as some as those changes might be, they're natural & you can only change some of them. You can shave the hair, & make sure you wash everyday to make sure there's no body odor, but getting taller, getting your period & growing boobs is something you cannot change.
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Why in the world would your mother be upset with these changes though? It's not your fault she made you a girl. It's not your fault you're growing. It's nature that's doing this to you. But don't get pissed at it. Growing up & getting more mature is amazing. You get more freedoms, and you can do more. You're becoming a woman. Doesn't that mean anything to you?
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Instead of seeing these new things as things that could potentioanlly ruin your life; try seeing them as something good! They're positives [except for the period, that sucks], and they're good for you. Just accept the changes. And keep showering. I don't like myself naked either, but that's not a reason to be dirty.
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You can not stop growing up. It's inevitable.
Hair and boobs is the natural beauty of a woman.
You need to talk to a counselor at school or a trusting female relative or older, mature friend. Not wanting to grow up and hating the process is a bad sign of emotional issues.
Mommy's girl or not, no one can stop the process and if your mom is hating you grow up LITERALLY, then that is abnormal and on the edge of emotional abuse.
I think you are over exaggeratering your mom's reaction to you growing up--- all parents "hate" to see their babies grow up to some extent... but not literally,
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honestly, there's nothing you can do about growing up. your body is probably in the middle stage of maturing and so yes, its gonna look kind of scraggly for a while. but in a while it will start to get more shape and figure and you will probably start to like it some more once you give it a chance to catch up with itself.
xoxo helpachick
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