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Does proactive really work? I know its different for certiain people but im just wondering if it worked for you. I dont have wicked bad acne but i have my breakouts. If it doesnt work for you what do you use that does work? (link)
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Yes!! It works amaaazingg. My skin is really dry and I get blackheads, not bad acne but it does work really good and makes your skin feel really really soft. If that doesn't work then, I don't know. Proactive is the best I've used.
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what can i use for my skin that will help these problems?..
-my skin gets really really dry after i wash it/use acne creams (i put moisterizer on but its only temporary and then..
- throughout the day my skin gets really greasy
i have mild acne. my friend said antioxidants really help, is this true?
alsooo my skin is kind of red, especially after i wash it, my acne really stands out because of this.
so what products would be good for my skin? thannks (link)
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I have the same challenge and the good news is, YES, antioxidants work. They are more than 100% good for you, they're like an astringent. I use regular green tea (that you drink) and I wipe my face with it in the morning, then rinse it off.
If your skin is red after you wash it, you're scrubbing too hard. You have to do that gentley, especially if you're using an exfoliant.
I just bought ProActive and it works AMAZING. your skin isn't red anymore, it smells good, looks good, feels good, and it comes with that green tea moisturizer, and that's my favorite part. It works GREAT. If you can't buy that, then just rinse your face with green tea after you wash, then rinse with water (:
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hi.. im 17/f... and ive had a partner whom had herpes... we didnt have sexual penetration but he did rub himself on my part down there... and my question is, can you get genital herpes like that? lately ive been getting these boil like things on my genitals and theyre full of pus =/ sorry for the graphic images just in case... and they leave scars :'( plz help ..also..ive been getting sick more frequently (link)
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Unfortuneatly, yes you can get it that way and by the way you described those boil things, sounds like you have it too. I would seriously get to a doctor PRONTO. Herpes can't be cured, but they can be treated so you don't have to feel the effects of them. Even if you're being treated you can still transmit them.
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16 f okay so i have really poofy hair and since summer is starting i really want to curl it up and i dont have time to straigten my hair all the time so i wanna make it curly but everytime i use gel it doessnt work on my hair it leaves it curly for like 2 hours and then it goes poofy. i want something that would work for my hair its like a little below my shoulders and i really want it to get curly help please i rate!
please dont say get a curling iron a hair product that works is what im looking for thanks! (link)
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I have the same challenge and I just went out today to buy something for it! Try using Pantene Curl mousse or something like that. Their products give you PERFECT everything, and it's much cheeper than the stuff that works just as good from the salons. It's like 4 or 5 bucks, depending where you buy it. Plus, it smells REALLY good (:
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does anyone know a song about either..
saying sorry
best friends drifting apart
you mean so much to me.
anything in that nature please!!
all would be great =] (link)
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Apologize could be a good one by One Republic.
I think it fits almost all three categories
but idk the challenge you're having.
It's a catchy song for sure.
It's actually a love song
forlike, an ex gf or bf
but its still a good song :]
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there's this guy, K, who goes to my school. he's a junior and i'm a freshman.. he's in band with my best guy friend B, they're both on the drumline, so they're friends too. he's quite possibly the hottest person i've ever seen. and he's super smart, and a damn good drummer [ pardon my language d: ]
i tried to get B to hook K and i up, but i found out he had a girlfriend. however, last saturday, they broke up, after going out for about 4 months. i really really like him, but i don't want it to seem like i'm pouncing on him
i got a new myspace monday, and he added me, so i messaged him and said; hey do i know you?
[ i really do know him but i've never really talked to him. ]
he read it but didn't say anything back. yet today in the hallway i was walking, and K was walking the other way, and he smiled at me. i know it was me, because it was during class, so i was the only one in the hall.
how do i get the courage to talk to him, or get him to notice me? i'm a cheerleader for my school, and he's in the pep band, so i see him every friday/saturday night.. and this saturday we're doing an interview of all the freshman cheerleaders [ me ] during halftime.
what do i do hereee? (link)
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I had a similar problem my sophomore year, only my crush was a senior, had a gf of like 5 or 6 months, and he was mad popular and I was just an average girl.
If you're a cheerleader, and he's in the band, that could definitely be an opportunity to talk to him. Maybe you could COMMENT him on myspace and say how good of a drummer you think he is. Talk about school and the band or the school's sports team first. And if your friend is his friend too, that could be a really good chance for him to get to notice you more and more. You coould aslo tell your friend to introduce you and K.
Walk up to B in the hall if he's with K and just start talking to B just dont interrupt them. Then give B hint to say, "Oh yeah, K, this is my friend...*your name*" That should be golden.
Don't let him you know like him until you talk a little more. Just keep flirting with him subtlely. You know, this is almost EXACTLY like my little issue... I'm really not a shy person but he's just so good looking and on the soccer team. Athletic boys are just so cute, dont you think ?
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My boyfriend and I have been together for seven months. This last month has been really rocky, because we've just been arguing on a daily basis.
The 23rd was his ex girlfriend's birthday and that day he kept saying, "You know I'm going to call her and wish her a happy birthday." They never talk, ever. She was so rude to me when we first started dating, she'd always message me saying stupid things, and at one point, she had his little sister completely HATING me.
So, yesterday I had brought it up and I said I knew he had called her because she had told his little sister over Myspace. He kept denying it, and then today I get on his myspace and there's a message that says, "I know it's you who called me, and I wanted to let you know it made me feel really great." I hate this girl. I really do.
I'm so pissed at him. I really feel like this is making me want to end the relationship. Am I blowing this out of porportion? (link)
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Sweetheart, if he's calling his ex girlfriend to wish her a happy birthday, it really shoudn't be a big deal. Just as long as he's not getting too comfortable with her, you shouldn't worry at all. You're not going to like this, but if you've been together for that long and you've been fighting a lot, it could be that the both of you have a few insecurities you need to take care of and clean up. Relatioinships should be honest and open, you shouldn't have to feel uneasy or worried at all about the other person's private business. He's with you, correct? He shouldn't want to be with his ex. That's why she is his ex, dont you think? I know some exceptions apply to that, but honey, you really shouldn't worry at all. I still wish my ex boyfriends happy birthday and merry christmas and stuff.
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I'm a 15/f.
Just here recently, I've gotten to when I slobber/drool in my sleep. I've never really done that before. I use to do it everyone once in a while, but now, I'm noticing that everytime i wake up...my pillow is wet. =/
Anything I can do, that doesn't involve medication?? (link)
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suuurre, duck tape your mouth shut :D
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15(F)
I'll be 16 in a few weeks.(Feburary 7th)
My boy friend is 17 (a year and a half older)
First off I just want to thank all of you in advance for reading. I really appreatiate you taking the time! But please refrian from bias opinons. Please don't judge my choices or tell me I'm wrong. I'm just looking for honest advice (experiance recomended)
ok well let me start by saying my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 6 months. I am totally in love with him and this will sound stupid, but I really feel that he will be the man I marry. He's my best friend, but also one of hte only people I trust. (Here's where you won't judge me! =0])
We're not sexually active as of right now. We do alot of foreply but no sex.
The other night, we were in my basement and we just really started going at eachother. We were both totally turned on. So after a little foreplay, I asked him if he wanted to try to have sex. He always keeps a condom on him...just in case anything ever happens. He said "Yea, but only if you're sure you're ready. I am a virgin, so is he.
One of the reasons I'm in love with him is because the way he looks out for me. He always makes sure I'm comfortable with what we're doing, and that he's careful.
I said I wanted to, so he put the condom on. I was really scared/nervous since I'm no on birth control. He said that he wouldn't cum in me, but he would still use the condom. He also wants me to be on birth control.
The second after, my mom yelled down to tell me something and I felt a little releavied. I just was so scared about getting prenant, I forgot how much I wanted to share this moment with him. I kept asking him what he was thinknig but he seemed to maintain composure. Is his age at all a difference as to why he was so calm?
This has happened a few times in the past week where we have ALMOST had sex. About 3. This was the closest.
So the mood was gone and we stoped. I felt bad because I know we're both ready and he really loves me. A few days after I told him that i felt relieved, and he told me I probably wans't ready. He doesn't mind waiting. He said he'd wait forever.
Sorry for the lenght!
but here are my main questions!
Will he change after sex...will our realationship be any different?
Are there any ways I can approach the birth control situation with my mom?
Will I get pregnant if I'm on birth control, he uses a condom, and he pulls out?
PLEASE HELP!
Sorry for the length
Please don't judge!
Thanks in advance.
I will rate you!
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First off, sweetheart, DON'T BE SO PARANOID! :) Everything will be okay; you're NOT going to get pregnant if you are on BC, you use a condom, AND he pulls out lol...it's just nottttttt gonna happen.
Now about him changing after sex? I don't know because many guys are different. If you've been dating for 6 months or whatever and he's never disrespected you or pressured you ("Come on baby, I know we're ready. I love you") then he probably won't. As long as you feel comfortable with it, then go for it, but if you get really really nervous before you start, then I say you're not ready. YOu nmay be physically ready for it, but not mentally or emotionally. Trust you gut feeling. If you feel uneasy, then don't do it yet.
Now, about your mom and birth control... Tell her that you think it might be a good idea to be on it. Say something like, "Mom, I think I'm getting curious about some stuff and I just want to be as safe as possible so I think I should go on birth control." Or think of something yourself, I don't know how your mom is. If I said that to mine, she'd respect it and say, "Okay, Let's go." Maybe your mom would be offended by your desire to take BC, I don't know...so you say/do what you think is right. I'm just here for some pointers :)
I was 14 and my boyfriend was 17 when I was in this posistion...so I kinda do have experience :] Hope I helped! :]
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what are some things that i can say to my boyfriend to really get him turned on? what's the sexiest things for a girl to say to a guy? i want examples, not just explanations. (link)
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say things like, "I want to feel you inside me." or "I want you to touch me." veryyy softly and seductively. Whisper it into his ear letting some breath on to his ears too. Its guaranteed to send chills through his entire body.
if you've already been intimate together, then tease him a bit by letting him explore your body. sometimes saying things arent exactly the way to turn someone on; actions speak louder than words.
if you must say something, then say other things like..."I love it when you kiss me that way." "Do that harder/faster." "You have such a sexy body...I want to touch it." "I just want to hop on top and give you the ride of your life."
idk...something like that haha. theres not too much you can say if you havent been intimate yet though...unless you're wanting to and dont know how to start off.
hope i was help. :)
you can also go to www.cosmopolitan.com
and read the tips from guys :)
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me(14) and my bf(16) have been going out for a while and a few days ago we walked past this shelf in a store with condoms on it and we started making jokes about buying them. then later that night we were in his room watching a movie, making out, he felt me up, and stuff. then today he told me he bought a condom "just in case". i know im not ready for sex right now cause im too paranoid that i'll get pregnant or get some disease. but i was wondering if both me and my bf are virgins, can we still get an std? and how well do those morning after pills work and where could i get one w/o my parents knowing? thanks in advance! (link)
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if you are both virgins...you CANNOT get ANY STD's. Unless you or him have given someone oral sex that has an STD, you can give it to someone by giving a new person oral sex. Chances are...neither of you have anything. The condoms are an awesome contraceptive. they work just fine...so there's barely any risk for pregnancy. And if you think you might get prego? THe morning after pill is available in limited drug stores and hospitals...but it's not too hard to find. Go to a clinic...everything is CONFIDENTIAL so your 'rents won't know. Hope i helped...
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I think I'm a lesbian. I've read in the Bible that homosexuality is wrong and that if you commit the sin of homosexuality, the you will be sent to hell. But then in other Bible's, they say it is natural and that God will love you no matter what.What should I belive, that homosexuality is wrong, or that it is natural? (link)
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Believe who or what you want to. If YOU think being a lesbian is okay, then so be it. If YOU think it's wrong, then so be it. Homosexuality is nothing but a HUGE controversy...some agree with it, some don't. If you really think you are, then experiment with it. THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT....well, i think anyway. Do what YOU think is right...not what other's think. If they critisize you, oh well. it happens. you can't help who you are...
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ok i am 14 year old and i am over weight! i wanna know how can i lose weight very quickly. i know that diet and exercise is the best way but i want something faster. are there any pills that i can get from the store or what?? i need help because i really want to lose weight but i want it to be done fast!!! (link)
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Aha! I'm not the only one. Key thing here, diet and excercise only work if you want it to. If you're doing to for someone else [like a girl/boy] then your mind is focused on what he/she wants. If you want it for yourself, to feel better [and look better] then it could possibly work. My "easy" way? Breathing. There's a certain program called "Oxycise", and all it is is stretching and breathing, but breathing in a certain way: the correct way. Chances are, if you are overweight, you're not breathing correctly. If you buy the video [oxycise] it will explain EVERYTHING. I lost about 4 inches off my tummy and like 2 inches off my thighs. It really is a charm, and it only takes 15 minutes. And on top of that, diet and excercise regularly. THIS IS GUARENTEED WEIGHT LOSS. I've done it. It's awesome. And you feel good afterwards too!
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16/f
okayy so my boyfriend was going through well still is going through a ton of stuff and i was talking on the phone with him and i started yelling about this thing that happened in the morning (it wasn't my fault at all and i wasn't yelling at him i was just had so much emotion that i was yelling) well he got mad and hung up on me then texted me saying that he had too much stuff going on right now n we needed to take a break. how am i supposed to get him back? like i really want to talk to him and i've texted him a couple times and he has responded but i don't know if he's going to take me back. i have a feeling that he did it because of everything he's dealing with but i'm scared i'm gonna lose him forever =/ any thing i can do thats gonna remind him of me without like talking to him.. suggestionss please!!! (link)
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i just went through this too. maybe he needs space, and he doesn't want to upset you by getting upset WITH you...or maybe he wants you to be happy for awhile with out him "in the way". if he is having trouble with his life, maybe now isn't the time for a significant other. things will work themselves out, i promise. [it just happened to me! it took my ex and i like 4 or 5 months to talk about it, but everything will work out. timing is everything, dear!]
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Whats the best way to study for midterms? Its french, by the way. (link)
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oh boy. midterms, eh? i take french, and my advice is if the book you were assigned to has its own website, find it or search it, and that might be able to help. if it doesn't, ask for extra help with a teacher. it's my third year in french, so i don't have midterms because it is a two year course. but FRENCH IS EASY! if you study, of course.
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Three different people called me emo because I was scratching myself with a tac. No I am NOT trying to be emo because I am way to terified that I will die if I even come close to any razor, or knife, or whatever. But I was just bored I wasn't like trying to be emo or anything. So now those three people are spreading rumors that I am emo. At my school if you are called emo then you suddenly are part of a group of people who die their hair jet black and cut their wrists. I saw that group and I don't want to be apart of that even though I am gonna die my hair black. (i've been trying to get my dad to let me die my hair since I was 7!) also i listen to all the same stuff the emos listen to just because i like it i cant help it if we like the same stuff. what can i do to stop the rumors? (link)
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first of all, there is nothing wrong with being emo. all that means is that you have a different perspective on life; it may not be the best point of view, but at least it`s different. I'm emo...and most of what you said is true, but don`t trip. If people believe the rumors...then that just shows you how low they are and are influenced they are. There probably isn't a way you can actually "stop" the rumors, but you can inform people that anything those three people say isn`t true. Trust me, I`ve gone through a ton of that stuff, and most of it works out. Maybe if you become friends with emo kids...you'll see its not so bad. Then tell the people who started rumors about them and maybe it will change their mind. I hope I make sense. xxx3
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i'm thinkin aboout being a foreign exchange student but i don't know anything about it! i need all of anything you know about it! please help i'm desperate. i also was wondering if you knew if the programs you go through will check out the family you are going to see and see if they are ok if you know wat i mean? (link)
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actually, my dear, i'm not sure what to tell you. i've never been involved with being a foreign exchange student...so you're better off asking an adult. sorry...
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YOU RECENTLY WROTE TO A GIRL TO HELP MAKE HER BOOBS BIGGER: "eat cheesburgers. drink milk. massage them. sleep without a bra. take enhancers. buy VICTORIAS SECRET wonder bra or something, and...(lol) have a guy suck on them. I heard that helps. I went up 2 cup sizes over one summer (3 months) from doing all that stuff.." I WAS WONDERING HOW DOES HAVING A GUY SUCK ON THEM MAKE THEM BIGGER. ALSO WHERE CAN YOU BUY ENHANCERS? THANKKKKSSS (link)
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uh....wal mart? and i don't know, my friend said that she was tiny, and then some guy sucked on them, and then they got like 2 sizes bigger...maybe it works, maybe not. i duno. try it, it feels good!!! ahaha
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lol..i didnt know wat category to put this under but here it goes... im 14/f & i am emo. people think that emo people are freaks. but we are not! we think of life in a different way. my problem is that people are making fun of me. thay call me a loser & stuff like that. i really dont care what people say but there is this girl that keeps on bugging me. she keeps on telling me that she is gonna jump me & stuff. i already told her that i didnt want to start a fight with her. but she wont listen. she is still bugging me.& its getting too far because she has been threatening me. how can i make her stop? thanks 4 your help. =] (link)
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mhmm. i have a similar problem. i'm emo too, AND MAN! THOSE S.O.B's WON'T FREAKING SHUT UP! I MEAN , GOSH! haha. There is NOTHING wrong with it, but appearntly, this girl you don't get along with has a problem with it. Violence isn't the way to go, so to make sure you don't get jumped, hangout with your closest friends who you know will have your back. I know this sounds retarded, and i KNOW you've heard it a gazillion times, but tell someone about it. I told my mom, my psychiatrist, my principal, and my older brother and his girlfriend. The treats stopped for a while. Don't be dramatic about it, because then you'll be labeled the overdramatic emo freak. That's what happened to me. But you know what's funny? the girl i had trouble with got so sick of me, she herself went emo/punk/skater. !%$#&*% POSER! haha. Well if you can't beat them, join them. If the threats get really bad, then tell someone of higher authority. like the cops, but only do that if she like, brings a knife or something...good luck, and don't fight her, she isn't worth it. x333
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ok..im going to say this straight out iv got small boobs is their anything I can do to do make them bigger i heard sleeping with out a bra but so far nothing ? anything i can do? ... and i work with this guy and i reallly want him to ask me out ... how can i get him to do this? (link)
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eat cheesburgers. drink milk. massage them. sleep without a bra. take enhancers. buy VICTORIAS SECRET wonder bra or something, and...(lol) have a guy suck on them. I heard that helps. I went up 2 cup sizes over one summer (3 months) from doing all that stuff. Yet again, it could be heredity. Does anyone in your family have small boobs? If so, then there's not really much you can do...except surgery, but that's not good. And it shouldn't matter what size they are anyway! Guys should like you for...YOU! Not your boobs. haha, and if they do, then...they're horn-dogs and need to get a life. x333
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