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i like him... 14/f
there's this guy, K, who goes to my school. he's a junior and i'm a freshman.. he's in band with my best guy friend B, they're both on the drumline, so they're friends too. he's quite possibly the hottest person i've ever seen. and he's super smart, and a damn good drummer [ pardon my language d: ]
i tried to get B to hook K and i up, but i found out he had a girlfriend. however, last saturday, they broke up, after going out for about 4 months. i really really like him, but i don't want it to seem like i'm pouncing on him
i got a new myspace monday, and he added me, so i messaged him and said; hey do i know you?
[ i really do know him but i've never really talked to him. ]
he read it but didn't say anything back. yet today in the hallway i was walking, and K was walking the other way, and he smiled at me. i know it was me, because it was during class, so i was the only one in the hall.
how do i get the courage to talk to him, or get him to notice me? i'm a cheerleader for my school, and he's in the pep band, so i see him every friday/saturday night.. and this saturday we're doing an interview of all the freshman cheerleaders [ me ] during halftime.
what do i do hereee?
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well, if i were you i would just comment or message him on myspace or something.
I mean yeah he didnt respond to your last message but maybe if you were like hey your friends with my friend B right? that might start a conversation. He probably didnt write you back on myspace because he didnt want to look stupid for adding a girl who doesnt claim to know him...so yeah i would just start talking to him over myspace, then get his screen name or something.. he obviously knows who you are since he smiled at you in the hallway.
good luck.
-katie.
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I had a similar problem my sophomore year, only my crush was a senior, had a gf of like 5 or 6 months, and he was mad popular and I was just an average girl.
If you're a cheerleader, and he's in the band, that could definitely be an opportunity to talk to him. Maybe you could COMMENT him on myspace and say how good of a drummer you think he is. Talk about school and the band or the school's sports team first. And if your friend is his friend too, that could be a really good chance for him to get to notice you more and more. You coould aslo tell your friend to introduce you and K.
Walk up to B in the hall if he's with K and just start talking to B just dont interrupt them. Then give B hint to say, "Oh yeah, K, this is my friend...*your name*" That should be golden.
Don't let him you know like him until you talk a little more. Just keep flirting with him subtlely. You know, this is almost EXACTLY like my little issue... I'm really not a shy person but he's just so good looking and on the soccer team. Athletic boys are just so cute, dont you think ?
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Well you like him and being a cheerleader should get you somewhere if he is in the band. I think that you should leave a few comments on his myspace and I’m sure the more he sees you on there the more he will become interested. Also if your friend is his friend then when you see the two of them hanging out in the hallways etc then just go over and say hi to your friend and talk to your friend – also say hi to him but keep the conversation very limited and leave him hanging – don’t want to look desperate do we now? Anyway the more he sees of you and the more of your qualities you show the more the guy will notice you and etc.
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