lol..i didnt know wat category to put this under but here it goes... im 14/f & i am emo. people think that emo people are freaks. but we are not! we think of life in a different way. my problem is that people are making fun of me. thay call me a loser & stuff like that. i really dont care what people say but there is this girl that keeps on bugging me. she keeps on telling me that she is gonna jump me & stuff. i already told her that i didnt want to start a fight with her. but she wont listen. she is still bugging me.& its getting too far because she has been threatening me. how can i make her stop? thanks 4 your help. =]
caramella answered Saturday July 8 2006, 10:36 am: well if you started off by telling her that you dont wanna fight her and she still dont listen the violence IS the answer in this case....i used to have this girl in my class thatd bug the shit outta me and id diss her out badly shed go home crying and she wouldnt stop till one day....I JUMPED HER AND BEAT HER UP....muahahaha...till now shes too scared to talk to me or even look me in the face you need to look like your not scared of her or shell keep threatining you if a girl like dat threatened to jump me i would say...I DARE YOU then BOOM CATFIGHT
shell respect you like hell after that [ caramella's advice column | Ask caramella A Question ]
x_designerxdrug_x answered Saturday July 8 2006, 9:30 am: mhmm. i have a similar problem. i'm emo too, AND MAN! THOSE S.O.B's WON'T FREAKING SHUT UP! I MEAN , GOSH! haha. There is NOTHING wrong with it, but appearntly, this girl you don't get along with has a problem with it. Violence isn't the way to go, so to make sure you don't get jumped, hangout with your closest friends who you know will have your back. I know this sounds retarded, and i KNOW you've heard it a gazillion times, but tell someone about it. I told my mom, my psychiatrist, my principal, and my older brother and his girlfriend. The treats stopped for a while. Don't be dramatic about it, because then you'll be labeled the overdramatic emo freak. That's what happened to me. But you know what's funny? the girl i had trouble with got so sick of me, she herself went emo/punk/skater. !%$#&*% POSER! haha. Well if you can't beat them, join them. If the threats get really bad, then tell someone of higher authority. like the cops, but only do that if she like, brings a knife or something...good luck, and don't fight her, she isn't worth it. x333 [ x_designerxdrug_x's advice column | Ask x_designerxdrug_x A Question ]
ladym answered Saturday July 8 2006, 6:43 am: There's really nothing wrong with being an emo.You're off to a good start,by telling this girl you don't want to fight her.If these threats are major(like,"I'm going to kill you!"),then you need to tell someone.Even if the threats aren't major,you still need to tell someone.If she still keeps bugging you,just tell her.Be like,"Hey (insert girl's name here),you are really bugging me.Just stop it!"I know this sounds lame but if it can work for me,it can work for you! [ ladym's advice column | Ask ladym A Question ]
Lola answered Saturday July 8 2006, 6:37 am: hey,
Alot of people have been mean to me before, and they used to make fun of me and give me a hard time and stuff. So i guess its the same here in your situation, and all you have to do is to simply stand up for yourself, i mean i think she's just enjoying this.. to come and bug you and be mean to you, and she's gonna keep on doing this because your giving her the idea that you are a weak person and can defend your rights. I personally stopped caring about what people think about me, and who bugs me, i stand up for myself.Because everyone is free to do what he wants.Moreover, if you have a group of friends, which i am sure you do, then you could use their help ,and they could stick beside you and that way she wouldn't come and threaten you or bug you.
If their is any further problems or worries, please be free to contact me. [ Lola's advice column | Ask Lola A Question ]
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