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on a break
16/f
okayy so my boyfriend was going through well still is going through a ton of stuff and i was talking on the phone with him and i started yelling about this thing that happened in the morning (it wasn't my fault at all and i wasn't yelling at him i was just had so much emotion that i was yelling) well he got mad and hung up on me then texted me saying that he had too much stuff going on right now n we needed to take a break. how am i supposed to get him back? like i really want to talk to him and i've texted him a couple times and he has responded but i don't know if he's going to take me back. i have a feeling that he did it because of everything he's dealing with but i'm scared i'm gonna lose him forever =/ any thing i can do thats gonna remind him of me without like talking to him.. suggestionss please!!!
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Hey i went through something kind of like this in a way. The stress of everrything is too much for him..so for now a relationship might be too much for him on top of everything else. I knowww it doesnt make sense..but my bf and i were about for a couple months before we got back together.
At first i took it reallly bad..but then I came to the conclusion that its my senior year and i have to live my life. So i hung out with friends more...and i even dated a little bit. When he got wind of this..he got jealous..and didnt want to lose me. He realized this was it..i could have started a new relationship..it was like a reality check for him..and we worked it out and we are back together :)
Im NOT saying to use some poor guy to get ur guy back..thats not what i did at all..me and him were going in differrent directions ..i didnt think we would get back together anytime soon.
So to sum that all up:
(1) Hang out with friends
(2) If a guy you like happens to show interest in you..hang out with him! Date him a little..you might end up reeally likinbg someone else you never know..and if your guy really wants to be with you that much..he will get his crap together.
I know how frustrated you must feel..you want to help him with everything hes going through..but you just have to accept that there is nothing else you can do. You have to let him work out what he needs to.
i hope it works out for you like it worked out for me :)
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i just went through this too. maybe he needs space, and he doesn't want to upset you by getting upset WITH you...or maybe he wants you to be happy for awhile with out him "in the way". if he is having trouble with his life, maybe now isn't the time for a significant other. things will work themselves out, i promise. [it just happened to me! it took my ex and i like 4 or 5 months to talk about it, but everything will work out. timing is everything, dear!]
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He wants a break..give him a break. If he has many other things going on right now, he's just going to be more frustrated and might possibly get mad at you if you urge him to get back with you so soon.
Just casually txt him and ask what's going on and if there's anything you can do to help. And engrave in his head the fact that you're always there to listen and help and that you'll keep your lips sealed if he wants something to remain confidential. When most of his problem seems to have been solved, ask when breaks gonna be over in a lighthearted way.
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