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sex is hard
Wat do I do if my boyfriend wants to have sex and I do too but i am too shy
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Don't let him pressure you into it. If you're not ready to share your whole body with someone else, then don't. Obviously you're not -- you wouldn't be too shy if you were totally ready. Yes, I understand that you'll be a little shy, but you should probably wait a little while. Tell him that you don't feel comfortable doing it right now, that you're a little self-conscious, and would rather wait a little while. Unless you're totally sure that you're ready. Then just... consider the consequences and use protection.
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If you both have a relationship that is open and you both have good communication with one another, explain it to him before you engage in any activity. He should be aware of your feelings and maybe you both can come up with solutions or ideas that will ease your aprehension. Sex is never good when you are nervous, scared, insecure or have other things on your mind. Don't be shy for there must be something about you that he is attracted to and likes. He is with you and obviously not for all of the sex you both are having, so, it should be easy to share with him your feelings on the subject.
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let him know you want to but your not ready yet and if he really loves you he'll wait until your more comfortable
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Feeling shy might mean that you aren't completely ready to have sex. Ideally, you'll be able to talk over all your concerns with your boyfriend, plan together for birth control things, and also talk about things you might like to try.
If any of these areas present a problem, then the relationship might not be ready to turn into a sexual one.
Why not try talking about something that is not very threatening to you? That way, you can see how it feels to open up to your boyfriend and how he responds - and whether or not you'd like to tell him even more. Once you feel really emotionally comfortable with someone, it's much easier to feel physically comfortable.
Best of luck.
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What you have to do is find out why you're shy. It's a normal and natural thing to get shy about sex because I do whenever my friends talk about sex around me. But if you really want to be with him in that sort of way, you'd forget shame and you'd definitely go for it. That is, I assume as you mentioned above, that you do want to have sex with your boyfriend. It's natural and you should understand and accept that it's natural . You'll get over it, but I really do advise you to find out why you're maybe mildly, or extremely, shy around him. If you're extremely shy, then perhaps you're not ready for that particular day, moment, or time. I don't know but it's all up to you to find out. Just understand that it's normal and that it's natural.
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