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is he honest/?
hello,iam 23 years old female ,my name is amanda
i met a 3o year old man online, and he lives in another country.i havent seen him before but we talked on the phone. from the way he chats and talks with me he seems to be so honest.and iam saying so honest means u can never have any doubt that he could be a liar.
this relation has been on for4 monthes now but i started to lose confidence in him.
2 monthes ago he said is going to travel to canada for his urgent eye operation but after 25 days when he came back and talked on the phone i asked him how did ur operation go?he answered i didnt do it, i was in(our origin country)cus his uncle died and his mother entered to the hospital.i was shocked that if he were in (our origin country)why didnt he call me?
next after one month he said he is comming to (our country)and he will see me but when he came he called as a wrong number just to hear my voice(i guess), and no respond till now, he keeps his mobile off. although iam sure he is still here and didnt travel yet.
what makes him far away from me although he said he is in love with me?
If he is having fun,what he expects to get from me though idont talk love with him and i dont even say that i love him.
how could i know that he really wants me?is he honest.plz i need your advice
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Okay well you really don't know this guy so if you accually meet him in real life he could rape you or whatever. There have been cases like this so just be on your guard.
I really don't know how to help you with your "relationship" besides saying that it isn't real and go find a real boyfriend who you accually know. no offence. don't rate, please.
!~*becca*~!
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Long distance relationships can get kind of screwy. It's easy to keep things away from your partner that you are uncomfortable talking about. Weird things happen, I've been in a long distance relationship before and I had a really hard time with it but we pulled through. I don't think that he's a liar and I do believe that he cares about you. He could be really nervous about meeting you. Who knows, but I would say to give him the benefit of the doubt. Just keep talking to him and asking him why he's doing these things, try to get him to give you concrete reasons why he's not being completely truthful. Try to get him to meet you sometime. If after more than 4 tries or until you've had enough, you should probably break it off with him. He could be married or gay or anything really. I do think that he cares about you and is being honest though. I hope that everything works out between you two and good luck!
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OK.so me and my friend can't even trust the people who live down the street from us and I'm not saying that internet people are bad I'm just saying that you don't know what you're getting yourself into.He could be a murderer for all you know but good luck!
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To answer your question straight up...No, he is not honest.
If you even have doubts about his honesty, which after what you've explained, you should have doubts, move on.
He sounds a little creepy, calling you just to hear your voice, not turning his phone on so you can get in touch with him...etc.
In this day and age you can meet so many people online, some are really serious about meeting someone, others are just serious about playing games.
Easier said than done, but try not to give him one more thought. And if he contacts you again, don't respond. Don't ask him why this and why that. He'll just give you more confusing answers...and you'll be stuck wondering what he's up to, again. You don't need that.
Move on, let that one go his own way. You can do much better than that!
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He was just playing head games with you. Forget about him... he obviously doesn't care for you. He likely lead you on because some men have insecurities that just...cause them to do it. It's pretty stupid but it happens. Long distance relationships are always hard...try to forget about this person and find someone closer to you..
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