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my bff and another guy
my bff has been my bff for as long as i can remember. but since we've been in high school she has really gotten inot the party scene and sexual thing. i do the party thing. so idc. but what has been bothering me is she doesnt care who she hurts, if she wants it she'll do it. my other bff, she is into two guys. both of which are bad guys that arent loyal no matter what. well my 1st bff was at my party last night and she had sex with my 2nd bff's man. one of them. and she told me to not say anything. but i hate this. it happens between the two of htem all the time. what can i do.
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tell both of your best friends that you don't want to be involved or get in the middle of their fights because it puts you in an awkward position .. this way you will prevent hurting both of your best friends & youll stay as loyal as possible to both of them.
as for your 1st best friend, you may want to distance yourself from her a little if shes doing these kind of things and backstabbing your other best friend. because chances are if shes backstabbing her - she may be backstabbing you, too.
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I agree with the other people about you sitting the down together and talking to them about it. Because it is not fair that should be the middle man in this situation. So you really need to talk to them about it and tel them how you feel.
Good Luck!
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If I were you, I'd talk to them both about it in a group, and see what happens from there. Tell them that you care for both of them and that you hate to see them hurting one another and themselves like they do. Try to make it seem more like you're just a worried friend than accusing anyone of anything. If it continues to happen, I would suggest to ignore it and try to stay out of the middle of it, even if it seems impossible. It's not really your problem, as long as you are a good and loyal friend to both of them. Listen to both of them when they want to talk, but don't offer your opinion and try to stay unbiased. Staying out of the drama is the best way to cut the tension and awkwardness for you.
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well first of all i think you need to just sit down with the both of your friends and have a discussion with them and some things might be different if they haven't been friends with each other as long as you have with them.if your friends really care then they will listen to what you have to say.i mean your first bff can find someone else and show some respect for your second bff.just tell them that you want and need things to be better for you all to be friends.
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